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Ever had the best sex, but with the wrong person?

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Any of you guys had a plate, where the sex was literally the best?

The sexual chemistry, connection was insane, but you know you have to drop that plate at some point as she is not for the long term.

It's like coming off a drug, in my experience it takes a little time to adjust to average sex again with an average plate.

What a bummer!
 

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Any girl that was crazy in the past, however, IMO having sex with fit girls is amazing. My main plate now is very fit and she can go for hours like it's nothing
Is she for the long term (LTR) if not... Then how will you feel dropping that good sex after she has expired her time with you
 

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Is she for the long term (LTR) if not... Then how will you feel dropping that good sex after she has expired her time with you
It's a casual thing we both know and it was established like that from the beginning (she got out of a marriage and works overnight as a nurse, doesn't want to be in a relationship which is fine with me as I'm not looking to be a rebound)

If it ends it ends, plenty more other women out there. Just haven't met her/them yet
 

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It's a casual thing we both know and it was established like that from the beginning (she got out of a marriage and works overnight as a nurse, doesn't want to be in a relationship which is fine with me as I'm not looking to be a rebound)

If it ends it ends, plenty more other women out there. Just haven't met her/them yet
You're going to have to adjust, when she drops off.. When the sex is that good, it can take some time to meet another another plate that matches up.
 

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You're going to have to adjust, when she drops off.. When the sex is that good, it can take some time to meet another another plate that matches up.
Like I said I'm not pressed about it mate' I have been in this game long enough to know it works in ebbs and flows. Sex doesn't motivate me honestly what makes the sex with her good is that we can actually shoot the shyt and she is a cool girl to be around
 

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Any of you guys had a plate, where the sex was literally the best?

The sexual chemistry, connection was insane, but you know you have to drop that plate at some point as she is not for the long term.

It's like coming off a drug, in my experience it takes a little time to adjust to average sex again with an average plate.

What a bummer!
Yep. Ex gf who is probably BPD. And then there was the psychologist who should be seeing a shrink. Who ironically messaged me 2 days ago out of the blue.

All the ones that have some mental issues are prime in the sack. Recreational use/fvck and toss only. But its hard to do that because they are certainly addicting.
 

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Any of you guys had a plate, where the sex was literally the best?

The sexual chemistry, connection was insane, but you know you have to drop that plate at some point as she is not for the long term.

It's like coming off a drug, in my experience it takes a little time to adjust to average sex again with an average plate.

What a bummer!
You adjust by staying on monk mode and going cold turkey without sex. Eventually your will start to forget how good the sex is, and you will feel okay with fvcking other women.

At least for me, it happened by stopping sex all together until I wanted it with another person.

It's a casual thing we both know and it was established like that from the beginning (she got out of a marriage and works overnight as a nurse, doesn't want to be in a relationship which is fine with me as I'm not looking to be a rebound)

If it ends it ends, plenty more other women out there. Just haven't met her/them yet
I got a bridge to sell you and its 50% off.

You are already hooked on lady heroine, haha its cool tho.
 

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Yup I had a crazy ex gf, toxic. Wild in bed though. Should have just been a plate. Live and learn.
 

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I did stay with a toxic ex for a while and the sex was good, but that was more so I couldn't replace her with anyone better at the time.
 

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Almost every guy who has dated enough has had this because the crazy women are usually the ones who use sex as their way to get guys to stay and deal with their craziness because they know without it there would be no reason for them to stick around.

Essentially they weaponize sex against men for their own benefit.
 
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Almost every guy who has dated enough has had this because the crazy women are usually the ones who use sex as their way to get guys to stay and deal with their craziness because they know without it there would be no reason for them to stick around.

Essentially they weaponize sex against men for their own benefit.
That is true, all the crazy girls are fun in the sack(speaking from personal experience) but I also would say women who are fit or work out a lot tend to be amazing in the sack as well. Which makes sense cause working out increases libido
 
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That is true, all the crazy girls are fun in the sack(speaking from personal experience) but I also would say women who are fit or work out a lot tend to be amazing in the sack as well. Which makes sense cause working out increases libido
Yes that's true, but I had a cross fit chick with an amazing body who worked out so much she was too tired for me pounding her for the length of time that I would be going at it and always asked me how I had so much energy :lol:
 

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That is true, all the crazy girls are fun in the sack(speaking from personal experience) but I also would say women who are fit or work out a lot tend to be amazing in the sack as well. Which makes sense cause working out increases libido
I like my woman healthy & relatively skinny, but I am just not attracted to that fitness babe type lol.
 

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Best sex I ever had was a ONS with a girl who was clearly not over her recent ex. There was a huge sense of urgency to what she was doing in the bedroom and it made it feel next-level great. But she was clearly crazy and had the obvious ex issues.
 

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It's a casual thing we both know and it was established like that from the beginning (she got out of a marriage and works overnight as a nurse, doesn't want to be in a relationship which is fine with me as I'm not looking to be a rebound)

If it ends it ends, plenty more other women out there. Just haven't met her/them yet
Nurse? Is she Filipina? Latina? lol
 
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