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How to land that OnlyFans Baddie?

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Given that roughly 1 in 10 women between 18 and 30 has an OnlyFans, Fansly or what ever flavor of coin operated girl she is, it has become commonplace and many of them are very attractive women, that is why they are successful at it.

With it becoming so common place these women are in the dating market, you pretty much have a 1 in 10 chance of meeting a woman who is into some kind of sex work these days.

The first thing you have to understand is the percentage of men who pay for these women's services online who actually are able to meet with her IRL and bang her are less than 1%, don't be the guy shoveling money at her, money isn't going to make her interested in you, she has a whole lot of other simps who will give her money without having to **** her.

The second thing you need to understand is these women are for recreational use only, you cannot make a hoe into a housewife, you're not going to tame her, you cannot put the bullet back in that gun it's already been fired. Being in a relationship of any kind with these women is going to be a terrible experience because she is already broken enough to consider playing queen of the nerds on the internet for a living.

Don't hate them for it, when a woman goes down this path she was completely failed by her parents and often times they have a history of trauma and abuse, you're not going to fix her or save her, get those notions out of your head.

Well where are you going to meet her? Well if it happens it is going to happen organically, and you might not even find out she does it until after you have banged her. This is because locally, women obfuscate their actions when they are into sex work because they know they are going to be judged harshly for it.

The amount of effort a man would have to go through to woo one of these women on purpose is going to be far more than anything you would actually get out of having sex with her, and certainly far far more than anything you might get out of a relationship with her.

Essentially the advice here is don't go out looking for them, don't try and make them your wife, if you find out that a woman does OF after you have started banging, just understand she is for recreational use only, don't form attachments, don't be her protector, it isn't your job to deal with the stalkers and bull**** that come from her chosen profession.

To be bluntly honest with you guys, none of the women I have ever banged over the years who were into sex work were worth it, most of them are surrounded by drama, much of which they create for themselves, many suffer from BPD, they tend to be highly narcissistic, often they are objectively terrible people.

On a final note, if you are a man who has an OnlyFans user account go delete that **** right now, it will be a good first step towards not being a pathetic loser who has to pay a woman to look at her or even pay attention to you.
 

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The first thing you have to understand is the percentage of men who pay for these women's services online who actually are able to meet with her IRL and bang her are less than 1%, don't be the guy shoveling money at her, money isn't going to make her interested in you, she has a whole lot of other simps who will give her money without having to **** her.

if you are a man who has an OnlyFans user account go delete that **** right now, it will be a good first step towards not being a pathetic loser who has to pay a woman to look at her or even pay attention to you.
Agree with you. Don't be that guy who pays for content on OnlyFans. Being a fan of an OnlyFans woman won't result in getting poontang from any OnlyFans woman.

Prior to OnlyFans, it would have been recommended not to meet strippers at their workplaces and not to meet breastaurant workers at their workplaces. That's still true today for those women and some of them might even have an OnlyFans.

where are you going to meet her? Well if it happens it is going to happen organically, and you might not even find out she does it until after you have banged her. This is because locally, women obfuscate their actions when they are into sex work because they know they are going to be judged harshly for it.

The amount of effort a man would have to go through to woo one of these women on purpose is going to be far more than anything you would actually get out of having sex with her, and certainly far far more than anything you might get out of a relationship with her.

Essentially the advice here is don't go out looking for them, don't try and make them your wife, if you find out that a woman does OF after you have started banging, just understand she is for recreational use only, don't form attachments, don't be her protector, it isn't your job to deal with the stalkers and bull**** that come from her chosen profession.
There's not a good way to plan to meet women who are OnlyFans creators, strippers, breastaurant workers, or other porn stars.

If a man happens to run into a woman in those categories, it could happen anywhere. Some gyms will attract these women more than others. Many gyms are good places to find these types. Some nightlife venues will work for finding these women. It's improbable to run into them in grocery stores and malls, though it is possible.
 

