Riding the Rollercoaster...

[Made.To.Be.Great]

- Hey guys, I need yor help on this one again...

A few weeks ago I met a very sweet girl at a club in my town. We got in touch with each other and everything was fine for the first two weeks; I even fvcked her on the first date (> good or bad sign?!). [Click here for more]

Well, but after a short while the rosy time was over. We met each other for a second time and, unfortunately, that date wasn't all that. After the second date she was not as affectionate anymore and the entire 'relationship' became very cold.

Now, she called me yesterday and she told me that, even though she likes me sooooooo much, her feelings are not strong enough for a long relationship...

As you can imagin' I was pretty down and sad last night, but today everything was fine again and I was able to deal with the situation...

...until she called me in the afternoon! YEA, yesterday she said "bye" and today she said "hy"... it's crazy! I know that a true Don Juan should just walk away and find another girl, but she is very cute and the sex is great...

--> therefore I would like to know from YOU if and how I should stay in touch with her?! I don't wanna fall in love with this crazy girl, but I would like to continue the relationship in order to fvck her until I find a better chick!

So please help me out... when should I call her again, what should I say, and how should I act???

Today I was pretty cool on the phone... I was not talkin' about my emotions at all and I was tellin' her that I go out with some people tonight! We are not really 'together' again, but the fact that she called me shows me that she's still interested... or what?

Thanx for your time and advice!!!

PS: I gotta mention that this certain girl is VERY emotional! She always needs some one around and she gets depressed very fast...

 

[JohnJones]

She likes you to some extent.

1. She may be disappointed in the sex, but most people don't dump someone for that right away. I tend to find it especially rare in quality women.

2. She may have another guy, in which case you may need to go ganji on her (no contact, let her come find you)

3. My guess still is that if the above are not true, she's embarrased she slept with you so quick. She feels slvtty and she may be disappointed that you didn't rush in to declare your affection. She may not really even mean for you to back off.

If its 1, there is no hope. 2, there is hope, you just have to look better than the other guy. 3, keep doing what you're doing and she'll be back around

 

[Made.To.Be.Great]

Thanx for your help, John!

I personally assume that she liked the sex... I'm not sayin' that I'm the best lover, but hey: I was usin' my hand, my mouth, my d*ck, she was screamin' and moanin', and we were doin' it for about 1 to 2 hours! Besides that, she called me two hours later, after I brought her to her house, just in order to hear my voice! Maybe I'm still wrong tho... you never know!

It is even more possible that there is another guy... at least she said that she's still not completely over her last boyfriend... so he's still on her mind.

Your third point would be the best tho! That would mean that nothing is wrong with me and that she still likes me.

Well, I guess I just have to wait and see!

 

[Willie Naylor]

I even fvcked her on the first date (> good or bad sign?!). [Click here for more]

Well, but after a short while the rosy time was over. We met each other for a second time and, unfortunately, that date wasn't all that. After the second date she was not as affectionate anymore and the entire 'relationship' became very cold.

Now, she called me yesterday and she told me that, even though she likes me sooooooo much, her feelings are not strong enough for a long relationship...

PS: I gotta mention that this certain girl is VERY emotional! She always needs some one around and she gets depressed very fast...

This is from 2004, so I know OP won't see this, but this is the one hard and fast rule I have with a girl I just met.

If she's all emotional with you and spilling drama in the first month or so of knowing you, you need to run.