What do you want to read on this forum?

[BPH]

This forum has several active members, but this question is more for the newer, less experienced guys lurking around trying to improve with women and don't know where to start.

So what do you want to read?

Field reports? Guides? Tips? Theories? Stories? Statistics?

What do you struggle with that you've come here to find a solution for?

 

[needimprovement250]

This forum has several active members, but this question is more for the newer, less experienced guys lurking around trying to improve with women and don't know where to start.

So what do you want to read?

Field reports? Guides? Tips? Theories? Stories? Statistics?

What do you struggle with that you've come here to find a solution for?

Just posted my own thread about this, but I struggle with the fact that I have hardly any experience with women at 31 and also still live at home with my parents, have no career, and no social circle at all. With women, I had absolutely nothing in 2024 and haven’t kissed a woman in 4 years and now haven’t been on a date in 10 years (and that’s the only date I’ve ever been on) the other aspects, I made some modest improvements on in 2024 though.

 

[BPH]

Just posted my own thread about this, but I struggle with the fact that I have hardly any experience with women at 31 and also still live at home with my parents, have no career, and no social circle at all. With women, I had absolutely nothing in 2024 and haven’t kissed a woman in 4 years and now haven’t been on a date in 10 years (and that’s the only date I’ve ever been on) the other aspects, I made some modest improvements on in 2024 though.

Thanks for sharing, sorry to hear it's been rough lately.

Beyond personalized advice, what do you value that you'd want to read more about to help with your situation?

 

[needimprovement250]

Thanks for sharing, sorry to hear it's been rough lately.

Beyond personalized advice, what do you value that you'd want to read more about to help with your situation?

Probably how to get out of the situation of being inexperienced at an older age as it really does feel like a catch-22 where women won’t date you because you don’t have any experience and you can’t get any experience in the first place without dating women. Also tips on quitting porn as a lot of men seem to struggle with that these days (myself included) and it is causing problems for a lot of us. And lastly I would say both tips on how to maximize your success on OLD and how to meet women for dating without using OLD.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I want to learn how to persuade chicks to agree to a romp in the Pine Barrens. Any field reports along those lines would be much appreciated.

 

[Chow Mein]

Probably how to get out of the situation of being inexperienced at an older age as it really does feel like a catch-22 where women won’t date you because you don’t have any experience and you can’t get any experience in the first place without dating women. Also tips on quitting porn as a lot of men seem to struggle with that these days (myself included) and it is causing problems for a lot of us. And lastly I would say both tips on how to maximize your success on OLD and how to meet women for dating without using OLD.

Work hard to get the lifestyle that you want, women will naturally follow.

It will take experience to learn women that are gaming you (take yo money). With enough experience (aka not thinking with yo d!ck) you find the keepers. They will be there for you, your main gals, while you find new ventures. Life is a blessing, embrace what you have and who you can become.

 

[needimprovement250]

Work hard to get the lifestyle that you want, women will naturally follow.

It will take experience to learn women that are gaming you (take yo money). With enough experience (aka not thinking with yo d!ck) you find the keepers. They will be there for you, your main gals, while you find new ventures. Life is a blessing, embrace what you have and who you can become.

Yeah that’s what I’m trying to do and I’m working towards it.

The lack of experience can definitely make it a lot harder to weed out women who are just taking advantage of you for money and other resources. The main way I view this though is that my lack of experience is very unappealing and will get me rejected constantly. I seriously feel like if I went out with 50 different women, all 50 would reject me just because I don’t have experience. I just feel like nobody wants to be a first ever romantic partner to someone in their 30’s. That applies to inexperienced women too, I bet a lot of men wouldn’t want to be a 30 year old woman’s first romantic partner. Not to mention that first relationships never last, so the person with experience will see dating the inexperienced person as a waste of time.

 

[The Duke]

What do you want to read on this forum?
I want to read more stories about guys that actually want to learn and improve their situation and less mental masturbation from the incels that will never do anything with the advice they are given.

 

[New_Journey]

I follow on reddit, askMRP, its for married and guys on relationships. You would be surprised how many of those men are incels in their own relationships, they get the same mentality as single guys

I'd like to read men working on their shortcomings and taking action.

Example:

1. I think I don't get women cause I'm skinny. Then, the guy goes to the gym for 3 months and then starts approaching, did it work? Yes, No, Why? Whats next?

2. I'm good physically but I don't get women, maybe I don't know how to talk to them. Then a guy spends time being social until it becomes easier, did it work? Yes, No, Why? What's next?

