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Heavily Tattooed Females Are A Red Flag!

HaleyBaron

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Just my personal opinion based on experience.. You may not agree with me, which is fine.

Any girl I have ever dealt with who was heavily tattooed, was absolutely off her ****in trolly.. Or she was sexualy very open & promiscuous.

I'm not talking about a single tattoo, somewhere discreet on her body. I'm talking large tattoos and multiple tattoos over her body.

It screams lack of impulse control to me & likely an outwardly expression, of some trauma she has experienced which has left her damaged.

Like I said.. just my opinion based on experience.. I could be wrong. Would be interesting to hear of your experiences with heavily tattooed & pierced females?
And dyed hair.
 

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You can tell a lot about a tattooed woman, if she is someone who has something that is a well thought out piece of art, she is safer, if she is someone who looks like a toddler colored all over her with a tattoo gun, she is ****ing nuts.

Women who love tattoos are masochists, they like them because they hurt.

If you don't know how to deal with a masochist, yeah, you're going to have a bad time.
 

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You can tell a lot about a tattooed woman, if she is someone who has something that is a well thought out piece of art, she is safer, if she is someone who looks like a toddler colored all over her with a tattoo gun, she is ****ing nuts.

Women who love tattoos are masochists, they like them because they hurt.

If you don't know how to deal with a masochist, yeah, you're going to have a bad time.
Facts.. Some girls with emotional/mental health issues resort to cutting (arms)

In current times they resort to the needle and plastering tattoo's all over themselves.
 

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Facts.. Some girls with emotional/mental health issues resort to cutting (arms)

In current times they resort to the needle and plastering tattoo's all over themselves.
More than just their arms, when you encounter a woman who has been or is a cutter, it means she has a huge amount of emotional pain she is carrying around inside, as long as she doesn't have BPD she will be someone who in the right hands can find a productive way to deal with her pain, and often showing her how to do that, making her feel safe enough with you to experience pain in a consensual way that doesn't leave her with long lasting injuries and scars, it can make her incredibly attached to you.

If you are going to tread off down this path though you need to learn a lot about it first.
 

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More than just their arms, when you encounter a woman who has been or is a cutter, it means she has a huge amount of emotional pain she is carrying around inside, as long as she doesn't have BPD she will be someone who in the right hands can find a productive way to deal with her pain, and often showing her how to do that, making her feel safe enough with you to experience pain in a consensual way that doesn't leave her with long lasting injuries and scars, it can make her incredibly attached to you.

If you are going to tread off down this path though you need to learn a lot about it first.
I dated an ex model.. Very attractive girl.. beautiful body even at her age (32)

However I could tell she has been through some chit, and she had the scars on her arms from the cutting.

I don't think I was prepared to stick around to fix her though.

She must have made some bad choices around her modelling career.
 

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I dated an ex model.. Very attractive girl.. beautiful body even at her age (32)

However I could tell she has been through some chit, and she had the scars on her arms from the cutting.

I don't think I was prepared to stick around to fix her though.

She must have made some bad choices around her modelling career.
If she is a cutter it often goes back to childhood abuse, often times sexual assault.

Which is why I show a woman who is a cutter a good deal of compassion as long as she isn't crazy with BPD or something because what happened to make her feel this way is almost always not her fault.
 

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Please define acceptable tattoos, location, thematic, colors, size.
Also, how many tattoos will be too many.
 

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If she is a cutter it often goes back to childhood abuse, often times sexual assault.

Which is why I show a woman who is a cutter a good deal of compassion as long as she isn't crazy with BPD or something because what happened to make her feel this way is almost always not her fault.
Because I'm not a head doctor, I wasn't willing to hang around with her, to find out if she was BPD or not.. I know for a fact cocaine use is a thing in the modelling world & she definitely dabbled with coke.

I put my fastest trainers
on.. And got the fuk out of there lol
 

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Please define acceptable tattoos, location, thematic, colors, size.
Also, how many tattoos will be too many.
Personally I believe, if the tattoo is discreet then it's no big deal.

However if the tattoos are very obvious.. on the face, neck or the arms and hands, then something like this can affect your career potentials.

This tells me that you lack foresight and make impulsive decisions.
 

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Personally, I’m not a fan of tattoos. I don’t have any myself, and when I see women with them, I don’t find them attractive, especially in more unusual spots that seem to be popular now (like on the biceps, between the breasts, or on the scapula).

That said, I follow a Twitch streamer who has a lot of tattoos, and in this rare case, I actually find them appealing. In fact, they make her even more attractive. She’s kind of my type, too—she has great teeth, nice makeup, a slim figure, and her red hair gives her an exotic vibe.

Anyway, she used to have a boyfriend, also heavily tattooed, and after they broke up, he accused her of being abusive, a micro-cheater, self-victimizing, controlling, lacking self-awareness, and so on. I’m sure he has his own issues, but this is the only experience I have with women who have a lot of tattoos. Since I generally don’t like them, I also assume women with tattoos probably aren’t drawn to me either.

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Went out with a chick who had a arm sleeve last night, she overshares and says that she use to be a major 304, I got the vibe that she can be a bit crazy didn't smash but neither am I pursuing it. Got more plates to spin
Slores usually let it slip, they are Slores. You will be surprised how often they snitch on themselves.

You see they rarely feel the need to impress a man or WIN a commitment from him, due to her having 100 simp back up plans.

Therefore they just say whatever they want, without thinking.
 
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