Recent content by AsianPlayboy

Sure I do, I've just been part of these conversations for over 20 years in literally tens of thousands of people's posts, threads and forums. At a certain point, men's challenges are repeated over and over and over again. And they can all be solved with the same solutions that literally hundreds...

Most guys underestimate how much their photos matter on dating apps. It’s not just about looking “good”: it’s about presenting a story, a vibe, and a personality that women find irresistible. Here's a step-by-step tutorial on what it means to take photos for the female gaze versus male gaze...

Having traveled to over 30 countries, I’ve seen firsthand how Asian men are treated differently in various cultures. While calling Europe a "paradise" might be rather strong (and clickbaity in all honesty), it’s undeniable that there’s a unique alignment between Asian masculinity and European...

A lot of people ask, “How do I get better at dating if I don’t have looks or natural charisma?” The truth is, dating success isn’t about being born with certain traits—it’s about building the right mindset and skills. And that all starts with discipline. Discipline gets a bad rep because...

The Art of Attraction Stories (Making Conversation Interesting Through Storytelling) Most guys focus on looks ("I need to be 6'5 and look like a Chad!") or one-liners ("I need to know the perfect thing to say!") to impress women , but here’s the truth—those things only take you so far. If you...

If you’ve been on the journey of self-improvement and attraction, you’ve probably wondered: What’s the next step after mastering game? How do I transition from casual encounters to finding a meaningful relationship? I just dropped a must-watch 60 minute interview with Erik Carlberg (aka...

Charisma accounts for 82% of how others perceive you, according to a 2007 Princeton study. That’s a staggering figure—and it’s good news for us because charisma isn’t about being tall, rich, or conventionally handsome. Here’s what the study says: People judge us on two key traits—warmth...

Every man remembers the first time he realized he was on his own. Just stumbling through life and figuring things out the hard way. For some of us, that realization hits hardest when it comes to dating and masculinity. No guide. No mentor. Just trial and error—mostly error. The truth is...

I’ve been in this game for a while, and if there’s one lesson I’d pass on to anyone struggling with rejection, fear, or frustration, it’s this: treat learning game (ie socializing, confidence, talking to girls, etc) like playing an actual video game. Why? Because this mindset makes it way easier...

One of life skills as an adult we have to learn is emotional management and self-awareness, but approaching women- even for the best of us- can be scary. But approach anxiety is something we all have to deal with as men. Approaching girls is actually easy to learn, but hard to master. Not...

Sure, but it's an iterative process. You take action, even in the face of fear, and both the action itself and the feedback you receive incrementally builds your confidence. Taking the action builds up your emotional resilience while you adjust your actions according to the real world feedback...

There’s definitely something to be said about choosing a setting where the odds of success feel more favorable, especially for beginners. You’re right that context matters, and yeah, if a guy is brand new to this, it makes sense to start in a lower-stakes environment like a social gathering...

A lot of guys think, “I’ll approach her once I feel confident.” But here’s the deal: confidence isn’t just some feeling you can wait for—it’s the result of action. Studies show that acting, even when you don’t feel ready, is one of the best ways to build skill-based competence, which naturally...

I'm 5'5, Asian, and a below average face. At my fattest, I was 201 lb (now 141lb and 10% Body Fat). It takes a lot of work, but it is entirely possible to out compete, out work, and out game other men who are taller, better looking and white. It's certainly by no means easy, but it is doable...

Here’s something interesting: up to 93% of communication is nonverbal. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, 55% of what we communicate comes from body language, 38% from tone of voice, and only 7% from the words we use. So, if English isn’t your first language or you’re not fully confident in it...