This is the kind of $hit this forum should be, not a bunch of whining puzzies how women are this or that. If I were the admin, I'll ban members who only write $hit about how women are this or that, how society is this or that. Pretty much any member who only complains. Complainers ruin good things and this forum has given too much freedom for members to whine and complain.

On Reddit AskMRP it is like that, if go there to complain, you get a permanent ban, they want only members who do the fvcking work. Not men like in this forum who all of their posts are complaining how life is unfair.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I follow on reddit, askMRP, its for married and guys on relationships. You would be surprised how many of those men are incels in their own relationships, they get the same mentality as single guys

I'd like to read men working on their shortcomings and taking action.

Example:

1. I think I don't get women cause I'm skinny. Then, the guy goes to the gym for 3 months and then starts approaching, did it work? Yes, No, Why? Whats next?

2. I'm good physically but I don't get women, maybe I don't know how to talk to them. Then a guy spends time being social until it becomes easier, did it work? Yes, No, Why? What's next?

This is the kind of $hit this forum should be, not a bunch of whining puzzies how women are this or that. If I were the admin, I'll ban members who only write $hit about how women are this or that, how society is this or that. Pretty much any member who only complains. Complainers ruin good things and this forum has given too much freedom for members to whine and complain.

On Reddit AskMRP it is like that, if go there to complain, you get a permanent ban, they want only members who do the fvcking work. Not men like in this forum who all of their posts are complaining how life is unfair.

I'd be open to the idea of having something similar to Own Your **** on weekly basis, but I am not sure if I want to take the lead on it.

 

[New_Journey]

I'd be open to the idea of having something similar to Own Your **** on weekly basis, but I am not sure if I want to take the lead on it.

That will be the best that can happen t this forum. It will separate boys who only complain vs men who want to get better at life in general.

 

[New_Journey]

Case in point, https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...of-seeing-the-number-18-relationships.283460/

This thread is from @CornbreadFed

What can a guy learn from posts like this that was posted in the Don Juan section where specifically says:

Don Juan Discussion
Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice

You see what I mean, they given free pass to anyone to post any kind of nonsense that doesn't adhere to the Goal "Meeting, dating, and attracting women"

 

[Bingo-Player]

Just posted my own thread about this, but I struggle with the fact that I have hardly any experience with women at 31 and also still live at home with my parents, have no career, and no social circle at all. With women, I had absolutely nothing in 2024 and haven’t kissed a woman in 4 years and now haven’t been on a date in 10 years (and that’s the only date I’ve ever been on) the other aspects, I made some modest improvements on in 2024 though.

In your situation women are the least of your worries , you have deep rooted socio economic issues to resolve

 

[SW15]

Field reports? Guides? Tips? Theories? Stories? Statistics?

Field reports & stories - Yes

Statistics - Yes. Using statistics to discuss the mating environment in general is good.

Guides and Tips - These can be useful

Theories - Theory is good when discussed with practice and field reports. Theory alone is limited.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Probably how to get out of the situation of being inexperienced at an older age as it really does feel like a catch-22 where women won’t date you because you don’t have any experience and you can’t get any experience in the first place without dating women. Also tips on quitting porn as a lot of men seem to struggle with that these days (myself included) and it is causing problems for a lot of us. And lastly I would say both tips on how to maximize your success on OLD and how to meet women for dating without using OLD.

Women wouldn't know you are inexperienced unless you tell them that.
Stop volunteering information that makes you seem unattractive and stop answering questions in ways that disqualify you.

Understand that for the first month of dating a woman, their goal is to find out something to disqualify you or allow you to disqualify yourself.

Why? Because they have tons of options and the easiest way to go thru them is to set up quick ways for guys to disqualify themselves.

 

[characternote]

What can a guy learn from posts like this

I don't think there's anything anyone can learn on here full stop, tbh.

Everyone knows the answers of how to get laid more and with hotter girls.

'Make as much money as possible. Get in as good shape as possible/improve looks and fashion etc. Hit on way more girls'
(and then if you need advice about THEM things, then there's probably much better suited forums to get info. Maybe bodybuilding sites, business forums, fashion sub reddits etc)

This isn't like the old PUA days where people spend ages talking about the best negs and cold reads, when to qualify a girl, how best to disqualify yourself, DHV stories. NLP routines. blablabla. 'Game' in the traditional sense has more or less been relegated to folklore at this point.

And so there's really not a whole lot to talk about! lol. So we tend to get a mishmash of all kinds of subjects instead.