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Day 28. Amazing how NC does make you come back to reality. Ended up drunk on the weekend and talking to a friend who I've not seen for a long time about the whole situation. He knew my ex well also. Shouldn't of spoke about her full stop really but in a way, it's helped even more. Just cemented...

Day 25 Feeling stronger by the day. It's taken a hell of a lot of self control not to attempt contact. Especially after she tried to initiate a week or so ago. This is the longest in 6 years we have gone without talking so it's been tough! I no what I want from life and if she doesn't want to...

inspiring words! It's so true. I was left for someone else, whilst being in a relationship which I thought was normal. Clouded by my unconditional love for someone who didn't appreciate me and what I did for her one bit. Granted I was guilty of getting to comfortable in the relationship and did...

Day 19. Complete indifference. On a course to improve my job prospects, tattoo on Monday, booking driving lessons. Life is on the up! I don't need her or even want her in my life anymore. She was a negative influence not a positive. This forum has helped me a lot. Everyone who's doing NC, stick...

You say she was 'cheating in the worst possible way'? Stay away and go NC. She isn't even worth one more breath if she's been cheating on you. No mm

Day 15 Got a text last night again with the same 5 letters I received last time! 'how r u'. NO REPLY from me. I made my feelings perfectly clear the last time. 10 minutes later 'fair enough, hope u ok anyway'. No reply from me and I never will. That was a turning point for me, seeing the text...

Totally understand your thought process! I was the samw for 5 or so weeks. I cried for hours asking myself how could she do this to me after everything we've been through and the amount of years we shared?! I was led on for weeks, maybe even months with at the very least an emotional affair with...

You are so right! I'm looking back now and realising already! Here's to the next 50 days and the hundreds to come! I'll keep you posted on my journey. Thanks for your support!

Day 10 Hi guys. Back again! No contact since the last time. Asking me 'how r u' in a tezf message. Still couldn't even wish me all the best for my life or nothing so I'm not interested anymore! No break ups are good but when you give someone the opportunity to leave with a bit of respect and...

Well I replied. Just said do not contact me unless it's about reconciliation. I don't need small talk about how I am. I'm feeling great and moving on. Just respect my wishes. I received no reply so that makes me feel good and not bad so that's something? I don't feel any want or need. That was...

Day 5 She texts me saying. 'How r u' ? Should I reply or will this show weakness and is she trying to mess with me? I don't get it.

Day 5 Day 5 nc. Wake up at 3:20am every morning thinking about her! It was longing for her to start with, now it's thinking about how badly she's treated me and how I deserve better! I suppose that's a positive wouldn't you say? Only time can heal this. I'm still a mess but I'm definitely...

Seems to me like he's keeping you on the back burner till your replacement is 100% guaranteed. My ex did this to me after telling me she needed space to sort her head out. Then told me she loved me and how I'd never lose her. 3 weeks later she's with a new guy and he's the best thing since...

I am in the gym and have been for 2 weeks or so. It's definitely helping. I have a new diet, spending as much time with friends as I can between work and even booked myself for a tattoo next month! I'm by know means stagnant in my efforts to move on. I am over the break up, I am over her up...

Sorry for ranting people. I'm definitely over our relationship and over her and my feelings for her are dwindling by the day that's for sure. What I hate and can't seem to come to terms with is the blatant lies and deceit and the using of my good nature as she knew I would of broken my back for...

The way she has treated me is someone devised of all emotions and feelings. We are each other's first loves. She's treated me like a complete stranger and has led me on and on. There was NOT ONE sign, she behaved completely as normal. Even made a point of staying the night she got back from our...

I see your point Mauser96. I am just finding it so hard to get over the lies! A lot has changed in my mind. When I think back now there's a thousand unanswered questions. To lies I now no she told. Its not the not loving me or even the break up that hurts. Its the complete lies and deceit and...

If I post my story, which is very lengthy, are people out there willing to read it and voice opinions? I really need some advice on this. It's the lies and deceit I find so difficult to come to terms with. If anyone is willing, I will post it up, just let me know and I'd be eternally grateful...

Hey guys I'm back! Started NC a while ago but broke it 10's of times. I've had just about all I can stomach from the girl I USED to adore. DAY 4 NC, I will not breakdown ever again and contact her. Little background, Anyway I iniated no contact. I left it a week beforehand and asking her if she...

Day 6 Feeling more confident in my self that I will not break NC now. I'm slowly healing, hitting the gym and keeping busy with positive people around me. I still miss her like crazy but there's no urge to re-open my healing wounds. I no it'd be going backward in instead of forward.