Keeping frame with other men

jhonny9546

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Hi! It's very common to hear about how to keep the frame with women.

Has anyone ever wondered how to keep it with men?
Are you usually kinder and more understanding with other men, compared to women?
 

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The best way to hold frame with either sex is simply not to care about it.
 

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Pretty simple, your frame is about you, not them. Your boundaries, your goals, your values. It's not a pose. It's 100% authentic you. Obviously there is always room for compromise or change. But that all falls into your frame too. So obviously yes care about that, but don't be worried about everyone else or how you're perceived.
 

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Hi! It's very common to hear about how to keep the frame with women.

Has anyone ever wondered how to keep it with men?
Are you usually kinder and more understanding with other men, compared to women?
Frame is not something you have to keep, its just who you are. There nothing to keep, if you think you have to keep frame, then you don't have anything.

Ex: if you and I are talking, you light up a weed joint, you pass it to me and I say "Nah I'm good", that's my frame, that's who I am, there is nothing to hold cause that's part of me, no matter what you do or what you say, I just don't smoke weed.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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