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    Can you have too much going for you? Does that hurt?????

    well i can't really say "doing far better". It's just i'm not looking for the same thing I was looking for before. I just wanted to you know before. That isn't even hard actually, even if they have some kind of bf back home. Right now I want to settle down but it just aint working. Anyone...
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    Can you have too much going for you? Does that hurt?????

    Hi, Lately I've been a bit pissed. Nothing with women seems to work, I've gotten sick of "short term benefits" type relationships and I wanted to settle down. But for a whole month nothing is working out. It seems every friend I hang out with has a hot girlfriend except me. Of all people, I...
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    For your amusement....

    I know one person who wanted to go to a class "because there were hot asian girl....so I can stare at them." Also (same guy): "I can't approach a girl I don't know, after I leave, they will think who is this weirdo". Basically, whoever thinks they're bad with women (right now), you can't be...
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    Have no DJ friends, what can I do?

    I did. He should not even tell a joke like that.
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    Have no DJ friends, what can I do?

    Hi, College girls are way too easy, its almost no fun. Seriously, some girls can pick you up here.....its almost no fun. In college, get them to laugh, tell them their pretty (works in college at least) and get their number. Ask to hang out, go over to their place, done! However my only...
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    What do you do for a living?

    Just out of curiosity, what careers do you have? I'll start: I'm a student and an entrepreneur. I also work part time as executive director of a non profit. It's alot of hours, but I feel good doing it.
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    What worked and didn't work for being more confident.

    Hey, thanks. For anyone who needs to "toughen up" quick, I reccmmend doing some kickboxing rather than traditional martial arts. I do traditional martial arts myself, but it just takes way too much to learning if all you want to do is toughen up quick. Kickboxing and stuff like that is...
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    What worked and didn't work for being more confident.

    I don't usually post much, but I just needed a break from what I was doing. For the past 13 years I was probably the biggest loser in the whole school. However, right now after alot of self improvement, people go wow to me all the time. I worked hard okay, it doesn't come without some...
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    Advice on college transfering

    I never thought of it that way. Thanks, good point.
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    What to do?

    She wouldn't be my first gf and I'm not really having a hard time attracting women. I wouldn't agree that its an insecurity issue, I think I'm fine the way I am and I can't say I would trade my life with anyone I know in person (of course billionaires and celebrities don't count, who...
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    What to do?

    I apologize for the length in advance Hi, I am currently a freshman in college. I wouldn't say I'm extremely bright, but I work hard and have accomplished quite a bit for my age. For example have my own business (not one of those little kid ones, I actually do some deal making with big...
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    Advice on college transfering

    Hi, this is primarily for the older/more mature folks who have gone through more than I have. This isn't really about women and that's why I posted it up here. I am debating whether they change universities. I am currently studying engineering but I find I really hate it. There is a much...
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    How to develop a tougher and less "nice" image?

    It seems like I have always had a problem with this. I am not un I believe that most girls label me a "nice"(nerds kinda the wrong word because I've had girls like me) just because I am smart and do well at school. I mean, I still have had girls like me, so its not that I'm unattractive but I...
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    has any fat ugly person here

    I've seen it before. Definitely possible (and the guy was asian while the girl was white so they were NOT brothers and sisters).
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    What do you think is more alpha: martial arts fighter or sportsman

    Hi, I am going to college soon and I was wondering which of these activities i should focus more time on (since time is so darn scarce). I was thinking of either getting into muay thai competition(don't worry i've done martial arts for many years) or college basketball or something. Which of...
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    What's the difference between "she likes you but is just shy" and "she doesn't like u

    Hi, Out of curiousity, how can you determine the difference between the girl being shy in your presence or just blatantly doesn't like you? I never seemed to be able to tell, as both have seemed to be just straight out cold and unreceptive to anything I do (e.g. even the best jokes aren't...
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    why do some girls mysteriously lose interest

    yes elaborating on that would certainly help
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    What is success rate in convincing a girl to dacne at clubs

    I am just wondering how many yes/nos do you club goers have in convincing a girl to dance with you. If she either blatantly refuses and seems really disinterested, count that as a no. Anything else (e.g. she stops being interested in you afterwards), count that as a yes. I am just curious as a...
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