A couple of things.
First off, she might not be attracted to him at the start, but contrary to what some of this forum thinks, I think the most important thing she’ll take in account is the personal connection/vibe she senses.
This can’t really be explained through words, but you can tell if someone has good, stable energy, almost an aura you get from them whenever they speak. On the other hand, negative and desperate energy is very easy to sniff out in a guy. You shouldn’t go in thinking you need to pull a girl by the end of the night, the goal is to socialize/have a fun time and she will follow. If you go in with the mindset “I need to get laid and find a woman to go home with me” I guarantee you she will find that energy repulsive. Even if you don’t have a lot of options, act as though you have plenty of abundance. Confidence is like a magnet.
A lot of the characteristics some of you might think work on women (negging tactics, acting hot and cold) shouldn’t be generalized to all women. They’ll work perfect on a subset of women who are emotionally unavailable and most likely traumatized for some reason.
My next point is that a guy you think is sub 7 or whatever isn’t a subjective rating. The woman might consider him just her type, a perfect 10. My boyfriend who I’ve been with for over a year as an example. My roomate for some reason told me she couldn’t see how I found him attractive at all, she said “he’s not cute and acts weird as hell.” My other friends have told me he was “classically handsome,” “very good looking,” and super nice. My point is everyone will have differing opinions on how a guy looks or acts.
Physical attraction might appear superficial but types exist, and the dude you think looks busted looks amazing to another woman.
