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Social circle game guys aren't getting laid as much as you think.

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I found out about Leykis 101 during my time in college (2001-2005).

Leykis had a lot of good ideas. I stopped following him a while ago and moved on to others like Roosh and Rollo.
Yeah, I found him in 2001 as well, was active duty in the Navy, had a sweet job running a small boat, would listen to him all afternoon while finishing up my shift.
 

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Yeah, I found him in 2001 as well, was active duty in the Navy, had a sweet job running a small boat, would listen to him all afternoon while finishing up my shift.
Thank you for your military service. That does sound good on the boat.
 

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Thank you for your military service. That does sound good on the boat.
It was great, I have always loved boats, been living on mine for almost 8 years now, have had the time of my life, sailed her to Alaska and back in 2023, was the adventure of a lifetime.
 

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When most men get to 30+, most social circles are going to be majority couples. Most men over 30 are going to have a more difficult time using social circles. I have seen guys 30+ meet women through social circles but it's more challenging. Some of those men had circumstances that the average guy cannot replicate.
When I think of social circle, I think of young people, say fifteen to 25 years old, unmarried people with loads of free time and the freedom to be out late at night or hang out for hours on end. Single men over 30 generally don’t have available male friends to hang out with and much time to socialize.
 

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Single men over 30 generally don’t have available male friends to hang out with and much time to socialize.
I have a long term, ongoing thread about how my relationship as a 30+ never married man with my primary local social circle. I know you have added insight to this thread over time.


As a never married, childless 30+ man, it does become difficult to see a lot of friends on a regular basis. Most are married men and the majority of married men are married men with children under 18 living at home. The married men with children 10 and under are the least available.

Older, childless married men are more available but even they aren't very available.

I have enough friends that I can see my friends on an irregular basis and still see enough people to have an adequate social life. I'm more focused on my dating than on being with my male friends.

When I think of social circle, I think of young people, say fifteen to 25 years old, unmarried people with loads of free time and the freedom to be out late at night or hang out for hours on end.
That's the best time in one's life for that sort of thing.

I moved to my current city in my late 20s and made some friends with people slightly younger than I was who were unmarried and childless. I had a little bit of a social circle going on in my late 20s/early 30s but it quickly dissipated once more relationships got serious and marriage proposals were made. This was happening when I was in my early 30s so I did better than many males with this.
 
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