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    Any other guys grow up without a father figure?

    Well said, friend. Some people watch other people F*** up and say "that must be the right way to do it." Other people (smarter people) watch people F*** up and learn much the opposite. We're all gonna make mistakes, but it silly to make the same mistakes our parents did.
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    Any other guys grow up without a father figure?

    I had a great dad. He was the typical logical provider, and did all kinds of great things for people that I still hear about today. When I was 15 my dad died suddenly of a heart attack. As a result, my mother became extremely depressed and began drinking... she drinks to this day. Psychologist...
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    the cycle of bi polar/borderline dating, and hopes of escape

    Yesterday I spent some time with a girl I dated a while back. It was pretty apparent that she wanted to have sex. I couldn't do it... My heart still, somehow, belongs to my ex. It sucks. I want to be over it; to just let it go, but I spent three years with her. She was my best friend, and now...
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    the cycle of bi polar/borderline dating, and hopes of escape

    Mauser, Thanks for some perspective. I wasn't always this way. Before I got with her I had really high self esteem and tended to feel free and happy. I've just never been in a relationship that was anything like this. I'm used to dealing with people that are more consistent and that make sense...
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    the cycle of bi polar/borderline dating, and hopes of escape

    Would you mind posting the link to the "low quality" post? I tend to see myself as having good self esteem, but on the other hand I find myself trying to help people when its unlikely they will ever be made better.
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    the cycle of bi polar/borderline dating, and hopes of escape

    Let me first say that I know there are several posts concerning the subject matter that I am currently posting. However, I wanted to start a new one that is personal to me because the others have gone on for quite some time. I've been with a girl off and on now for 3 years, and our...
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