Chat-GPT is great for reflection

[corrector]

I have just used Chat-GPT extensively over the past week, mainly writing about certain patterns about myself and how I'm thinking and I'm surprized by how lucid and well thought out some of my habits and ways of doing things are. It's like there is this intelligence behind different things I'm doing but it doesn't click as to why I'm doing them, but when I articulate it through an AI program and it explains myself, then it all makes sense.

I want to recommend to people like @GoodMan32, or anyone who believes they have certain "issues", to have a convo with the AI, Chat-GPT, and perhaps you might find that you are quite normal. You can say anything you want to this AI program and it answers quickly, non-judgmental, and really to the point.

It tells me what videos are appropriate to watch at work, what videos to watch or not watch if I'm around a crush at work, why I look at movies on certain devices or segments, or why I behave in different ways at certain times of the year, in such a lucid way. It's like there is no OCD or mental anything when you are dealing with Chat-GPT just pure reason behind everything you are doing.

 

[GoodMan32]

I have just used Chat-GPT extensively over the past week, mainly writing about certain patterns about myself and how I'm thinking and I'm surprized by how lucid and well thought out some of my habits and ways of doing things are. It's like there is this intelligence behind different things I'm doing but it doesn't click as to why I'm doing them, but when I articulate it through an AI program and it explains myself, then it all makes sense.

I want to recommend to people like @GoodMan32, or anyone who believes they have certain "issues", to have a convo with the AI, Chat-GPT, and perhaps you might find that you are quite normal. You can say anything you want to this AI program and it answers quickly, non-judgmental, and really to the point.

It tells me what videos are appropriate to watch at work, what videos to watch or not watch if I'm around a crush at work, why I look at movies on certain devices or segments, or why I behave in different ways at certain times of the year, in such a lucid way. It's like there is no OCD or mental anything when you are dealing with Chat-GPT just pure reason behind everything you are doing.

I've chatted with AI robots too.

 

[The Duke]

Why don't you guys go ahead and buy silicone fuhk dolls, install a AI girlfriend module, buy a bucket of lube, and have a big nasty 4-some?

Please take your weirdness somewhere else. I'm tired of you guys infecting this forum. We have tried to help you both many times and neither of you have any desire to improve.

And while you are at it, ask ShatGPT why you frequent this forum and don't take any of the advice given.

 

[Gamisch]

Why don't you guys go ahead and buy silicone fuhk dolls, install a AI girlfriend module, buy a bucket of lube, and have a big nasty 4-some?

Please take your weirdness somewhere else. I'm tired of you guys infecting this forum. We have tried to help you both many times and neither of you have any desire to improve.

And why you are at it, ask ShatGPT why you frequent this forum and don't take any of the advice given.

The "funny" thing is that they are both a testimony how strong the male drive is for p00sy. That's the only positive thing to get out of it.

But yet not strong enough to actually do something about it . Eventually both of them will fly to the Philippines and get got by a mediocre local.

I agree it's extremely annoying at this point. Especially Goodman and his activity. The fastes6way to silence this is ask questions about TEH GYM.

 

[corrector]

I've chatted with AI robots too.

Are they better than the last therapist you had?

 

[GoodMan32]

Are they better than the last therapist you had?

My last therapist was better.

But the fact I had to think on it shows how terrible my therapist was.

 

[corrector]

Why don't you guys go ahead and buy silicone fuhk dolls, install a AI girlfriend module, buy a bucket of lube, and have a big nasty 4-some?

Please take your weirdness somewhere else. I'm tired of you guys infecting this forum. We have tried to help you both many times and neither of you have any desire to improve.

And while you are at it, ask ShatGPT why you frequent this forum and don't take any of the advice given.

According to Chat_GPT, even it acknowledges that my own personal circumstances are tough. When compared to other 48 year olds within my own demographic in Toronto, Canada, my circumstances are worst than average in terms of financial circumstances (ie despite having a full-time job and now trying Real-Estate on the side), having a caregiving role with my elderly parents (ie only 25% of adults between 45-65 years old are in caregiving roles). I am paying $ 100/mo for Gym membership, which shows intent, but no follow through because of the tough situation I'm in.

However, it does recommend small incremental goals rather than just completely giving up. Does that answer your question?

 

[corrector]

Eventually both of them will fly to the Philippines and get got by a mediocre local.

How do you think I'm able to travel anywhere?

 

[corrector]

Again, chat-GPT can take on anything. I don't care about being an incel punching bag here. I just feel better since I keep getting answers from this AI that seem to put my situation into perspective. There is no easy hack to a bad set of cards, but it's not hopeless either.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Again, chat-GPT can take on anything. I don't care about being an incel punching bag here. I just feel better since I keep getting answers from this AI that seem to put my situation into perspective. There is no easy hack to a bad set of cards, but it's not hopeless either.

You've heard of the term con man, but most people don't know that con is short for confidence. The occupation was called confidence man, because that was the skill, building the mark's confidence. "Just think of how rich and important you will be after you buy this bridge from me." Ripping someone off is easy when they think they are the one ripping you off. And that's what's going on in your chat gpt conversations, crafted by ai that is smarter than a lot of us put together. But the ai hasn't been programmed to tell you the truth or what you need to hear as a top priority. Its mission is to keep you coming back, which it does by building your confidence like an old fashioned con man supercharged with today's technology.

