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The game is on!
My plan for friday is since we both have around 3 classes and we're in the afternoon shift meaning we have around 1hour and 30 mins of sunlight left, instead of taking her to drink something I could just take her to a place that's very close to the city (50m) but has a stunning view of our lake. The place is private and I can easily go for a kiss and take it from there.

Is this good?
 

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You are right brother. I remained skinny fat for most of my childhood because I was scared of ruining my growth or my hormones etc.

But now with that out of the way I'm currently cutting, and once I put my mind on something I complete it. So I'm gonna be lean for summer.
Awesome man, just find some activity you love and go do it. Normal fitness routines can't hold my attention. I have to have some sort of competition or sport. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is great if there is a gym near you.
 

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I'm pretty shameless, so I have no issue with being bold. But where can I find your post on the hardcore variation of your direct game?
Probably this one..

 

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My plan for friday is since we both have around 3 classes and we're in the afternoon shift meaning we have around 1hour and 30 mins of sunlight left, instead of taking her to drink something I could just take her to a place that's very close to the city (50m) but has a stunning view of our lake. The place is private and I can easily go for a kiss and take it from there.

Is this good?
Its a start
 
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If you're fat, it's over. #1 for young lads, get your weight down. You don't have to have muscles, but the minimum is no fat unless you're on the football them with equal sized muscles like the linebackers. If you look like the bully stocky version of a fat person, you'll get far more p*ssy.
 

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Well then you don't have a mindset that'll allow you to improve. You just asked how to do better, then answered that by saying you're comfortable in your current mediocrity.

You're 18 and in college - you have a LOT of things better to do...
OP still at the stage where he doesn't even know what he doesn't know right now. Once he does he will understand he is far closer to 0% than 100%
 
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The comments on p2 were a really fun run. Aspecially the screenshots of user divorced w 3.

Is there a part 3?
 

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The comments on p2 were a really fun run. Aspecially the screenshots of user divorced w 3.

Is there a part 3?
I think that's all I needed to cover.

It works.

By going Mode One..

1. You make it easy for a woman to reject your D (which is a good thing).

2. You also make it easy for a woman to get your D (which is also a good thing).

You cant lose, either way.
 

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For the record, I strongly disagree with Venom's approach.

It'd be like trying to sell an expensive car and forcefully turning away anybody who didn't immediately say "yes" the first time you asked if they wanted to buy it.

Not many attractive women will be so thirsty as to jump your bones the moment you present the opportunity - they have options.

Will you save yourself time by being so direct? Maybe. But you're likely to turn away more women who might otherwise be attracted to you. So are you REALLY saving yourself time if you have so approach significantly more women to get results?

I can't speak for Venom's track record. Mine is pretty well documented. So do what you want to do, given your goals.
 

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I hate when muhfukaz address what I say, without addressing me with it.

For the record, I strongly disagree with Venom's approach.
Mode One (direct game) ain't for everyone.

It takes confidence, and BALLS.

Most men have neither.

Sounds like you may be one of them.

It'd be like trying to sell an expensive car and forcefully turning away anybody who didn't immediately say "yes" the first time you asked if they wanted to buy it.
Try again.

No one is forcefully doing anything.

Not many attractive women will be so thirsty as to jump your bones the moment you present the opportunity - they have options.
Just because a woman doesn't find you attractive enough to jump your bones the moment you present the opportunity, doesn't mean she ain't jumping another guy's bones when presented the opportunity.

Will you save yourself time by being so direct? Maybe.
There is no maybe.

You will save yourself time and money.

I've had women actually thank me for not wasting their time.

If you value your time and money, you'll go Mode One.

However, if you don't value your time or money and want to gamble with both, then stick with indirect.

But you're likely to turn away more women who might otherwise be attracted to you.
There is no might.

Either a woman is attracted to you, or she isn't.

So are you REALLY saving yourself time if you have so approach significantly more women to get results?
Most of the guys on this forum aren't direct..yet, they are the ones having the issues in their dating lives, which is why they're the ones seeking advice.

So obviously, going indirect doesn't mean you will fare better.

I can't speak for Venom's track record. Mine is pretty well documented. So do what you want to do, given your goals.
If you want to save time, money, and not get flaked on..

Go direct.

Plain and simple.
 

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Your only 18 and you're hung up on this sole prospect.

Enjoy your life Kid. You should be talking and having more emotional connections with several women than this.

Enjoy your life man, you got a journey ahead of you. Don't take women too seriously and have a clear set of meaningful goals you'd like to accomplish the next several years.

Go out with your buddies and play pick up basketball or something, play flag football or soccer or something. Go to Parks and Recs and play some Billiards or swimming. Anything to get your mind off this. Don't get too preoccupied with girls or knock some broad up that will ruin your path in life.

