Recent content by DJ Novice

I would stay away from women with kids in primary or high school as they will most likely want you to become some sort of pseudo parent. Spending time with young children that are not your own is just not enjoyable and awkward. You will find many of your dates will be hijacked with the kids...

Dating is relatively easy. Maintaining a relationship is much more difficult and requires different skills. The biggest lesson for me is realising that no matter how good looking the girl or how great the sex is, hedonic adaptation will kick in (for me after about a year) and the novelty of...

After 3 years hedonic adaptation has well and truly set in. If you guy have no interest in raising a family or aren’t married/have kids, I would hit the eject button. Life is too short to be in an unsatisfying relationship and (as a guy) to not experience as much variety in women as you can...

You need to rack up your rejection count from women. The early ones you will take personally. As time goes on and your rejection count increases it will cease to annoy you. When I get rejected now I think ‘great, I don’t need to waste any more time and effort on her’, I tend to forget she...

Judge women by their actions, not their words. “I’m hot for you baby” but the frequency and quality of s*x is poor = “I would rather bang someone else, the thought of touching you makes me want to throw up’.

Being married is a sign of preselection which works in your favour. As is being divorced after a long marriage (it shows you can commit over the long term). Women are very competitive. A married woman is at the top of the totem pole amongst her female friends, a single woman is at the bottom...

If a woman is truly into you then you should be able to get her to act out all your p*rn star fantasies over time. If you can regularly make her come then she won’t be able to get enough of it. I’ve got my current girlfriend into s*x toys. If you think size doesn’t matter, try using a toy on...

It’s normal for communication to taper off as you get to know someone better. I see no point in communicating with nothing much to say or to covertly check up on someone’s whereabouts. That’s screams insecurity and neediness. Communicate when you genuinely want to, not when someone else wants...

You are only in the top 5% as an older guy in the absence of looks, wealth and status if she genuinely is attracted to older, more mature guys.

Money is a factor you need to consider but plenty of wealthy couples still separate and get divorced regardless of whose family the wealth comes from. If you marry or get into a relationship purely for money you will eventually end up unsatisfied sexually and emotionally with a lifestyle you...

The cure for oneitis is to spend an extended period of time with them. At least 12 months. Once the novelty and newness ceases inside and outside of the bedroom and their personality flaws and other annoyances become more evident you will find yourself once again attracted to other women. It’s...

You are born alone and you will die alone. Your friends and family aren’t coming with you or can’t ease the physical pain when it’s your time to go. If you think being in a relationship when you’re old will help cure loneliness think again. Most old couples I see appear to just be sleepwalking...

There will always be women in their 50s who by a combination of good genetics, taking care of their appearance and plastic surgery will look much younger than their age and would induce a boner. Conversely there are women in their 40s who make gargoyles look attractive and your junk shrivel to...

I don’t mind playing the ‘x dates before sex’ game with women but there are limits. I’m a patient guy but I won’t be jumping through hoops for more than about 8 - 10 dates (2 months). I’m finding with older women in my age range (I’m 57) there is a lot of sh*t testing and delusional...

Depends on your age and preferences in women. I’m 57 and would take the opportunity if offered as I find Asian women attractive. Compared to many other 55 women I have encountered she looks good for her age. I can understand much younger guys or guys with other race preferences having no...