Recent content by xuzaki

I believe painful rejections are a good thing. It's putting yourself in a crucible that will purify your psyche. Of course you want the highest success rate possible, but taking rejections in stride without letting them derail your mood or sense of self-worth is important.

In 2019 my hook rate was similar to yours. I tried some approaches while on a vacation last month, and I also did horribly. For me, a major problem was that I expected x% of girls to hook and y% of girls to bang just like before the korodafirus. Maybe it could help to acknowledge that there's...

I do not know anyone well who has over 1000. But, I believe they exist. I have briefly interacted some guys with over 500. They are pick-up guys. I've seen them in action. Every single one of them lives in a mega city (over 10 million). They approach an ungodly amount, are decent looking...

Sounds like you've been acing some parts of your life with epic success. Don't let your other successes create a buffer against facing your demons, getting rejected, and improving with the ladies. The girls are acting how they do for a reason. Game/women is another part of life only...

OP mentions above he tried it. Rational Male says its usually bs, and I agree. I know one professional marriage counselor, a guy, and like most guys he is thoroughly blue-pill. Even if you got a red-pill counselor, I'd think that simply being there sends the wife the message that you can't...

You're fortunate to have come across the Rational Male. It opened my eyes a few years back. Concerning the financial side, consider quietly preparing for a messy divorce. For myself, I would try moving assets to either: a trusted family member's legal ownership; or a secret account like a...

I appreciate everyone's feedback so far. I actually visited South Beach in Miami for two weeks. It was the most free place I've seen, but I didn't like the neighborhood because it was mostly tourists. Almost all the girls I approached were just on holiday, so maybe a different neighborhood in...

It's been nearly two years that some nonsense has restricted people across the globe. From what I can tell, it has to do with some sort of virus. I personally don't care about it. I want my freedom while living a good city. My job in the US went online... 8 hours of computer screen each day...

Cold approach works. It's been working for many guys for a long time. But it's an art, and I can understand that someone might think it's a bad method depending on their experiences. One can do a cold approach with an alpha or beta frame. But cold approach is not inherently beta. At least...

I can't say anything about the car thing. Never had a car. But on the street, yeah, I can get numbers on a quarter of my approaches. It has a lot to do with how you do it, your energy, etc. To qualify that, only half the numbers even respond. And only half of those will come out to meet...

Spin plates. If you have 3-5 attractive girls sleeping with you and vying for your attention, this video will look a lot less exciting. Same for porn. Then if all your plates drop, or you move countries, this video looks interesting again. Then you get a few plates going again and the video...

I've had the same situation, and found two positions to help. 1) Missionary where you support yourself on your elbows and have your forearms under her with your hands wrapped around her shoulders. You gotta pull her into you as you thrust, and thrust like crazy for maybe 30-60 seconds. It is...

I agree that a guy would be more likely to stay, though I think the reason is largely a mixture of blue-pill conditioning and a scarcity mentality. The question still remains, what does 'idealistically' mean here? First off, awesome suggestion. Rollo is among my favorite authors of all time...

"Women love opportunistically ; men love idealistically". I see this all over the place. But don't both men and women love opportunistically? Here's where I'm coming from: - women are attracted to males with certain qualities (good genes, status, protection, providing, etc) and can ditch a...

I agree with the answer from @ThisIsSparta though suggest one thing differently: Rather that overtly telling her why you've backed off, I'd instead tell her something like "nothing's wrong, I've just been busy" and let her mental hamster spin itself. And if she asks you that question, it's a...