Attraction beyond SMV and LMS

[jhonny9546]

What often goes unexamined in our minds is the idea that we can encounter a woman who is a perfect 10 in terms of physical appearance, while another woman might be a solid 6. Now, you might say you'll go with the 10, but there is something about the 6—her mannerisms, voice, gaze, movements, and overall presence—that plays a key role in your attraction to her. So, the 6 becomes a 9, and the 10 becomes a 7. Let's call this quality "vitality."

Even with limited experience, I've found that my encounters with women rated as 8s didn't compare to the emotions I felt with a 6. The level of involvement, the way she moved, the emotions she evoked in me, and how she communicated during intimate moments were all factors that drove me wild. I suspect many of you can relate to this.

When I think about attraction from a woman's perspective, it raises questions about what qualities they find appealing in men. For instance, consider a scenario where a shorter, less conventionally attractive guy competes against a tall, muscular man. The shorter guy might possess that same "vitality" quality that captivates these women to us men, in the reversed pov, and makes him more attractive than the tall guy.

So, if a woman's "vitality" manifests in her level of femininity, movements, voice, and overall demeanor, how does this concept translate for women when they consider the vitality we bring? What are the aspects of "vitality" in a man that resonate with women?
Being assertive, confident, having a sense of humor, knowing how to **** women, having sprezzatura, being kind—are these all part of it, or there are things we're missing?


Write down your top five qualities that should represent "vitality" of a man, in women POV.

 

[Gamisch]

Imo you gotta be all-round 100% fully women-proof. Every aspect of your life should be women friendly. I am talking your pick of restaurant to your house desing. Your towels ,toilet and your teeth. To name some examples

Now , here's the kicker: I don't say your walls should be pink with flowers. But I do say that your lifestyle should at least SHOW that you are aware that you are a MAN who dealt with (plenty of ) women.

I can't name 5 because it might be more than 500 individual points. The discrepancy between ( a lot) of men and women is way too big. E.g; some women live a lifestyle where they are "ready' to meet a HVM. They'll basically live the same life as let's say Arianna Grande. They buy the same products and wear the same style of clothes, even estbthe same food..( ofcourse not as expensive and luxurious but They'll push it..) meanwhile a lotta men still thinks she'll come and clean their toilet and shyte ( pun intended ) and waits untill he comes home to drop on the couch and reek like cheap beer and old sweat. She won't. Remember the FINISH LINE?

Gotta design your image and life as if you're confident you'll meet prime Megan Fox tomorrow. And thus carry yourself as such! I can go : "1looks 2 money 3 status 4 gym 5 social proof" but it sooooo much more than just those 5. Your stroke game your coffee game , your GROWTH ect ect ect.

This can only be achieved when you do it for YOU tho...if you "just" do it for women you'll always be giving a REACTION to life instead of being the one who TAKES action and DESIGNS LIFE( aka defensive instead of attacking).

Look. An "hb9,5" can hold out a year if needed, yet she'll shave her p00sy all year round..she'll smell good all year round. Nice clothes all year round. She WILL eat out and party and take trips. She WONT wait untill Mr Perfect shows up, heck, she ACTIVELY goes looking for him and be at places where he will be...

 

[jhonny9546]

and be at places where he will be...

Well this is also very important.
As a man, you want to be in the places that are relevant for you to find the kind of woman you like, and filter all the other ones.

Thanks for your words