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I didn't realize that Doc Love was charging $200 in the early 2000s for his book. I didn't buy his book but I read some of his internet articles. They were helpful in my early days of awakening. He only died in 2020. I thought my way into good action. I was raised as a blue pilled, beta male...

Thanks for sharing your story. I think that the vast majority of people conduct their lives with their childhood or college crushes because they never get into trouble or lack the bravery to break relationships even after they fall apart. Usually, the "wake-up" call comes after a breakup or an...

Doc Love was right about 80% of the time. However no way I was going to pay $200 (20 years ago) for his book, LOL. I did listen to his radio show. He died more than 10 years back BTW. There were other early guys in the seduction community that used the term interest level as well. I still use...

I think communication has some value in romantic relationships. There are times where it can benefit the interaction. It isn't the key to relationships. This is true. In the seduction community, the concept of interest level is long standing. Doc Love used to mention interest level in his...

Lets be more specific. First we need to define middle age. I always found it odd as meaning in your 50's...who lives to over 100? However I can share from personal experience. I just turned 45 when my son was born, my wife was 30. I was a total gym rat and competed in bodybuilding and trained...

I did watch the video and it touches on a lot of different points. This is a 55+ man discussing the experiences of 55+ men who have found themselves single after a divorce. Rarely is he discussing the experience of the life long single male. The 55+ men of today are Boomers and and Gen X'ers...

It's worthwhile to note that every movie that gets nominated for Best Visual Effects at the Academy Awards uses Houdini. The first movie made with Houdini was Jingle All The Way in 1996, but before that it was called PRISMS, and the first movie made with PRISMS was Flight of the Navigator in...

They don't understand because they can't relate I don't mean it as a insult. I used to view money the same way. But living in a nice condo or apartment can do a major difference for your dating life. Are you buying the condo for women? of course not you buying it to live in a nice area to rest...

The average age of marriage for women in the US is 28 years old.

...school. A woman who went to a basic state level public university is less likely to be careerist than a woman who went to an elite private college/university. The academic reputation of the university matters. With that said, there are plenty of graduates from public universities who are...

EEEH wrong let's look at the numbers (I cite my sources so you can see I'm not talking out of my ass even though I make 6 figures) 125K places you at the top 5%-25% in America depending on the state(Dallas although is a city is in America so you can include it). The average salary for an...

I've been hearing about emotinal investment a lot recently and i agree with you. Men who just spin plates and are afraid of commitment maybe cannot understand emotional investment. I think you talk sense in what you say about your sons LTR. I see a lot of women find their man and start looking...

In conventional dating, having an above average annual salary isn't going to mean much. While money tends to matter more in the seduction effort for men 35+ (either pursuing younger women or similarly aged women), it's only around the 95th percentile where the effect becomes more evident. This...

You are most certainly sharp and, IMO, have an excellent understanding of seduction. You have been on this forum for 4 years, what are your goals? At some point I would like very much to get feedback from you on some of my work. I think an area where I am particularly strong (and also an area...

By the early 2000s when I was in college, Gottman's work was discussed in various social science type classes. Gottman is now 81 years old and I believe he's retired. I only remember studying parts of his work in certain classes. It's amazing that Gottman would do that from a psychological...

You mention Gottman!!! Gottman is the main guy I am referring to when I say that academia is finally recognizing brain differences between men and women. I have only read overviews of Gottman, not his full books so I don't know if his relationship advice is any good. Gottman DID claim that there...

@Rainman4707 Responding to a page of the old lady.... Honestly I think Rollo has a narrow view. I know there exist women who fit that belief/value system, but certainly not all women do. Perhaps Rollo's beliefs reflect his reality and experience as a married man. Some thoughts: His...

That was the point that Myron and Rollo made. PUA types like Nick Krauser have far more value than academic types like John Gray. John Gottman (a famous relationship psychologist) has had some insights on predicting divorce. From what I know of Gottman's work, I doubt he's ever really delved...

You are a very thoughtful guy....I am really glad to have met you. Here are some comments upon your post. When I was young, I actually was naturally Alpha and fairly naturally good with women. I often had the hottest GF around. I was a bad boy...wrestled in high school and became a nasty bar...

I agree with all of this. Few men will naturally be able to figure this out. The guy who gets attractive women in high school or even college is rare. Majority of males struggles through these phases. Many need to make a lot of effort just to get one mediocre girlfriend during these phases. I...