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    Baffled and confused...

    B4IFURU18? Thanks. My assesment is similar. She text me Tuesday apologizing for not getting back with me sooner and assured me that she was not trying to blow me off. I replied that it was cool and not even sweating it. She text me back about how her work has been hectic and always tired...
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    Baffled and confused...

    Being the Don, She is the first generation that was born here. Her friends are cool. Lots of really intelligent and highly educated people but know how to party. So the conversation is full of intellectual topics but also some goofy subjects which is really funny and entertaining.
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    Baffled and confused...

    DjDan, You crack me up! For your info, I don't intend to use what I learn here to become a player. A DJ is not player. A DJ do not resort to calling people they rarely know names. I am not going to lower myself to that level. A real MAN works hard for what he has and earn what he gets. He...
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    Baffled and confused...

    Monkey, You are not reading. Is once or twice a week of phone call to set up a date too needy? Texting two or three times a week, too needy? I admit, I MIGHT have made a mistake of going along when she changed the plan of having a friend join us. The contradiction in having your...
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    Baffled and confused...

    There are certain details of our interaction that I left out from my original post. Going out with this girl has cost close to nothing so far. She will not let me pay. I insisted the first couple of times then I just accepted the fact that she is that way. I've dated women who will not let a man...
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    Baffled and confused...

    It is a cultural thing. I am asian and she is, too, and most asian women whom are worth it operate this way. As I said in my other post "IT ALL DEPENDS...", her cultural background counts into understanding her and customizing your dealing with her. I understand the no-no's about group dates...
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    Baffled and confused...

    Update... After a week of no contact with her, she text me yesterday morning asking me how i'm doing, apologised for not getting back with me coz work has gotten hectic, and promising that she was not blowing me off or ignoring me. I waited to reply until that night and I text her that it is...
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    The Loner Image

    Every aspiring DJ should set aside time for himself. Solitude is good to really discover many aspects of oneself and genuinely learn to appreciate being with oneself. Day in day out we are surrounded by people from different areas of our lives. We see and hear many things from our daily...
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    What do you think about this...

    This is from YAHOO. Most guys know from the get-go whether or not they see potential in a woman. There's that inner voice that tells you this is someone worth pursuing. When the first date ends, you're not even thinking about playing games. You know you want a second date. You wait your...
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    Baffled and confused...

    Reset and Nighthawk, I thought about it but it would look like I was rewarding her for ruining the evening. As I said, I planned on making that move that night but the presence of the guy friend blew it to pieces. Plus, I did not want to rush things because I am not just looking for a quickie. I...
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    Baffled and confused...

    Met this girl at a bookstore where I frequent. I actually did the cold approach by asking her opinion on something I just read. After a few minutes of small talk and introduction, I told her how I appreciate her opinion and left. After a couple of weeks, I was at the same bookstore sitting in...
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