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Does Size Matter?

BadBoy89

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I generally don’t comment on sex threads, but

If size doesn’t matter to a woman, then
how tight a woman is doesn’t matter to a man.
 

The Duke

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I generally don’t comment on sex threads, but

If size doesn’t matter to a woman, then
how tight a woman is doesn’t matter to a man.
It's funny, women can improve vaginal tightness by kegl exercises yet it's never expected of them. As men we need to expect more. One of my exes did kegl exercises and the feel was amazing.
 

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It's funny, women can improve vaginal tightness by kegl exercises yet it's never expected of them. As men we need to expect more. One of my exes did kegl exercises and the feel was amazing.
Imagine telling your grlfriend of years" Hey, I want you to do kegl exercises" what do you think she's gonna think? Do you think that won't fvck up her confidence in sex? Why haven't you tell the girl you're with? You as a man, need to expect more, remember? Stop projecting your insecurities onto us.

What the fvck did you smoke today?
 

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Saw some guy on tik tok sprout some kind of wisdom. Like most things that attract woman its about how intimidating you are to other men, if your bigger, stronger, more confident, better wage, bigger D, etc etc. All of these count. Theres something inherently satisfying knowing you have a bigger D then the average joe, it's a confidence, a sparkle in your eye and knowledge you have been deeper then others before you. It all adds up and they can tell. Big D energy I think they call it. I presume its the opposite for the smaller guys. :cool:
 

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From a woman, I have to agree with the other female perspectives—it’s definitely more about how you use it, not the size.

My boyfriend is actually a bit on the bigger side for me and it makes certain positions really uncomfortable. It doesn’t matter to me because he’s attentive and makes sure I’m prepared. A “good fit” differentiates with every women so don’t worry about it—you can’t control that.

True passion and lust is one of the biggest turn ons, trust me on this! It will override any insecurities about size. If you show a woman genuine desire in the bedroom and verbalize that, it will make her experience unforgettable.
 

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We matched several years ago, and the conversation was going in a sexual direction, so she stopped me and asked me how big it was, saying she has a requirement of 8 inches or more. I told her that while I'm well-endowed, I'm not quite THAT well-endowed. She apologized, said that we should not meet then, and unmatched me.
BRUTAL!
 

zekko

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Saw some guy on tik tok sprout some kind of wisdom. Like most things that attract woman its about how intimidating you are to other men,
This is something I've always thought makes sense. It matches a video that somebody posted here not long ago. It basically consisted of some girls on the beach talking about who attracted them, and who didn't. They talked about some weak looking guys, and they said they couldn't feel like they could protect them if they had to.

It's not that big of a trick for a guy to dominate a woman (which is where a lot of PUA theory likes to take you). But for a guy to be able to dominate other guys, then you're showing yourself to be in the upper percentile. Not that I'm recommending you go around bullying people, I'm just speaking about primal biological survival urges.
 

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Some things to keep in mind:

Most women are not good spot measurers. The number of women who claim to have been with 8+ inchers is statistically unlikely.

They will also inflate the size of a good lover and degrade the size of a guy who scorned them.

Have heard the same about girth. But I think if there's attraction most women will be pleased with great sex. I mean I've banged women of many different body types, if they're good in bed and turn me on that's what matters.
 
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