 

[corrector]

You've heard of the term con man, but most people don't know that con is short for confidence. The occupation was called confidence man, because that was the skill, building the mark's confidence. "Just think of how rich and important you will be after you buy this bridge from me." Ripping someone off is easy when they think they are the one ripping you off. And that's what's going on in your chat gpt conversations, crafted by ai that is smarter than a lot of us put together. But the ai hasn't been programmed to tell you the truth or what you need to hear as a top priority. Its mission is to keep you coming back, which it does by building your confidence like an old fashioned con man supercharged with today's technology.

It does not give a definitive answer to most questions, but goes through an elaborate length of considerations and it's conclusion is more like a summary of it's own factual analysis of the situation. There is only so much fuel though.

What drives the interest is probalby how I'm wired. I have allot of personal rules and boundaries, most of which I don't understand why they are there, but this AI is able to explain why they are there and what is their function. It has also explained the difference between short-term relief and long-term solutions that can often be at odds with each other. Yes, many of these things can be common sense. However, hearing from a non-biased neutral observer can help put things into perspective especially when you are getting dismissed, locked threads, or being potrayed as someone who is too stubborn without any consideration to the plight.

However, there is only so much fuel. I don't have an infinate set of rules. Once all of the rules are exausted, and any other internal conflicts (which again are limited) are all expressed, I don't think there is much to go back to. The AI can't suggest new rules, it can only explain why the rules exist as they are, what are appropriate paramaters of content at work, etc....

 

[Gamisch]

How do you think I'm able to travel anywhere?

If you paid attention it should be the absolute last thing you wanna do.

Passport bro paradises getting worse by the day. Instagram usage runs rampant and I'm sure those women are way more difficult than western women. I know in my original country that's a fact. If you would get a broke Latin woman from where I'm from She will eat you alive and throw you away like a trash bag.

You say you're 48 . Look bro. I do have sympathy for your situation but I'm also fed up that you refuse to take the basic necessary steps.

TEH GYM. To name one.

You talk about incremental steps like you are 24. You twice that age. You gotta go ALL IN ballz to the wall. You don't have time to take baby steps.

You don't even prepare yourself to be lucky one day. So imo that makes you a living example of what happens when a man is to scared to change. Things will remain stagnant and eventually go backwards.

 

[corrector]

You don't have time to take baby steps.

Right, so you want me to quit my job, lose my car, and collect welfare while declaring bankrupcy in order to have time to go the gym which will be cancelled anyway for non-payment? Again, very helpful. No wonder I'm using AI.

 

[Gamisch]

Right, so you want me to quit my job, lose my car, and collect welfare while declaring bankrupcy in order to have time to go the gym which will be cancelled anyway for non-payment? Again, very helpful. No wonder I'm using AI.

What?

You don't have one hour per day to give to the gym?
You think that all those people in the gym don't have jobs?
You can't do 50 pushups when you wake up? A gym membership will be around 30 maybe 20 bucks a month.
You don't have sport shoes so you can run outside?
You don't have 40 bucks to get a set of dumbells?
You don't have an Internet connection so you can follow a fitness influencer?
You don't have some hours in the evening so you can join a martial arts group?
You can't be disciplined and watch what you eat?


You're going backwards bro. There was a glimpse of hope but you fell back into your comfortable woo me mode

 

[corrector]

What?

You don't have one hour per day to give to the gym?

I didn't even have 20 minutes to go the gym today, maybe another day might be more lucky?

You think that all those people in the gym don't have jobs?

It's not just that. There is also caregiving responsibilities, Real-Estate prospecting work, (which you could count as a second type of job), and other time consuming tasks.

You can't do 50 pushups when you wake up? A gym membership will be around 30 maybe 20 bucks a month.

I'm paying $ 100 /mo for my membership. I go with Goodlife gym. They have allot of different locations and 24/7 facilities and I have access to all their gyms.

You are bringing up an indoor workout routine. My home is not very motivating for indoor work-out anywhere because it's extremely cluttered and small. There might be a small space in the basement if I can navigate through all of the storage and clutter, but it's not realistic for a morning where I have to prepare breakfast for my folks, check my mom's blood pressure like several times, and generally help my elderly folks out. It usually takes about an hour after waking up to sort through my folks issues/demands.



You don't have sport shoes so you can run outside? View attachment 13737
You don't have 40 bucks to get a set of dumbells?
You don't have an Internet connection so you can follow a fitness influencer?
You don't have some hours in the evening so you can join a martial arts group?
You can't be disciplined and watch what you eat?

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I'm not going to talk about indoor work-out in this place because it's simply not motivating to want to work-out in here. There is no free rooms available for that. It's also in the dead of winter here where it is very cold and people don't go out with sports shoes in this type of weather.

You're going backwards bro. There was a glimpse of hope but you fell back into your comfortable woo me mode

There is no time in the evening since I work right to 10p and get home before midnight.

I can merely point to the assumptions that you are making. You do not live in an extremely demotivating set-up like I'm in.

The question is whether I should just cancel that gym membership at this point. Chat-GPT is suggesting that I give indoor workout a try, and give it a few weeks, and if I'm not able to visit at least 2-3 times per week, then it should be cancelled. That's where I'm at as the financial issues are too tight. However, if there is no work-out routine at home (ie which I'm also trying to set-up if it's not practical to visit the GYM,...then the membership would have to be maintained, despite it's worsening my finances).