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    Online Dating/Swipe App-Mental Block

    Perhaps, it is my age (47), but I can't seem to accept online dating/swipe apps as a way to meet a potential love interest (hookups are fine) I still feel automatically turned off trying to meet a woman this way and to me it is still taboo. I am much, much more attracted to a female if I make...
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    Museum of Natural History-Manhattan

    I went on a bus trip today and I was in the museum for about 6 hours. The amount of attractive and very attractive, well-dressed women I saw inside was off the charts! 80% of the women under 45 were attractive, very few overweight or unattractive women. I must go back!
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    Kenny Dillingham-inspiration for short guys

    Probably more average than unattractive.
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    Kenny Dillingham-inspiration for short guys

    Here is a short man's success story. I'm a College Football fan (USA) and I was watching the Arizona St. vs Texas football game earlier today. During halftime I noticed the ASU coach (Kenny Dillingham) talking to the female reporter and I said "Either she is a very tall woman or this dude is...
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    Do attractive women in their late 20's and 30's even go out?

    I'm 6 feet tall (taller than 80 percent of men) in shape, have most of my hair and decent face. If you consider 2/3 of men are under 5'10" and or fat; I'm attractive
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    Do attractive women in their late 20's and 30's even go out?

    This is what angers me alot. Most of the men I see with attractive women are no better looking than myself and worse! Why are these men meeting attractive women and I am not?
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    Do attractive women in their late 20's and 30's even go out?

    I took a bootcamp conditioning class at a LA Fitness 3X a week for 6 years. You are correct, 75% of these classes were women and I did get some dates out of it. One was a woman from Bulgaria who was about a 7 and about 10 years younger. However, I did not want to get involved with a woman...
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    Do attractive women in their late 20's and 30's even go out?

    BTW, I am doing these activities because I WANT To, not because I am trying to meet a woman. I am taking cooking classes, candle making, classes, kayaking and running because they interest me. If I meet a cute woman while doing it; that's an added bonus. If I were doing these activities to...
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    Do attractive women in their late 20's and 30's even go out?

    I belong to some meetup groups and the attractive woman pool is very low indeed
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    Do attractive women in their late 20's and 30's even go out?

    Yes, I am in Central Jersey
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    Do attractive women in their late 20's and 30's even go out?

    I am starting to think they only go out with their equally attractive female friends for a nice dinner at a higher end restaurant or at a bar/club. Seriously, lately, I have been doing 5k races, taking cooking classes, group hikes, group kayaking, group lectures and recently just came back from...
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    SMV and age difference

    I don't know, I personally know 6 couples off the top of my head that have an 8 to 20 year age difference. However, it's usually guys who are married a second time
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    SMV and age difference

    For the record; I know women 18-25 are at their attractiveness peak and men of all ages desire these women. I never did say that women 18-25 are interested in men 40+. I would be delusional to think a hot 22 year old just out of college would be interested in a man old enough to be her Dad...
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    SMV and age difference

    That's good for me then, I am half Italian descent and look Italian. I am 47, but can probably pass for late 30' or early 40's.
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    SMV and age difference

    Well said, but many men even in their late 20's still haven't figured their life out and are broke. A man's career and his savings are a huge part of his confidence. I was a broke graduate student while in my late 20's, so I still didn't do that good with women.
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