OYS:1 My relationship ended, 2.5 years

[New_Journey]

All,

I'm taking this idea from @The Duke when he ended his relation. I ended my relationship. I read @SW15 who wrote once, that relationships bring out people's worst insecurity for both parties, and its very true.

However, we were great together and she was a very lovely person towards me and I loved her very much. My pledge is to shape myself into a man who is going to be very proud when he looks back.

 

[Gamisch]

Good luck bro. Always better to be on the deciding side instead of receiving the message.

Why you ended it?

 

[New_Journey]

Good luck bro. Always better to be on the deciding side instead of receiving the message.

Why you ended it?

We both need to work on ourselves and it was best to end it.

 

[Scaramouche]

We both need to work on ourselves and it was best to end it.

Hi New-Journey,
Don't you think you are taking yourselves too seriously?

 

[New_Journey]

Hi New-Journey,
Don't you think you are taking yourselves too seriously?

I'm a serious man, yes

 

[Slowhandluke]

I'm a serious man, yes

I've been serious all my life. As I get older, I noticed life is too short to be serious Also, the less serious I am, the more things seem to fall in place by themselves. It's like the athletic who doesn't overthink things, but just let it be and yet make the wining basket or goal. Get in the state of flow. ymmv

 

[Chow Mein]

Same chick from the vacation video?

 

[BaronOfHair]

All,

I'm taking this idea from @The Duke when he ended his relation. I ended my relationship. I read @SW15 who wrote once, that relationships bring out people's worst insecurity for both parties, and its very true.

However, we were great together and she was a very lovely person towards me and I loved her very much. My pledge is to shape myself into a man who is going to be very proud when he looks back.

Kudos to you, NJ. So often around The Manosphere, we hear the lament "Women initiate 70% of all divorces, and probably just as many break-ups", without anyone ever pointing out: This doesn't HAVE to be the case. Entirely too many of us are choosing to be passive, not just with women, but in our lives more generally

 

[jhonny9546]

If a man wants to really save himself from a lot of future pain, it’s important for him to understand this thread. There is nothing worse than a man suddenly realizing in some aspect, he has wasted a lot of his time and possibly even his life trying to solve an unsolvable when it comes to his need to have a permanent, exclusive mate.

Sooo much creative potential wasted on such a passé idea that has so little return or reward. A man is not a woman. His purpose goes far beyond the simplistic and mundane concepts he is force fed and programmed to believe in.

The nature of the pro creation dynamic is a lower end process. We create worlds and yet the bulk of such men waste entire lifetimes in the world of women.

 

[New_Journey]

Thank you folks. This was my longest relationship since I became what I wanted to be in terms of material achievements, and it was a learning experience since the beginning.

For those in a relationship, never stop improving yourself, mind, body, spirit, finance, never stop being a better man cause you have woman. If I can go back in time, I'll thank myself for never quitting as I see the fruits of my hard labor today that I'm single