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Thanks for giving me a more balanced response. I agree with what everyone else said, to not put more effort and attention into her unless she reaches out to me. But to put it this way, regarding the assumptions: If she said what everyone else are assuming and what I'm "missing out on": "I'm...

Yeah, my whole point was exactly that: Don't argue with what they feel like or act butt hurt as you say. Because there is no reason to burn bridges. If you instantly make your own assumptions "Oh, she's ****ing someone else." "Oh, she's not attracted to me". Then you might act salty towards her...

I don't make assumptions because of this, because women's feelings change. As long as you don't burn bridges because you assume things for a certainty. There is a possibility they will come back. But I don't care if she doesn't come back either.

And if she reaches out to me again?

I won't pay any more attention to her now. Writing it down now, it sounds like it was calculated, but it wasn't. I didn't feel faced by it. I guess it's hard to fake how you feel and react to things. Women are so good at seeing through that ****.

Right, women are loyal to their feelings always and will forgo logic the moment their feelings tells them something else. Perhaps you will be right, but her feelings will still be the same.

Let me frame it another way "Not arguing against her feelings". I won't use any more attention on her, unless she reaches out to me, you are right about that. But I won't go sobbing about how I'm not good enough. I will continue doing what I do, and look for new prospects if the circumstances...

I could've framed it as "Don't argue against women's feelings", cause that's what I'm trying to get at here. But the rest you said, I agree with.

Why care about why she feels the way she feels? It won't change the fact she feels that way. You're missing the point of the post, which is that arguing against a woman's feelings is pointless. Instead you want to make it about me not being good enough. I'm not dumb, if I was Brad Pitt or if I...

If you want to assume, the point of the post is to not argue or discuss it. Just accept how she feels, because then you're on good terms. So you're more likely to get a yes if you ask again in the future if her feelings has changed. It's like no matter what you say or argue with, it won't...

I exchanged snapchat details with this girl I met on a dating app (I suggested something else but she wanted snapchat, so o well). After a few days of sending msg's I proceeded to ask if she wanted to hang out. She told me she wasn't ready to meet anyone now, she had alot of focus on taking over...

You taking a look in the mirror when you haven't done anything wrong, is exactly what she wants you to do. That's when you lose confidence and she has control over you. "I haven't done anything wrong, but she is nasty, so I must have done something wrong".

It doesn't happen with other women I'm with. As I said this was my first experience with a 30+ woman. The other chick I talk to who's 26, it's night and day. She supports me and isn't nasty.

Having a bad day over a 3 month period? Why is it that I see this behviour in so many 30+ women? Can you argue against the logic of it?

I contacted this girl I knew earlier who is now 32. And I ntoiced she seemed completely different to when I met her at 29. She was no longer friendly. This left me wondering, what happened? What did I do? Can I do anything to change her behaviour? No, you can't. See, what I realized is that...

I often see beautiful women in shopping malls, buying clothes etc. Probably more likely to be higher quality, than the ones you find in nightclubs.

I think I'd be ok to go to nightclubs tbh, feels like it's the only place left to meet women? There's just no nightclubs in my small town, so I have to travel an hour to find one.

How do you put yourself out there? Where are the chicks? Should we go knocking door to door to find them? Drag them out of the house?

I realised my neediness with women actually came down to loneliness. Trying to make the women fill the need for connection which ended up with being needy for company and attention. And thus breaking every "rule" of attraction. I think this all boils down to me losing contact with my previous...

I was convinced I met a lady who wasn't like other women. Turns out I was right, but not in a favourable way. Spent a long time trying to rizz her up because "this one truly is different, so it's worth it" I was thinking. Well, it didn't turn out good. Because she was very religious, so she...