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Normal is the new special( thugmaxxxing is dying)

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We made a full circle. Normal is now the new way to be outstanding.

That means: disciplined, focus , cash saving and assets, good physique, being neat, well groomed, and a character that displays decency.

This man is way more unique than the played out badboy. Don't get me wrong: you'll still need traits from the badboy ,but they have to be more concealed.

Your thoughts.
 

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'thugmaxxing is dying' - Is that why Pete Davidson just removed all of his tats?!! lol
 

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Been saying for years simply acting normal will get you farther than you ever could imagine with what women are used to...

I used to regularly get thanked by women who went on first dates with me "for being normal".

And I would be like "Seriously? I don't think it's that hard"

And they would tell me and often times show me some of the messages from other guys and it would be cringe city and then all would have horror stories of guys that would only talk about politics on dates, or talk endlessly about their ex or have to leave way cause they had to be back in time for their ankle monitor check in, etc...

If most guys understood what their competition truly was, the focus simply would be on being a normal human being.
 

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If most guys understood what their competition truly was
For example?


But women will get bored if you are the "normal" guy.
You have to be the "normal" guy at your core, but have that spark of mistery and randomness that makes you elusive. Elusive is the right term
 

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For example?


But women will get bored if you are the "normal" guy.
You have to be the "normal" guy at your core, but have that spark of mistery and randomness that makes you elusive. Elusive is the right term
Being normal doesn't mean boring. It means you know how to act like a human being and not put on a dog and pony show trying to be something you aren't.
 

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Been saying for years simply acting normal will get you farther than you ever could imagine with what women are used to...

I used to regularly get thanked by women who went on first dates with me "for being normal".

And I would be like "Seriously? I don't think it's that hard"

And they would tell me and often times show me some of the messages from other guys and it would be cringe city and then all would have horror stories of guys that would only talk about politics on dates, or talk endlessly about their ex or have to leave way cause they had to be back in time for their ankle monitor check in, etc...

If most guys understood what their competition truly was, the focus simply would be on being a normal human being.
This

Everyone is mentally ill, broke, no career path, no decent housing and the lost goes om and on and on.

Being normal becomes a status symbol in itself.
 

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For example?


But women will get bored if you are the "normal" guy.
You have to be the "normal" guy at your core, but have that spark of mistery and randomness that makes you elusive. Elusive is the right term
Women get bores no matter who you are . You can be prime Brad and yet Angelina won't hide her craziness for evah evah.

Acceptance is the first step towards both recovery and growth.
 

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We made a full circle. Normal is now the new way to be outstanding.

That means: disciplined, focus , cash saving and assets, good physique, being neat, well groomed, and a character that displays decency.
The problem is; none of that stuff is normal.

A man that can check off those boxes, is an anomaly in today's society.

All of that good shiit^, you have to make it normal for you while realizing that not everyone will be on your level, when it comes to leveling up.

This man is way more unique than the played out badboy. Don't get me wrong: you'll still need traits from the badboy ,but they have to be more concealed.

Your thoughts.
What is a bad boy, though?

A lot of these labels aren't necessarily defined, and there is no "one size fits all" definition...even when it comes to other labels like "alpha", and "don".

In Red Pill circles, guys don't agree on certain stuff, yet they all consider themselves Alphas based on how they define the term.

But, to your point, you can always reject what you need to reject with the concept, and keep what you need to keep.
 

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There is a saying that goes, the pendulum swings booths ways. I can see some cues that society is going in the right direction for once.
 

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This is what my GenZ son keeps telling me.
Yeah we need some change, otherwise, fewer and fewer kids will be born, and society will be an old society with no youth to work.
 

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Yeah we need some change, otherwise, fewer and fewer kids will be born, and society will be an old society with no youth to work.
What you describe is a necessary short term scenario to get population levels back in check. Land and resources are finite.

In fact that's the argument globalists use to flood the west with 3rd world immigrants.

Economics will always be a series of trade offs. Typically there will be short term pain for long term benefit.
 
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