How your value as a mature men make an impact when you enter a room

jhonny9546

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How women react when you enter a room? Or you enter their space?

After you more mature, let's say after your 30's, You'll notice more interaction and signals from women of all kind. In fact, the pool of women is much larger now: young single women, older single women, single mothers, women in a relationship or married, with children, etc. It would be nice to hear from you guys, after you became the "mature men" and adjusted your value, and get your shhit togheter, How women actually replied to that.

So, if you were like me, a guy with no value or poor management of his life, and now, you're working on, but you gained some value, you will notice it. If you started like a chad, it's hard for you to notice any difference.

For example, in my case, over the past year, after making various improvements, there has been a lot of commotion around me.
I haven't had many online approaches, I guess because I don't have strong social validation on the platforms, and I'm not very active there.
However, in general, let's say that I am simply looked at a lot by women, especially in the face (I'm not tall), and I notice them giving me glances when I'm not paying attention. I dress well, I'm well-groomed and fit, and women pay attention. Those interested in something more make up any excuse to talk to me or be in my proximity. Those who are even more interested have simply touched me or paid me compliments. At the seaside, I received many IOIs about my body and face again. I'm not big, but I suppose I have a sexy body.
There are many interested women, especially long-time friends or acquaintances, who are single or in a relationship, with or without children, but they act "shy" or "nervous" around me. I've also notice how they treath me differently.

How often do you get approached? How easy is that for a value mature men?

For me, I don't get too much of that, but let's say I will go to one place, a bar, restaurant, office, club, or whatever else, and for sure there is at least one woman who is interested in me. Then, if She has a female friend there, they'll flirt togheter.
 

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Less than 1% of the male population are "natural Chads"
I think out of a group of 10 men, 1 will be a "chad". I think out of 10 women, 1 will be a stacy. The chad and stacy will ultimately match up. However, 2 to 3 women will throw themselves on the "chad" thinking (because of feminism and brain washing), they can get the "chad".

The chad will probably just serial date these women.. because, "why not?" Society doesn't care. Society doesn't really believe in chastity anymore. Yo go girl.
 

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Congratulations on making improvements in your life. Next step is to make them for yourself and not for the approval of others.
I don't think I do it for others, but when there are men who recognize my efforts it certainly makes me happy.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hi Jhonny,
You are right....When I enter a room I make sure my chest is inflated and my head straight...Comes from dancing where the Top Guns,lead with their chests and not their arms.
 

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It would be nice to hear from you guys, after you became the "mature men" and adjusted your value, and get your shhit togheter, How women actually replied to that.
Congrats man.

- The ones who rejected you, will resent you seeing you better, but at the same time they will have desire for you.
- Other won't look you in the eyes due to being "out of their league"
- Other will send you likes on social media
- Other will look at you with "fvck me eyes"
- Other will ignore you on purpose to appear they don't like you as a way of $hit testing you
- Others will say it out right that they want you to fvck them
- Others will be near to you like you said, for you to take the initiative and talk to them

The Rationale Male put it best "Nothing is more threatening yet simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who is aware of his own value to women."
 

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Congrats man.

- The ones who rejected you, will resent you seeing you better, but at the same time they will have desire for you.
- Other won't look you in the eyes due to being "out of their league"
- Other will send you likes on social media
- Other will look at you with "fvck me eyes"
- Other will ignore you on purpose to appear they don't like you as a way of $hit testing you
- Others will say it out right that they want you to fvck them
- Others will be near to you like you said, for you to take the initiative and talk to them

The Rationale Male put it best "Nothing is more threatening yet simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who is aware of his own value to women."
Indeed. Mature men tend to display value and convey great value outwardly by carying yourself well - groomed, well clothed, smell nice, speak appropriately and generally have experienced life many ways. Thus projecting safety, weath and comfort that women seek. Bellichick 84 with a good looking girl 26. Outrage scuttled that chick.
I traveled to WY on business, went to Applebee's for dinner. Most people were openly smoking. A 70 yr old had this gorgeous chick on his arm. Began to talk to me thru dinner and drinks. Strange place.
 

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I've noticed that 90% of my interpretation obviously happens within my own head. When I'm feeling good I'm literally catching women gasping. And I like that.

I believe that small incremental changes go a long ,long way. The gym, your style of clothes, your overall vibe( mental health) , how secured you feel in your own skin, skincare...how you smell. Posture is a big one just like attitude.

Gotta step outside like here I am mafakkas!! Be proud of yourself and keep feeding your ego with reasons to be proud.

Don't ever come across as desperate for p00sy, even if you didn't got any for some time. Carry your self with dignity.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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