Harsh Truth: Women pursue the men that they want

[GoodMan32]

Speak for yourself.

Individual exceptions exist (where a man has abundance)

It's been pointed out on this forum many times, however, that swipe apps have allowed even a mediocre/below average woman to attain abundance.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Individual exceptions exist (where a man has abundance)

It's been pointed out on this forum many times, however, that swipe apps have allowed even a mediocre/below average woman to attain abundance.

Most men on this site have abundance because they do what's necessary to make this possible. You do not.

Whether women have it or not is irrelevant. Not my problem.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

when women do pursue, they obviously do it differently than men would

 

[GoodMan32]

when women do pursue, they obviously do it differently than men would

It's been said by one of the few female posters on this forum that when a woman is into a man, the woman will (in the vast majority of cases) drop hints that she'd like the man to ask her out (but it's rare for a woman to come out and do the official ask out)

Some might say dropping "ask me out" hints are an example of a woman pursuing a man. I disagree. Because even when the woman drops hints, it's still up to the man to read the hints/do the pursual.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

It's been said by one of the few female posters on this forum that when a woman is into a man, the woman will (in the vast majority of cases) drop hints that she'd like the man to ask her out (but it's rare for a woman to come out and do the official ask out)

Some might say dropping "ask me out" hints are an example of a woman pursuing a man. I disagree. Because even when the woman drops hints, it's still up to the man to read the hints/do the pursual.

She will straight up ask him out.
It might be a little soft like: ‘We should get a drink after work.’. Or ‘That sounds like a fun event. We should go.’.
All the way to: ‘Let’s get a room.’
Women are not as passive or shy as they are often made to be.

 

[maturin]

The OPs 1st paragraph is a fact. This is how women are wired. They want to be in the presence of the man who makes her "feel". Who she's really into. All women will do it. Has nothing to do with her being low self esteem. This is the natural order. Not the other way around.

Unfortunately men have been programmed to chase. Partly chivalry and partly protecting womans true nature. Its the way a modern society says things ought to be bec this false model makes woman the prize. This is a huge mistake and where the avg guy ****s up. The man's roll is to grease the wheels and set things in motion. In fact if shesnot chasing and cooperating early on she not that interested. At this point, men will act according to the BP script they've been conditioned to follow. Some will even proclaim their undying love for melady.

 

[GoodMan32]

She will straight up ask him out.
It might be a little soft like: ‘We should get a drink after work.’. Or ‘That sounds like a fun event. We should go.’.
All the way to: ‘Let’s get a room.’
Women are not as passive or shy as they are often made to be.

Unfortunately, I've largely missed out on this bold side of the ladies.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Unfortunately, I've largely missed out on this bold side of the ladies.

Then. You must be the Bold one.

 

[CornbreadFed]

No, I have not.

In summary, you want to have around a 130-135 score because you are smarter than mainstream society but not too smart to be socially distinguishable from mainstream society like Elon Musk & Kanye West. This IQ makes the best higher up leaders or commanders.

 

[jhonny9546]

She will straight up ask him out.
It might be a little soft like: ‘We should get a drink after work.’. Or ‘That sounds like a fun event. We should go.’.
All the way to: ‘Let’s get a room.’
Women are not as passive or shy as they are often made to be.

This is not so common for many men.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

This is not so common for many men.

I’m not implying it is ‘common’. But it does happen.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

I’m not implying it is ‘common’. But it does happen.

yeah but it has always been and more than likely always will be very rare for women to do that.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

yeah but it has always been and more than likely always will be very rare for women to do that.

I would go with ‘uncommon to Rare’. Rather than ‘very rare’.

 

[GoodMan32]

yeah but it has always been and more than likely always will be very rare for women to do that.

I recommend the following AI looks rater:

https://attractivenesstest.com/

If you have a decent looks rating, chances are there have been instances where a woman has pursued you without your knowledge (as ASD can make it difficult to pick up on a woman's clues)

 

[jhonny9546]

I recommend the following AI looks rater:

https://attractivenesstest.com/

If you have a decent looks rating, chances are there have been instances where a woman has pursued you without your knowledge (as ASD can make it difficult to pick up on a woman's clues)

I've got this result out of 3 pics. So now I'd like to see your results too guys.
Women send us IOI's, and my height definetly play a role in that.
That's why women who don't care about my height are really into me
Anyway, I don't think this works since I'm getting 8.5 and brad pitt only 7

 

[GoodMan32]

I've got this result out of 3 pics. So now I'd like to see your results too guys.
Women send us IOI's, and my height definetly play a role in that.
That's why women who don't care about my height are really into me
Anyway, I don't think this works since I'm getting 8.5 and brad pitt only 7
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Brad Pitt getting scored a 7 doesn't surprise me.

Is Brad Pitt above average? Absolutely. The only reason society views him as a 10, however, is because of his fame. So 7 sounds about right for him (when we're solely taking looks into account)

That's what's awesome about AI. It doesn't take social standing/personal bias into account. It only takes your actual looks into account.

Younger images of me consistently score in the 7s (I was even pushing an 8, at 7.98, my senior year of high school). Images of me from more recent years mostly score in the 6s, with a sprinkling of 5s (and one picture I took earlier this month scored in the low 7s)

It doesn't surprise me you get IOIs because of your height. My point when I replied to @H8CourtshipWithAPassion was that he probably gets IOIs from gals without realizing it (because his ASD prevents him from reading the IOIs...I say that as a fellow man with ASD who's probably failed to pick up on my fair share of IOIs)

 

[jhonny9546]

It doesn't surprise me you get IOIs because of your height.

My height its 165cm. But my face look like 8.5 on an AI Beauty software. So I get many IOI's, but women still consider that height gap very very very important.

 

[SW15]

Brad Pitt getting scored a 7 doesn't surprise me.

Is Brad Pitt above average? Absolutely. The only reason society views him as a 10, however, is because of his fame. So 7 sounds about right for him (when we're solely taking looks into account)

Brad Pitt is now 61. A 61 year old man is not as good looking as he once was. His peak on looks was a long time ago.

Most men's peak on looks is their 20s. Men in their 30s can experience minimal looks drop off.

An in-shape 61 year old man isn't going to be as good looking as he was at 31 or compared to 21-31 year olds today who are in reasonably good shape.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Brad Pitt is now 61. A 61 year old man is not as good looking as he once was. His peak on looks was a long time ago.

Most men's peak on looks is their 20s. Men in their 30s can experience minimal looks drop off.

An in-shape 61 year old man isn't going to be as good looking as he was at 31 or compared to 21-31 year olds today who are in reasonably good shape.

The wall is much harsher to men than women by far.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

If you’re just getting IOI’s and subtle hints - You are not good looking. You are average looking.
It’s really as simple as that.
if you are good looking. You already know it. No need to be rated.