I screwed up and cheated on my LTR, what should I do?

[CornbreadFed]

Story:

I was on a bro’s trip to a certain country known for its beautiful women and we went to some bar to celebrate. I tried wing manning for my single friend by approaching this group of two hot women (early twenties, were in careers that typically hot women were in, long hair, and etc) sitting next to me. I approached one with the typical hello my friend is interested in you blah blah blah. However, he completely chickened out and left me with these two women talking to me while my other friends were talking to other women next to them. One of the women slipped out that she found me really sexually attractive and started touching me and getting closer to me. Eventually, these women told me they knew a better place and I was several shots in, so I we went with them. I didn’t have sex with them, but I made out with both of them throughout the night and did a lot of touching. In addition, I didn’t have a condom and I just couldn’t do that for personal reasons. They knew I was in a LTR too, so it was purely a one night thing.

Now, I want to keep my LTR because I did plan on proposing soon, so I’m not going to tell my partner anything. However, my friends could betray me out of spite and try and sabotage me LTR which is giving me anxiety. My planned defense is to simply deny any claim and hope there’s no visual evidence. Yes, tell me I am a pos, but I feel like 99% of men would slipped in this scenario. This is the last time I will go out to a bar with the boys because I don’t want to be put in this scenario ever again.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Bury it and move on. Don't beat yourself up. If your friends rat you out, deny like you said, and drop them for they are not friends if they do this.

 

[SW15]

Do nothing. There's no proof. You have the right idea about not telling your girlfriend anything.

I don't think your friends are going to sabotage you.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

You faced the world's strongest temptation (drunk and horny) and didn't cave

Listen to the guys above me.

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Don't feel guilty.

Your fiance probably gets dolled up to go to the grocery store.

She probably tells you it's because of other women.

She definitely enjoys the stares.

Welcome to the world, young buck

 

[Hamurabimbi]

When I was LTR with my Zoomer GF. I went to a convention. I happened to sit at a table next to an attractive young lady. We wound up having a few drinks & doing some light kissing & fondling. Later, as we went somewhere more private, she said ‘I have a boyfriend.’. I replied ‘I have a girlfriend’. We both agreed we shouldn’t take it further.
I called my GF the next morning & told her. She ranted on the phone at me for two hours, then forgave me. And we were fine after that.

 

[Westminster]

Never tell them anything. Deny everything you are ever accused of, even if you are caught red handed.

 

[Solomon]

Story:

I was on a bro’s trip to a certain country known for its beautiful women and we went to some bar to celebrate. I tried wing manning for my single friend by approaching this group of two hot women (early twenties, were in careers that typically hot women were in, long hair, and etc) sitting next to me. I approached one with the typical hello my friend is interested in you blah blah blah. However, he completely chickened out and left me with these two women talking to me while my other friends were talking to other women next to them. One of the women slipped out that she found me really sexually attractive and started touching me and getting closer to me. Eventually, these women told me they knew a better place and I was several shots in, so I we went with them. I didn’t have sex with them, but I made out with both of them throughout the night and did a lot of touching. In addition, I didn’t have a condom and I just couldn’t do that for personal reasons. They knew I was in a LTR too, so it was purely a one night thing.

Now, I want to keep my LTR because I did plan on proposing soon, so I’m not going to tell my partner anything. However, my friends could betray me out of spite and try and sabotage me LTR which is giving me anxiety. My planned defense is to simply deny any claim and hope there’s no visual evidence. Yes, tell me I am a pos, but I feel like 99% of men would slipped in this scenario. This is the last time I will go out to a bar with the boys because I don’t want to be put in this scenario ever again.

Thanks for the laugh OP, you're almost as good of a storyteller as JK rowling you almost had me with this one....lmfaoooo