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Making friends with girls through cold approach. How to proceed?

Oatmeal31

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I often go out to cold approach on the street and because my eyesight is bad, the girl I walk up to sometimes is less attractive than what I saw at a distance. By the time I start talking to her, it's too late and I usually commit to talking a bit.

Instead of asking her out, I have a back and forth conversation, and then suggest we be friends (since I'm not attracted to her enough). Or there are times when I do ask her out, she says she's in a relationship and I end up suggesting we be friends and that she could introduce me to her group.

I've managed to get a few #s this way and I would intend on keeping it platonic, but how would you even proceed? My intention is to branch out and possibly get with her friends

I'm used to hanging out with guy friends one on one, like going to the bar to watch sports or just hanging out.

Would I only invite these girls out if I'm going to a party or something?
 

Oatmeal31

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Bro just leave, who cares? You're never going to see these girls again.

I was nearsighted until I got corrective LASIK surgery. Before then I'd walk up to girls and say hi and if they turned out to be unattractive I'd just eject.
They're not unattractive, just not my type or already have a boyfriend. I'm looking to take advantage and possibly get into their social circle to meet more women
 

BPH

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They're not unattractive, just not my type or already have a boyfriend. I'm looking to take advantage and possibly get into their social circle to meet more women
It's really not worth the time and effort to maybe get into a social circle with a random stranger you just met...ignoring the chance of them even having hot friends.
 

SW15

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but how would you even proceed?
Eject as soon as possible and find women who are interested in you sexually. Present a strong masculine & sexual frame.

My intention is to branch out and possibly get with her friends
It's really not worth the time and effort to maybe get into a social circle with a random stranger you just met...ignoring the chance of them even having hot friends.
Easier said than done. It's not very probable that you can make that happen. @BPH is accurate here.
 

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