Recent content by Canadian_Man

This might not generalize to most men, but in my personal experience, it came from a miscalculation of the risk/reward analysis. When I've tried to make it work with low-to-medium interest women, I didn't feel fulfilled as is, particularly feeling a lack in companionship. This resulted in a...

Not what you have. Re-read what you wrote. You have so much animosity towards women. Women are generally very well fine tuned to reading a man's emotional state. They also feel emotions more intensely. Couple that with the tenancy of people to seek out good feelings and avoid negative...

Wow. You've got way bigger problems than deciding whether to text a woman whom you don't like nor does she like you. Perhaps this is a bit harsh, but you're going down a bad path with your mindset.

If you want a woman's perspective, as pointed about above, why not go somewhere you're more likely to find it? A more obvious place to look is YouTube, specifically female dating coaches for men. This is meant to more quickly filter out what some here refer to as "blue pill" advice, which...

I agree, he was emotionally over-invested, though maybe not as much as some others here in the recent past have been

While I agree that he shouldn't go based on what's been said, there might be more to why personal friends and family believe he should go. Hypothetical example, maybe Dave is someone OP spends a lot of time with, and the loss of this "friend" could leave a (short-term) void for OP, and OP's...

F*ck Dave. You should have cut contact with him long ago. Eat the loss of your AirBnB payment. Take it as a blessing that Sara popped up on your FB feed again recently, it helped uncover this opportunity for change. Albeit at the cost of some present-day pain. And don't make it a scene if...

I'm not so sure about this supposed desire to "show her what she missed out on". Having read the thread, and your other threads about different women, I suspect more of what's going on is your hope that she circles back. When you say "Idc anymore man I mean it", as in, you are "over her"...

You probably should provide more context to get more tailored advice. From what I gathered, she is younger than you, and you two have spent some time together. But how long have you been dating her? How much younger is she? etc. The texts you presented suggest it wasn't in the very early...

I'm not sure I would call it a theory, rather an intuition or strong hunch. It just stands out whenever I've seen the word used this way. When I hear the word "even" in these types of contexts, it highlights a certain hyper vigilance (i.e., too much caring) of the poster in regards to what the...

You play games, so you see games. Who knows what she is doing, it very well could have nothing to do with you.

Yes, don't kiss and tell. It's about trust and emotional self-control. Doesn't matter what other people in town are talking about, you don't have to engage in it or initiate it. One exception could be talking to a close friend, whom you are reasonably sure won't break your confidence. That...

Another example of the word "even" being used in this type of advice seeking post, where the man comes across as too eager. Try to catch yourself whenever you are tempted to write that word, and reflect on what it is saying about you in the particular situation. Good that you asked her out...

Multiple members here seeking advice have used the word "even" in this type of manner. It seems to always stand out when I read it. I believe it says something about your mindset, your eagerness, and your "intensity".

Depression is difficult, and can be recurring. There's only so much you can do to help her. It's possible it will be flipped back on you, as in, being your fault she's depressed, because you're the one "responsible" for her living away from her preferred city. Coming at it from a different...