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Thank you for the encouraging words! This makes me feel a bit better. I know I have a lot to work on with tightening my game up. Yes, her leaving at that time really blindsided me. Didn't think she'd be that upset. I think that's what caused me to write a post about it and ask the experienced...

Just a text exchange where she said she would be open to maintaining a friendship after processing my text message more (I asked for it in a text before that when I disqualified myself as looking for a relationship; which is dumb of me now that I think about it -- makes her feel more like a slut...

Harsh write up, but I think this is what I needed to hear. What I bolded is gold, for me. I don't know how I lost awareness of that situation. Hard lesson learned, for sure, since I really liked this girl. I appreciate you taking the time to write this up!

I'm here to learn. Aside from cuddling, deep diving some more, and building more comfort, was there something else I could have done? I'm here to learn from you guys. :)

Very thoughtful response. Thank you for taking the time to break down and respond to different segments of my post. This makes it easier to move forward.

Fair enough. I just chalk it up as a woman being a woman. She just was honest about it with me. I don't always believe the body count women tell me, but hers seem reasonable enough since she was married until about 3 years ago, and she lives in a small town (not a lot of potential mates). She's...

Met on a dating site months ago. Live a few hours away so no shared social connections. But texted and spoke on the phone a lot. Think we got it in our heads that we would be great friends since the distance was a factor. So there was a foundation of mutual respect there before this night happened.

That would've been fine, if she didn't leave so early in the morning feeling flustered and guilty about what just happened (sex without condom). Obviously this girl likes me enough to spend so much time and energy talking to me, and then sleeping with me. But I guess it's hard to say just how...

I actually think I f'ed her too hard. That maybe for the first time, it was better to keep it more vanilla. Should have definitely kept the condom on both times. But since we're both into this whole "spirituality" thing, I should have kept the sex more present. Less getting lost in instinct...

I did **** her senseless. In the last 25% of the seduction. She's talked about Tantra in the past. And a hookup she shared with me mentioned how nourishing and healing it was. I didn't want to be just be a **** for her, had to leave my mark, and be both the sensitive and the animal.

We've been talking on the phone and texting for months (I know, bad move), but never had a chance to meet up since we're a few hours away from each other. She did invite me about 4 times before, but were usually short notice so I couldn't commit to it due to distance. The connection was there...