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    Open Car Doors, or NOT??

    Here's a quandry for guys. Do you open her door or not? On every date? After youre in a relationship? If you want to make an impression, do it!!!!
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    Swinging to "OPPOSITE EXTREMES"...is missing the point.

    ARAMAS read aramas post. This is not a place to become a jerk. That is the polar opposite. You want to become masculine without the loss of your personal identity and treating people well.
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    Swinging to "OPPOSITE EXTREMES"...is missing the point.

    Aramas had this thread: There's a troubling thread of narcissism running through this board. It's all very well to try to deprogram oneself from being a loser and aspire to a better life, but some people seem to advocate throwing the baby out with the bath water. I see a WORSE character...
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    What she means by "NO CHEMISTRY"

    Everything these days has a politically correct term, and when she says "you're a really great guy, but there's no chemistry there"..... she's being really nice but firmly telling you she's not attracted to you. It let's her off easy. After all, "chemistry" is some elusive thing...
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    Expect the "TAKE A BREAK" and what it might mean

    Some women will test a guy and go into the "lets take a break from being serious". Your reaction to this possible test is very important. Do you: freak out, act desperate, complain,???? or do you: react calmly, move on, be a man BOYS.......you need to be ready for this little...
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    Nervous CONVO vs. CONFIDENT convo

    A woman likes to feel comfortable around a guy. Nothing forced. A few tips: 1. Don't always talk just to be talking. This comes across like a nervous squirrell. Be comfortable around silences. 2. Ask open ended questions that demand thought, and elaboration. Then do the short...
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    You WANT a gansta LOVING woman? You deserve her.

    Of course lots of women like ganstas. For all the wrong reasons. Imagine being around a woman who seeks VIOLENCE, STUPIDITY, UNDUE ARROGANCE, UNEDUCATION, IMMORALITY, and DISfunction. If you want that kind of woman, you deserve that woman.
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    A CASUAL attitude works WONDERS!!!!!

    Asking her out, ordering at a restaurant, on the phone, introducing her to your friends, or when an embarassing silence comes up, keep it casual!!!!!!! Girls like intelligent guys but not TOO intense. And they love a guy who can handle a difficult situation without getting uptight. This...
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    Unleash the AMAZING effect of DECISIVENESS

    If you are a guy who makes QUICK, LOGICAL, and LEADING decisions you will not comprehend how women will love that. Women ABSOLUTELY HATE the whiny, indecisive, girly, immature, boyish, guy who never leads the way. Tips: KNOW where youre going on a date, what time youre gonna get there...
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    Doc Love's "USERS" better than typical female IN-DENIAL

    Yep, there's lots of (usually attractive) female USERS. But at least you know EXACTLY where they stand!!!! The signs you've run into one: 1. Makes references to what other guys DO for her. 2. Seems to be a "pseudo hooker"(but realizes it) 3. Pouts when she doesnt get her way 4. Is...
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    Spontaneous Playful Originality. Show some on a FIRST date, and get a SECOND.

    Ok, you're confident, articulate, a man of mystery, well dressed, funny, and not needy. You've learned some of the basics of the attraction game. But its not QUITE enough. See, robotically following some of those guidelines might keep you from some of the basic faux pauxs but to keep a girl...
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    Follow Up: Toothpaste Brands, Detergent, and Cologne

    Since there were a few comments and questions, here's a follow: DETERGENT: Most people's clothes are not as clean as they think. Women have a MUCH BETTER sense of smell than guys, and so make sure you have: Strong Detergent(good quality), hot water, and DONT PUT TOO MANY CLOTHES IN THE...
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    Female TRANSLATION Guide: When she says: She MEANS:

    "Sense of humor is most important"....means: "After I determine that he is masculine, has money, and allows me the illusion that we are equal partners" "I'm Not materialistic".......means: "Not as much as some women I know, but I'll still spend everything you can earn, and complain that...
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    First Impressions: Five Bad Ones to Avoid

    Clarification on masculinity, "men-hobbies", and peacenik boys Guys, All good responses. I need to clear up the masculinity thing as there is a lot of confusion. First of all, no ONE thing makes you feminine. Watching oprah, knitting, or even an interest in fashion ...masculine men...
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    First Impressions: Five Bad Ones to Avoid

    Guys: There are probably hundreds but avoid these five: 1. Acting anxious, nervous, desperate, or clueless. Results in talking too fast, breathing fast, desperation, begging, and inane questions, and fawning lame-o clueless compliments like "you look incredible" or "what are you doing...
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