Recent content by Isildur1

Agree with the post for me cold approach yielded more results than social circle and online combined - I think most men are ultimately too cowardly to do it long term having analysed a huge drop out rate in the pua community

https://mindful-masculinity.org/2025/04/13/did-daygame-really-kill-tom-torero-and-johnny-berba/ Recent discussion video between Pat and Paul Janka came up on my feed- this blog post is not meant to be actively “having a go” at them its just to discuss the topic surrounding the deaths between...

There's failure in every aspect of dating - it's still a lot more rewarding than other forms of game - you meet new wingmen, you have amazing experiences with the people you met and i met my girlfriend from doing it . It's pretty obvious reading posts on this forum that most men lack options...

Roughly my stats are 1 in 80 but in that 80 there are usually 2-3 extra who agree to dates but I don’t get laid from I’d say around 70 percent achieve similar esque stats - 20 percent lower and 10 percent more - I’ve seen a couple of guys with ridiculously high daygame lay ratios but they...

Tom torero did do daygame in Vegas as I recall Yad spent a lot of time in California , Paul Janka roamed the streets of New York for sometime But I visited san Fransisco recently and still believe the talent is very subpar compared to the east - Americans have it tough imo alot of hoeflation

a lot of American cities have a 30-40 percent obesity rate which means a lot of fat women ( and men ) go onto the streets of Tokyo or Seoul it’s very difficult to find any women overweight - your average American could score way hotter in the east than in the west imo

I mean even the worst daygamers i knew would still get laid 1 in every 80-100 approaches that’s still a lot better than jerking off at home and not developing social skills- the vast majority of men do not have enough options I think that’s pretty clear looking at the posts on this forum where...

Met a lot of my wingmen on pua forums , the problem is some of these said forums are now defunct due to the popularity in online dating . also met a few valuable Wings at a Tom Torero meet-up in 2019 so from a dating perspective there’s still Roosh V forums Skilled Seducer forums This forum...

Lol the second point hit home to me , was exactly how I was

I’ve met my girlfriend from cold approach and know many who have. For men living in the west it’s a really important tool for improving social skills and improving options , the competition on apps In London for example is simply too steep. The first woman I got laid with from cold approach had...

I think it also depends on where you are in the world i found quality of women to be much lower in the western world in places like the UK and US with a lot higher quality men competing for a low pool of women in contrast in the Middle East , Japan,Korea and China the quality of women were...

I mean it’s a man’s job to open and increasing their options cold approaching itself is a sign of leadership and confidence if done right.

Never cheat - it will induce emotional trauma on the girl you’re in a relationship and if you have a daughter she will end up taking a huge quantity of ****s to make up for the betrayal you caused

Yes- couldn’t fit the whole blog piece onto the forum text as it exceeded the word limit

https://mindful-masculinity.org/2025/03/03/there-is-scarcity-in-every-aspect-of-dating-a-call-to-action-for-men-in-pickup/ When characterising the “abundance mindset” in dating I began to think overtime that this theory was largely false and didn’t really live up to the longterm acid test. The...