Go read the scriptures, meditate and pray and learn to live a monastic lifestyle where you're comfortable being alone. This chick seems like she wants to get to know you better in a social setting, allow her to do that and let your relationship naturally blossom over time. But don't get too hung up on just one girl for your age.

Go on plenty of dates with plenty of women. When you approach a girl in the middle of a bookstore or mall, make her laugh, build great connection and invite her or her friends with her to go chill with you at a food court or cafe nearby.
 

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I hate when muhfukaz address what I say, without addressing me with it.



Mode One (direct game) ain't for everyone.

It takes confidence, and BALLS.

Most men have neither.

Sounds like you may be one of them.



Try again.

No one is forcefully doing anything.



Just because a woman doesn't find you attractive enough to jump your bones the moment you present the opportunity, doesn't mean she ain't jumping another guy's bones when presented the opportunity.



There is no maybe.

You will save yourself time and money.

I've had women actually thank me for not wasting their time.

If you value your time and money, you'll go Mode One.

However, if you don't value your time or money and want to gamble with both, then stick with indirect.



There is no might.

Either a woman is attracted to you, or she isn't.



Most of the guys on this forum aren't direct..yet, they are the ones having the issues in their dating lives, which is why they're the ones seeking advice.

So obviously, going indirect doesn't mean you will fare better.



If you want to save time, money, and not get flaked on..

Go direct.

Plain and simple.
I didn't tag you because I didn't feel like dealing with your headache...again...I'm here to advise a noobie, not challenge your ego.

Have you ever done sales? Because this is like sales.

Your approach is "hey, wanna f***?" and you next them if it's anything but "yes".

My approach is "hey you're gorgeous, what's your name?" and then I improvise.

Both approaches are direct, but like I've said before, your method is like throwing a Hail Mary every single play. You might score some touchdowns, but you'll probably score way more by taking a little more time and showing these women why they want to sleep with you rather than expecting them to already know.

On a side note, I've posted field reports and a whole journal here, so you should know better than to say I "don't have balls". I don't think I've read any of your reports - everything is just Mode One this, Mode One that.
 

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Go on plenty of dates with plenty of women. When you approach a girl in the middle of a bookstore or mall, make her laugh, build great connection and invite her or her friends with her to go chill with you at a food court or cafe nearby.
Im trying. I think it'll be easier to have options once in in college
 

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I didn't tag you because I didn't feel like dealing with your headache...again...
I can see why my approach would be a headache to you.

If you've been drinking Kool Aid and Capri Suns for most of your life, you ain't ready for that 151 Proof Vodka.

I'm here to advise a noobie
Oh, is that what you call it?

, not challenge your ego.
Mann, please..

Have you ever done sales? Because this is like sales.

Your approach is "hey, wanna f***?" and you next them if it's anything but "yes".
Um, no, that's not my approach.

When have I been on the record for using that approach, exclusively?

Never.

My approach is "hey you're gorgeous
Hmm. Sounds an awful lot like my "Give her a compliment first" opening.


Which is an opening line that I use, and have been suggesting during my tenure here.

But I hear you...please continue.. :cool:

, what's your name?" and then I improvise.
Bruh, that's all fine and dandy.

But the point is; if you want to smash, how long will it take for you to get from the trivial bullshiit conversation, to the discussion about smashing?

That is what separates the men from the boys...the dogs from the wolves.

The relationship doesn't officially begin, until you make a sexual advance/request towards her.

Until then, you are just having a conversation with another human being. :cool:

Both approaches are direct
I'm not too sure that your approach is direct.

, but like I've said before, your method is like throwing a Hail Mary every single play. You might score some touchdowns, but you'll probably score way more by taking a little more time and showing these women why they want to sleep with you rather than expecting them to already know.
But, that's not my approach though.

When you start off with a false premise, the conclusion that follows will also be false.

As is the case here.

On a side note, I've posted field reports and a whole journal here, so you should know better than to say I "don't have balls".
Well, based on what you've been saying, it seems like our definition of "direct" aint the same.

I'll check out the field reports tho. :up:

I don't think I've read any of your reports -
I've shared many reports/stories about my experiences.

everything is just Mode One this, Mode One that.
Because that's all that matters :devil::cool:.
 

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I didn't tag you because I didn't feel like dealing with your headache...again...I'm here to advise a noobie, not challenge your ego.

Have you ever done sales? Because this is like sales.

Your approach is "hey, wanna f***?" and you next them if it's anything but "yes".

My approach is "hey you're gorgeous, what's your name?" and then I improvise.

Both approaches are direct, but like I've said before, your method is like throwing a Hail Mary every single play. You might score some touchdowns, but you'll probably score way more by taking a little more time and showing these women why they want to sleep with you rather than expecting them to already know.

On a side note, I've posted field reports and a whole journal here, so you should know better than to say I "don't have balls". I don't think I've read any of your reports - everything is just Mode One this, Mode One that.
Provide the Field Report Thread, famo.
 
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