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The reason I am keeping my distance is not so much because I don't want her to think that I am trying to be her boyfriend, but not to get attached. I have the gut feeling that she is a bit of a female player and could be ****ing multiple other dudes. Or it could be my bad past with some BPD's...

At the moment I am taking things slow. Not blowing up her phone with texts etc since I am sure what happened between us also caused a stir in the relationship with her boyfriend. On the other hand I don't want to seem too aloof and disinterested since she may see it as a sign that I was only in...

So, update! Made my move after 2 dates and got some action. She confessed of having a boyfriend and that their relationship is not going well. Told her it is none of my business, don't care at all, and got to fourth base within a 30 minutes. The issue is that she has started asking questions...

Yep, I see the red flags. I never said I was thinking of her as girlfriend material, more of a fling thing.

Sorry, but I disagree. She initiated most advancements. If it was not me it would someone else in my place.

Yep, I agree. I didn't plan to mention or ask. Was just curious as to why she hadn't and if it is a sign that she may be interested.

So I met this girl that seems to be very in to me. A lot of flirting, smiles, texts, asking questions, invading personal space, staring, and so on and whenever we are out with common friends she seems to be giving me a lot of attention. I know from Facebook that she has a boyfriend who lives...

Its not easy to stay detached in these cases. Normally I do not get attached, but with this one the constant texting, messages declaring interest, compliments etc its easy to get sucked in. To be honest it is the first time I encounter such a woman and was not prepared for the sudden change in...

Yes, I was also thinking that she may be cheating or just wants to keep her options open (to patch things up with ex or maybe be perceived as single for other guys). Ye, I know that texting thing was very rude, but in the beginning of things I try not to be too obsessed about that kind of...

What surprised me was how quickly her interest level changed. One moment she is telling me how hot and sexy I am and that she wants me to go with her on that business trip, the next tshe is ignoring my texts and uploading photos of her having a good time. Almost as though she is trying to...

No, she is pretty attached to her family. Visiting them very frequently. She didn't mention anything about abuse.

Thanks for the input. I was thinking that maybe it was just a rebound since she told me that she recently got out of a bad relationship. She described her ex as a psycho which I thought was a bit weird. Also she did not only lose interest suddenly, but started becoming patronizing, sarcastic...

Hi all! I recently had this short dating experience that left me dazzled and confused. Please excuse my long post but I am trying to give some detail. It’s just that this story is unlike anything I have ever experienced and is really confusing me since I feel like I have met two different people...