Mode 1 - discuss

[filerfiler]

So I’ve just finished reading mode 1.

the premise is that you are direct with women and from the get go you pretty much explicitly or implicitly state your desire to sleep with them

there is this assumption that the ultimate goal is to score a body asap

It boasts of all of these examples where the author goes straight to the points and gets in the girls pants within 5 microseconds



reading the book I’m more mode 2, although I’m very good at preventing the platonic trap, I like the process of discovering the woman and in some finding her interesting enough to sleep with


This means some time spent together 1 on 1, perhaps a date or two or three at max

Sometimes this means we don’t click, or I find her dull or 1


the thing is, at least for me that is essential to develop some arousal so I can actually sleep with the girl, regardless of how attractive she is

the epiphany for me happened perhaps 5 years ago, I went into a bar and saw this attractive lady (the most attractive that night), I decided that if I can’t get that girl I’m not getting anyone else that night, a defensive mechanism of sorts in case I get drunk

I walked up to her and basically gave her a couple of negs and some explicit talk mode 1 style

within 15 minutes I ended up snogging her outside, then she led me by the hand to her dorm room a few minutes away

We get in and basically disaster happened, the whole thing felt way too mechanical and devout of challenge that I failed to get it up

it was horrific for both of us and I still cringe about it,

it made me realise that I want much more from a woman than curves, a pair of knockrrs and a round behind


Anyone else uses mode 1 regularly? Any thoughts or opinions and experiences?

 

[SW15]

I’m very good at preventing the platonic trap

I'm good at not falling into platonic friendships when I am attracted to women.

I had a platonic friendship once with a woman when I was not attracted to her. She was very mid on looks. She was also a massive penis carousel rider from her presence on swipe apps. The friendship wasn't that great and didn't end well.

In general, I don't think it's a good idea to be friends with women. I don't even recommend it when you're not even attracted to some mid women.

I have some pleasant acquaintance type relationships with some women. These are often former co-workers.

Over the years, I have some level of a relationship with the girlfriends/wives of my male friends. It hasn't amounted to much of anything. None of them have ever helped me arrange a first date with any of their female contacts. The wives of my male friends have varying opinions on me. Some like me more than others but none will go out of their way to help me in seduction. In fairness to some of them right now, they lack the contacts to do so. In the past, some of them did have contacts.

I haven't received the social circle introductions that many guys have received because I don't pursue female friendships much.

 

[Travel memoir21]

I think all the mature guys in here intuitively knows that aiming for a quick banger is going to end up in bad results when it comes to sustaining a quality relationship. Short term relationships is one thing.

But when it comes to making a meaningful connection, there has to be a time where you bond and connect as two soul beings experiencing each other's journey. So whatever it is you're ultimately going for, you gotta be congruent to it, or the lady that you're talking to will notice it or it can go against you.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Women will respond to it , I used to execute it a lot on nights out in my 20's

I would just charge around clubs and bars approaching and being outrageously sexual until a chick responded positively

Some nights it was genuinely worrying at how many girls would respond by just submitting and going along with my flow , I've fingered quite a lot of chicks in clubs in my time

You need a thick skin but if your hell bent on getting a ONS with pretty much anyone it's the way to go , in terms of finding something more stable and intimate its a very very bad move

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Remember. There’s two of you. I always pay attention to if she escalates the conversation. If a woman finds a guy sexually attractive. She’ll often be obvious about it.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

So I’ve just finished reading mode 1.

Good.

the premise is that you are direct with women and from the get go you pretty much explicitly or implicitly state your desire to sleep with them

There are three variations of Mode One...and of the 3, only one uses explicit (sexually X-rated) language.

You can be direct, bold, and straightforward..without being sexually explicit.

there is this assumption that the ultimate goal is to score a body asap

Generally speaking, yes... although a small percentage of cases, there have been those who've used Mode One to get a LTR with a woman.

It boasts of all of these examples where the author goes straight to the points and gets in the girls pants within 5 microseconds

Yeah, ARC was a beast with it.

That is why he is called the Grandfather of Direct and Verbal Seduction.

He's been known to be Mode One Hardcore while using daygame, which is a level that not even I am on.

reading the book I’m more mode 2, although I’m very good at preventing the platonic trap, I like the process of discovering the woman and in some finding her interesting enough to sleep with

If all you want is casual sex, then all that matters is physical attraction...that should be interesting enough.

This means some time spent together 1 on 1, perhaps a date or two or three at max

Sometimes this means we don’t click, or I find her dull or 1

Once you mentioned the word "date", you lost me.

I'm out.