Recent content by oc16

Where are you located?

True, but that doesn't include women at work in the service/customer service industry. However, anywhere else (e.g bar, gym, campus, festival) it sure is the golden ticket.

There is a solid 8 (5'6, blonde, mid 30s) who I see here and there in the AM that I have spotted looking in my direction (from a distance) Saw her 3x or so a week last summer and then she disappeared. Now, she is back and maybe I see her once or twice a week. However, I'm never near her and...

It seems to be 50/50 mix of male to female and only a small percentage (myself included) seem to go to these races by themselves. I don't think the type of race matters, but I have only done 5K, 4 mile or 5 mile. Most of my races have been in suburban NJ or the Jersey Shore, but I have done...

This one had beer, but it was still tough.

I've probably done close to 40 races over the last 15 years and never once met a chick from it (not even close) I just did one this morning and one thing always holds true. People usually go with their significant other or their friends and don't converse with outsiders.

Michael Imperioli from the Sopranos and Steve Carrell

Perhaps I am just going by what society thinks is acceptable.

Forget about half your age, plus 7, etc., the women that are acceptable to date have the same front numeral than you or (-1), but never more I think a more realistic scenario should look like this: Men in their 20's can date women in their 20's and late teens (18-19) Men in their 30's can...

Not to mention you are living in Germany; NOT the warmest and friendliest group of people.

1.) Don't stare at her, women know when you are looking. 2.) Don't stare at them through the mirror either (they notice that too) 3.) Don't offer her advice on her form or her routine 4.) Don't follow her around 5.) Don't "ambush" her at the water fountain 6.) Do let her put herself in...

Perhaps, but you do sweat and get that endorphin reslease.

I don't know man. OCD is somebody who suffers from intrusive thoughts that cause anxiety. Doesn't really sound like you have OCD, maybe you are just a Type A personality. I have OCD and the media incorrectly portays OCD people as being neat freaks or obsessed with details.

Yes I know this but I can't move since I own property where I am and my job is nearby. Even if I hung out in New York or Philly (and the surrounding areas) women still think I live "too far"

I'm 47. I do the work, I run 2x a week and life 3x a week. I'm out taking cooking classes and other stuff, attending Catholic mixers and other things. I don't live in the best dating area.