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'Out with the old, in with the new' I'm a new man last weekend, didn't think about her at all now, got it on with a really nice woman :) best thing! She likes me and I like her and that's all it matters now. Got a message from the ex saying 'I noticed you're not on Facebook anymore (I am but I...

So, breaking news! the b*/+h has got herself a new beau, according to my sister who is still friends with her on Facebook...and my best friend also checked her page and checked this so called 'new bf' and apparently he's young, worked at toy shop, and went to University of Pokemon...whatever...

Well it's been almost 2 months since my ex and I split...last time I heard from her was around a week ago saying that she needs to talk to me about something and I replied to her politely that I was busy that weekend and maybe we can chat when I'm free and wished her to have a good weekend but...

So, new development, she called last night and she was drunk, she said her mum told her that she should call me, I didn't say such thing, I said to her mom that our mutual friend said that my ex is just about ready for contact from me and I said ok, when I have the time I will call her or...

And the date was superb!! I wasn't even thinking about my ex, the date and I just talking about her and her past and of course the ex topic re-surfaced but it didn't bother her at all and she understands completely about the situation since she also only just got out of a long term relationship...

Also I replied to her so I don't seem rude and I haven't confirmed whether its ok to call me, I'm actually going out on a date tonight so...

So, I picked up my stuff from her parents place yesterday and today she messaged me that she'll call me tonight...she made contact, perhaps just to sort out some stuff left in my boxes and organise it to return it to her in the future, she's out of the state at the moment but she'll be back in a...

Huzzah!! congrats man and good luck from now on for you are a free man, you broke the shackles of humiliation and now walk your life with the happiness you deserves!

Stronger part of me told me I should wait and contact her when I'm completely ready and not expect any news and just plain catch-up and also not being worried if she says 'I met someone'...blah blah; I've consulted a friend of mine sometimes with news you just have to confront it and get it over...

OK, day 40 of NC, a good friend of mine and my ex spoke to my ex recently and she said that my ex is about ready for contact with me. I'm pondering here whether she wants to talk/catching up and stuff or about to drop the bomb 'I found someone else'...hmmm also I asked my friend what did my ex...

Another revelation today...if you can see your ex image in your head and she's with someone else and you're not angry or saddened then you're on the right track to recovery. I had a good day at work today and I was thinking how she looks like but somehow I can only picture her less and...

30 days!! Half way there!! Still going on strong guys and the urges to contact her is getting less and less by the day too. I met someone at a bar last night and we had a really nice conversation without agenda, just getting perspective on other women's way of thinking and really understanding...

Aww man sorry to hear...don't think it as a failure, this happened to me long time ago with my first serious Girl and it wasn't pretty at all. My closure was my father's words 'one door closes but another one will open for you' I was single for 2 years then I found my now ex and we were together...

I have a date to go out with tomorrow night so it should be exciting!! Not looking for anything serious but it'll be good to go out :) day 26 and still marching on!! Oh and small tip and this is not for the faint of heart *if your ex is not in rebound/had someone waiting in their wings try to...

What happened dude?

Just a little tip guys, try to work out your inner problems that caused you to get dumped in the first place and work on that!! Be honest about it too, no good comes to lying to yourself...your NC is a good time to work that out. Example: are you insecure, easily jealous, trust issue, violent...

Don't do this, delete her off Facebook and if you truly are having a great time you don't need her validation, you have friends and family who cares about you, the will do that :) trust me the people around you will genuinely try to help you if you are being honest to yourself and trying your...

Big applause to you dude!! You've done well, keep it up and regain your long lost pride and be awesome again!!

Rock on man!! Keep up the good work and we brothers will be with you every step of the way!

Thanks man!! This forum has been a great help so far and somewhat an eye opener!! One week back into my jogging routine which I have abandoned after I got with her and now I'm recollecting the things I love doing before I met her!! My sister called tonight and asked how I was doing and I said...