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He knows what he is doing is wrong. He is asking how to stop it. "Grow up" "snap out of it" doesn't give him an actionable path to gain control over himself. You need to practice an art that helps you to master control over your body. It could be exercising. Meditation. Daily breathing...

Why do you need to make her think you got things to do, if you don't got things to do? To pretend you are someone more important? Women see through that **** quicker than anyone. Better advice: Work to become someone that has **** to do, so that you don't have to pretend and be pathetic.

Problem with dating apps, is there is no barrier to talk to them. It doesn't require you to be confident and brave, like you need when going up to a girl. And second, you don't know if the attraction is there until you meet up. So you could be wasting alot of time, for someone who you don't...

Thanks for giving me a more balanced response. I agree with what everyone else said, to not put more effort and attention into her unless she reaches out to me. But to put it this way, regarding the assumptions: If she said what everyone else are assuming and what I'm "missing out on": "I'm...

Yeah, my whole point was exactly that: Don't argue with what they feel like or act butt hurt as you say. Because there is no reason to burn bridges. If you instantly make your own assumptions "Oh, she's ****ing someone else." "Oh, she's not attracted to me". Then you might act salty towards her...

I don't make assumptions because of this, because women's feelings change. As long as you don't burn bridges because you assume things for a certainty. There is a possibility they will come back. But I don't care if she doesn't come back either.

And if she reaches out to me again?

I won't pay any more attention to her now. Writing it down now, it sounds like it was calculated, but it wasn't. I didn't feel faced by it. I guess it's hard to fake how you feel and react to things. Women are so good at seeing through that ****.

Right, women are loyal to their feelings always and will forgo logic the moment their feelings tells them something else. Perhaps you will be right, but her feelings will still be the same.

Let me frame it another way "Not arguing against her feelings". I won't use any more attention on her, unless she reaches out to me, you are right about that. But I won't go sobbing about how I'm not good enough. I will continue doing what I do, and look for new prospects if the circumstances...

I could've framed it as "Don't argue against women's feelings", cause that's what I'm trying to get at here. But the rest you said, I agree with.

Why care about why she feels the way she feels? It won't change the fact she feels that way. You're missing the point of the post, which is that arguing against a woman's feelings is pointless. Instead you want to make it about me not being good enough. I'm not dumb, if I was Brad Pitt or if I...

If you want to assume, the point of the post is to not argue or discuss it. Just accept how she feels, because then you're on good terms. So you're more likely to get a yes if you ask again in the future if her feelings has changed. It's like no matter what you say or argue with, it won't...

I exchanged snapchat details with this girl I met on a dating app (I suggested something else but she wanted snapchat, so o well). After a few days of sending msg's I proceeded to ask if she wanted to hang out. She told me she wasn't ready to meet anyone now, she had alot of focus on taking over...

You taking a look in the mirror when you haven't done anything wrong, is exactly what she wants you to do. That's when you lose confidence and she has control over you. "I haven't done anything wrong, but she is nasty, so I must have done something wrong".