Harsh Truth: Women pursue the men that they want

[GoodMan32]

Speak for yourself.

Individual exceptions exist (where a man has abundance)

It's been pointed out on this forum many times, however, that swipe apps have allowed even a mediocre/below average woman to attain abundance.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Individual exceptions exist (where a man has abundance)

It's been pointed out on this forum many times, however, that swipe apps have allowed even a mediocre/below average woman to attain abundance.

Most men on this site have abundance because they do what's necessary to make this possible. You do not.

Whether women have it or not is irrelevant. Not my problem.

 

[H8CourtshipWithAPassion]

when women do pursue, they obviously do it differently than men would

 

[GoodMan32]

when women do pursue, they obviously do it differently than men would

It's been said by one of the few female posters on this forum that when a woman is into a man, the woman will (in the vast majority of cases) drop hints that she'd like the man to ask her out (but it's rare for a woman to come out and do the official ask out)

Some might say dropping "ask me out" hints are an example of a woman pursuing a man. I disagree. Because even when the woman drops hints, it's still up to the man to read the hints/do the pursual.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

It's been said by one of the few female posters on this forum that when a woman is into a man, the woman will (in the vast majority of cases) drop hints that she'd like the man to ask her out (but it's rare for a woman to come out and do the official ask out)

Some might say dropping "ask me out" hints are an example of a woman pursuing a man. I disagree. Because even when the woman drops hints, it's still up to the man to read the hints/do the pursual.

She will straight up ask him out.
It might be a little soft like: ‘We should get a drink after work.’. Or ‘That sounds like a fun event. We should go.’.
All the way to: ‘Let’s get a room.’
Women are not as passive or shy as they are often made to be.

 

[maturin]

The OPs 1st paragraph is a fact. This is how women are wired. They want to be in the presence of the man who makes her "feel". Who she's really into. All women will do it. Has nothing to do with her being low self esteem. This is the natural order. Not the other way around.

Unfortunately men have been programmed to chase. Partly chivalry and partly protecting womans true nature. Its the way a modern society says things ought to be bec this false model makes woman the prize. This is a huge mistake and where the avg guy ****s up. The man's roll is to grease the wheels and set things in motion. In fact if shesnot chasing and cooperating early on she not that interested. At this point, men will act according to the BP script they've been conditioned to follow. Some will even proclaim their undying love for melady.

 

[GoodMan32]

She will straight up ask him out.
It might be a little soft like: ‘We should get a drink after work.’. Or ‘That sounds like a fun event. We should go.’.
All the way to: ‘Let’s get a room.’
Women are not as passive or shy as they are often made to be.

Unfortunately, I've largely missed out on this bold side of the ladies.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Unfortunately, I've largely missed out on this bold side of the ladies.

Then. You must be the Bold one.