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    Plinco's cold approach journal

    Yea I can have some liquor. I used to binge drink and now I can't get drunk without being completely messed up. Could hit up some bars to see how it goes. Thanks, I'm gonna get my feet wet with those. Yea being creepy scares me
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    Plinco's cold approach journal

    I got muscle but they're not that big because I don't wanna do steroids, at least not yet. I'm doing well with money too. Only thing lacking is game but I'm working on it. I need more women to practice on. Like you said, I've not been efficient at this. I stopped drinking alcohol 2 years ago...
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    Plinco's cold approach journal

    I've only been approaching in group settings like meetups, group hikes, or weddings, where the approach will be warmer. My biggest fear is cold approaching a woman and she freaks out and throws a tantrum. Where do you do those cold approaches anyway? Just anywhere when you're out? I find it's...
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    Plinco's cold approach journal

    I'm scared of making the women feel uncomfortable by doing this because I kinda look intimidating. I also don't hold eye contact because of that reason. How are your approaches working out in general?
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    Plinco's cold approach journal

    Dude you have balls of steel. I can't imagine myself walking to a woman in public.
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    Dating epiphany phase women as a former nice guy

    Sorry for your loss. Having a dad sure sounds great. A lot of my males friends still hang out with their dad and they're way healthier than me mentally. I didn't have father figures. I had my uncle but he frequently got in trouble and nobody liked him as a result. I grew up thinking bad stuff...
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    Dating epiphany phase women as a former nice guy

    I thought about this some more and after some introspection, I realized that subsconsciously, I was feeling sorry for these women. In my gut feeling, these women have been "used" by bad boys just like my single mother, and they deserved better. I've still got a lot of unplugging to do...
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    Dating epiphany phase women as a former nice guy

    I'm gonna have to work on my niceness some more because it being too deeply internalized makes me have to fake a lot. Patrice O'neal talked about this a long time ago where he said that men don't want to accept that there could be someone who smashed their woman better than they did. Maybe...
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    Dating epiphany phase women as a former nice guy

    I don't wanna settle down any time soon because it hasn't been long since I started getting any success with women. I need to make up for the lost time. The older women I was referring to are a little harder to sleep with because they already had hot sex with the bad boys during their prime, so...
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    Dating epiphany phase women as a former nice guy

    Since I turned into an old man, I've been getting more attention from older women aged 28+. It's not the same attention I get from younger women because those are mostly looking to have fun. No, the old ones want longer term commitment on my part. Some of them tend to shame me with words like...
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    Are videogames a unhealthy habit?

    I didn't say anything about porn. Are you projecting there?
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    Are videogames a unhealthy habit?

    If anything, video games are one of the best things that came into modern men's lives. Think about the 60s, 70s, and 80s when video games didn't exist. What did men do? They went to war to rape and pillage. It's no secret that men used to be some violent specimen back then. I doubt most men can...
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    Do you check other women out while on a date?

    I don't know if it's making me indecisive like the previous comment said.
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    Do you check other women out while on a date?

    Makes sense. I usually try my best to ignore but sometimes I just fail, know what I mean. I gotta be more stoic about this.
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    Do you check other women out while on a date?

    When I'm out alone, I'm the invisible man. No one gives me any attention. If there's a woman by my side, I turn into Channing Tatum wearing a G-string on stage. All eyes on me baby. My question is: what should I do with all this attention? Some of the chicks who give me attention are actually...
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