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100% true, once these girls feel like they have you, they lose interest

you take her back, she will eventually turn the tables on you and dump you if you aren't proactive in dumping her again first

Look, no one is debating the general attitude on sex here. We are talking about different things here. I am talking about why count matters as it generally affects a woman's ability to bond as proven by studies, and you've provided ZERO to refute that outside of saying count doesn't matter...

isn't it funny how a girl can bring up relationship talk so early on and we just logically think about it...analyze the pros and cons in a rational manner but when a guy brings up a relationship talk very early on, the girls completely do a 180, pull away, and get overly emotional about it...

It's not meaningless, it's an actual fact. The higher the partner count, the higher divorce rate. Many men will talk about how perfect their GFs were and how all of a sudden their women all of a sudden changed into someone they never even recognized. Just because the girl seems cool now it...

http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html the above breaks down a study on this There are other studies which verify this. Yes, even sloots want to settle down but getting serious with them is statistically much more of a risk.

Not the point we are making, point is, that I'm making at least, is don't take a girl with high numbers seriously. Don't think of them as marriage material. Studies show they are generally less able to bond and divorce more. It's a fact. Spin them, have fun with them, yes, but don't take them...

there's a difference between being nice and being a "nice guy" where you think kissing a girl's ass with no spine of your own will get you laid. being nice is good

is your gf a ho or something i remember when i tried dating a huge ho, i had to constantly rationalize like you. in the end, a ho is a ho, and not all attractive girls have high numbers. it still doesn't change the fact that the more d1ck a woman has seen, the less she is able to bond and...

get your head together, man. She was only suppose to be a fling and it sounds like you already like her. she isn't LTR material, not even sure if she is plate material Whenever you think a girl has been really fun, it's because you have had a dry spell. She isn't that interesting...most women...

honestly you both sound really immature here, i wouldn't date for a while, work on yourself, and not put yourself in that kind of position again

Yeah, I dated a girl with over 10k followers on instagram for 2 months. If you like her always talking about the different guys that texted or snapchatted her or her talking about all the exes trying to get back with her and texting her while using her sexuality as a means for validation and...

Yeah, it's all our fault if the girl cheats...nothing to do with her character or anything.... There's a difference between taking someone seriously or for fun. If it's seriously, sexual partner count is a very important if marriage is under consideration. The statistics back me up.

The other thing, oh man. One girl I was dealing with was acting like a madonna, then I found out from a friend of hers she used to try and force guys to sleep with her in high school. High partner count, at least 25. Don't be the chump that tries too hard to get in the pants of these girls...

I agree that some of these girls can make decent relationships and handling them/walking away if issues arise, however, I still wouldn't take them seriously or get too attached.

The problem is even when you throw the studies at guys here, they are still in denial acting like it doesn't matter. They think if they have enough game, status and whatever they can keep these girls committed. The problem is these girls are usually nuts and have unpredictable behavior. Game...

No one said it did affect all women all the same, but it is a red flag. There's nothing wrong with generalizing to try and gauge a person at first without much information at hand. I don't think you need to ask. You know kind of just know if a woman has a high partner count or not by the way...

No, it's not hypocritical because it is a different situation. Sexual partner count affects women psychologically much more than it affects men, studies back this up.

i honestly don't see what saying that would accomplish. just hang out with her, let her do most the talking, be fun to be around, tease her. Don't try and attract her with logic, doesn't work...girls are dumb like that

My opinion is that if a girl has a high sexual partner count, at most, PLATE HER and if you feel you are getting attached, drop her. If you're the type who wants a true LTR with a woman that can progress into a stable marriage, you need a woman with a low sexual partner count, period the end...