Recent content by Serenity

I have no respect for people who deceive me and I do not expect others to have any respect for me if I deceive them. I guess you're of a different mind on that. I suppose you're fine with people lying to you since you're so fine with lying to others, if not you'd be a hypocrite. It's really odd...

It's really cumbersome to discuss it when you assume such a black and white stance on it. Sure, everyone lies at least a little bit at some point, but there's certainly a difference between those who find excuses to lie such as yourself and those who try to stay as honest as possible. I'm not...

You should drop the condescending attitude and learn some respect. I'm well aware of neuroplasticity and how it works, but it's entirely besides the point which you just refuse to even begin to understand. You're either really dense or intentionally refusing to understand what I'm saying, make...

No, they are not being themselves. They may have gone most of their life not having dared to be themselves though. To be a pushover is inherently to suppress ones own desires in favor of others desires, they are literally suppressing themselves in favor of others, they are not being themselves...

Knowing each other better than anyone else. See, this is an impossibility, a contradiction. You can't truly be yourself and be a pushover because being a pushover is to do what others want at the expense of yourself, to go along with something you don't truly want to go along with. Luck is...

Let me start by stating something obvious, a relationship isn't always beneficial. It can be, but it can also be a net negative. Thinking relationships in general is a good thing is a mistake, one that seems very common. Plenty of people out there who have a need to be with someone, to the point...

No, because a major part of it is to learn how to feel good in life despite not always fulfilling desires. That means letting go and seems to be one of the things people in general struggle most to do, but it's absolutely necessary. It's not a matter of "if", just "when" and many people waste a...

I think as long as it isn't abnormally small or freakishly large the equipment doesn't matter nearly as much as how it's used. If your actions make her squirm in bed, she won't give a fvck about the dimensions of the thing giving her otherworldly pleasure.

Sure, all gone now.

Their emotional instability makes men who does not have full awareness of his own emotions feel a lot of stuff that's hard to understand. This mystery makes her very intriguing. It's really just that her emotions are all over the place and there's not much logical sense to it. The more...

Enjoy your break.

First I was here to learn as I was seriously struggling. I learned a lot from this forum, other sources and my own experiences until I understood. I then remained to help others. Now I've been in a relationship for almost 10 years and don't really have any recent experience relevant to the...

Think about social status, one of the more effective ways to be regarded as attractive. How do you acquire it if you're not giving? Who will back you up if you haven't done sh!t for them? Who will regard you as being of value if you have given none? You need to give to some degree to gain the...

I agree, you can't really force it and going out with the intent of dating is in many ways forcing it. I didn't get it either until I stopped. The only reason I did stop was exactly because it left me feeling empty, tired and negative. Why did I keep going for that long? The entire point all...

From the moment I was exposed to PUA material over 10 years ago I have approached the subject trying to understand why someone would say it works. It's easy to discount it thinking they're talking out of their ass, but by default I give it the benefit of doubt and try to consider how. I have...