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If a man happens to run into a woman in those categories, it could happen anywhere. Some gyms will attract these women more than others. Many gyms are good places to find these types. Some nightlife venues will work for finding these women. It's improbable to run into them in grocery stores and malls, though it is possible.
very true and often when you meet them they are going to be extremely reluctant to say anything about it to you if they are into you because many have the mistaken idea that when they find the right man they can just delete everything and become Suzie-homemaker, or make him the porno boyfriend.

You don't want to be the porno boyfriend or the boyfriend and the reason why, when she inevitably picks up a stalker, that stalker is going to consider you to be the only thing keeping her from being madly in love with him, and often times that either leaves you as being an opponent to defeat in a battle, or possibly even murder.

You just don't want that **** in your life.
 

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You don't want to be the porno boyfriend or the boyfriend and the reason why, when she inevitably picks up a stalker, that stalker is going to consider you to be the only thing keeping her from being madly in love with him, and often times that either leaves you as being an opponent to defeat in a battle, or possibly even murder.

You just don't want that **** in your life.
I agree with that. It's definitely applicable with porn stars and OnlyFans women.

I think that might actually happen with strippers on some level too. Guys from the strip club might be like the OnlyFans fans too.

It's probably least likely with breastaurant (Hooters/Twin Peaks) type waitresses/bartenders.

when you meet them they are going to be extremely reluctant to say anything about it to you if they are into you because many have the mistaken idea that when they find the right man they can just delete everything and become Suzie-homemaker
True.

Many women on OnlyFans aren't making that much money off of their OnlyFans. Few women can get their OnlyFans subs to a level where they can live on their OnlyFans income alone.
 

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Many women on OnlyFans aren't making that much money off of their OnlyFans. Few women can get their OnlyFans subs to a level where they can live on their OnlyFans income alone.
That is another thing as well, the bottom 74% are making less than $150 a month. If she is one of these women she is actually more dangerous because the people subscribed to her are probably the men who know her locally who had begged her to join hoping to stick her into a pay to play scheme where eventually she would realize what a "great guy he is" and fall in love with him.

That means when she starts dating you he will see you as having disrupted something he has paid for.
 

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If she is one of these women she is actually more dangerous because the people subscribed to her are probably the men who know her locally who had begged her to join hoping to stick her into a pay to play scheme where eventually she would realize what a "great guy he is" and fall in love with him.

That means when she starts dating you he will see you as having disrupted something he has paid for.
Very good point.

the bottom 74% are making less than $150 a month.
Some of them might be supplementing with other sex work. Many will likely have conventional jobs.
 

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Very good point.

Some of them might be supplementing with other sex work. Many will likely have conventional jobs.
Oh yeah, they often absolutely do, most men have no idea how many women are low key prostitutes.
 

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If a woman mentioned only fans to me I would be gone in a heartbeat

its probably the biggest ICK a female can have
That is the right call for most of them TBH, there may be a rare one out there who was peer pressured into doing it because that is also a thing, but many go running to it because they're *****s.
 

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most men have no idea how many women are low key prostitutes.
The numbers are high. Depending on the type of sex work, these women are taking advantage of horny men lacking access to sex. More and more men are sexless/nearly sexless. These can range from unmarried incel males to married men in dead bedroom marriages.

Myron on Fresh & Fit has talked about how common sex work is for women.
 

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Just FYI, a 1 in 10 chance is the opposite of common.

Also, the title 'How to Land an OF Baddie' and the advice of not going out to look for them, or not providing instructions on how to game them, is rather contradictory and unhelpful.
 

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The numbers are high.
I used to know a few really hot young girls who worked as air stewardesses and later found out they would wh0re themselves out in their 'breaks'/stayovers before flying back home lol (because of the airlines they worked at, they were travelling to either Vegas or Dubai. They were Brits. Very hot 18 year olds). They'd make their monthly wage in an hour lol
 
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