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I was planning to set another date I waited till Wednesday evening to send the email. In hindsight, I can see it sounded a bit needy but it was the distance thing that me do it. However she is to blame as well, on the saturday, complimenting me throughout the day - ie 'you are really sexy'...

OK, last friday I met a girl as I was out of town 200 miles away - we had met on the internet and I arranged to go up there as I also had a friend who lived in that place. Anyway this girl is absolutely stunning - a 9 out of 10. She told me that she had been single for a while and had recently...

anyone got any thoughts ?!!!!!!

Well I am going with the girl I talked about earlier to horse racing on saturday - I was just wondering if it would be AFC to bring a picnic? Its the first proper date but we have already kissed. I like the idea but think it might look a bit too eager to please. views please!?

The best way for me is to masturbate before the phone call and then straight away ring. Why? Cos the one time we men dont think about sex is straight after orgasm. Ring her up and she wont sense your desire and you will automatically be more relaxed.

Thanks New Man, I said I was going to pick her up and take her there? Is that too AFC, should I make her come to me and then we go? She is only young and I do feel that would be a bit mean. If I see older girls I always get them to come to me but this is a bit different.

wow! iqqi - thanks for that and actually your words ring true to what i actually said. She called at 11:45 pm tonight saying ' sorry i couldnt call you back earlier i was out with friends' Now in my book that is about as keen as you get and if I told you lot a girl had left a message for me...

Its still totally winding me up though :( Does anyone agree with what I did?!!!

New man - thanks and I totally agree with you. I just behaved differently because SHE opened up so much and because of my reputation/group situation. I am really annoyed with myself now. Oh well, forget it, if she wants me she'll call and if shes that flaky because I behaved like a man then...

Cheers Walden Julian - yes I would wait but I felt this was a different scenario. I thought how brave she had been telling me all that - it must have been very difficult for her. She also said that night how much she HATED players who acted like wankers. Maybe I should have waited another day...

I have been following the rules on here for a while and would like to think I have become a bit of a Don Juan. I can get dates and sex relatively easy from girls. By following these rules and not being AFC ie beeing cheeky, naughty, going for kiss after 1st date everything has worked out. Sadly...