Flow state

[jhonny9546]

What are your thoughts on the concept of flow and achieving it with another person? Establishing a "true connection" is essential. Some might say, "I’m good with women because I make them feel good," but perhaps it's more about your ability to help them enter a flow state alongside you?!

I have experienced flow through various activities such as art, music, sex, eating, conversation, sports, and meditation.
Is this the ultimate way to enrich our experience on Earth? Rather than engaging in "casual" sex, I now understand why "intense" or "primordial" sex can be so fulfilling, like the flow, it allows you to be fully immersed in the moment without distractions.

Now it would be incredibly awesome and interesting to discuss which ways you actually enter the flow with women, other than sex and conversation.

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/hn28dv

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Now it would be incredibly awesome and interesting to discuss which ways you actually enter the flow with women, other than sex and conversation.

Through kink.

 

[jhonny9546]

Through kink.

That is sex right?

Now it would be incredibly awesome and interesting to discuss which ways you actually enter the flow with women, other than sex and conversation.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

That is sex right?

Nope. Kink is mostly role-play and bondage and naughtiness. Sex is often included, but not a necessary part of kink.

 

[jhonny9546]

Nope. Kink is mostly role-play and bondage and naughtiness. Sex is often included, but not a necessary part of kink.

Oh so that is not considered sex?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Oh so that is not considered sex?

Nope. Kink is mostly role-play and bondage and naughtiness. Sex is often included, but not a necessary part of kink.

If you're going to repeat questions, I'm going to repeat answers.

 

[jhonny9546]

Nope. Kink is mostly role-play and bondage and naughtiness. Sex is often included, but not a necessary part of kink.

If you're going to repeat questions, I'm going to repeat answers.

It's more like playing, with the possibility of sex?
This is just what I do and call "foreplay"

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It's more like playing, with the possibility of sex?
This is just what I do and call "foreplay"

Except when you do it, you count on intercourse happening and you're disappointed if the 'foreplay' is all you get to do.

My 'foreplay' is probably a bit more exciting than yours.

 

[jhonny9546]

My 'foreplay' is probably a bit more exciting than yours.

Your foreplay do not contain kink?
What do they look like?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I challenge them into trusting me and submitting to me.

 

[jhonny9546]

I challenge them into trusting me and submitting to me.

But not in the Christian Grey version of it?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

But not in the Christian Grey version of it?

Don't be a woman, Jhonny. Only bored housewives believe in that shyte.

 

[jhonny9546]

Don't be a woman, Jhonny. Only bored housewives believe in that shyte.

What do you do differently from that?

 

[Gamisch]

What are your thoughts on the concept of flow and achieving it with another person? Establishing a "true connection" is essential. Some might say, "I’m good with women because I make them feel good," but perhaps it's more about your ability to help them enter a flow state alongside you?!

I have experienced flow through various activities such as art, music, sex, eating, conversation, sports, and meditation.
Is this the ultimate way to enrich our experience on Earth? Rather than engaging in "casual" sex, I now understand why "intense" or "primordial" sex can be so fulfilling, like the flow, it allows you to be fully immersed in the moment without distractions.

Now it would be incredibly awesome and interesting to discuss which ways you actually enter the flow with women, other than sex and conversation.

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/hn28dv

That's why a small percentage of men gets a big percentage of women while the rest gets next to nada.

Because some men know ( either through experience ,instinctively or both) know how to spark emotions inside a woman. They will also know or learn that this spark is nearly impossible to sustain and thus move on without too much drama. Ironically enough these are also the type of men that women WONT leave ( that quickly) .

Gotta be more egotistical, and whoever follows you follows you. Don't be afraid to throw the fish back into the water.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

What do you do differently from that?

Pretty much everything.

Fifty Shades is a romance novel mix between 'Billionaire Boyfriend' and 'Beauty & Beast' fantasy.

 

[jhonny9546]

Pretty much everything

Well, It would be interesting to hear more

Because some men know ( either through experience ,instinctively or both) know how to spark emotions inside a woman

Definetly a quality I need to work on

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Well, It would be interesting to hear more

In order not to deviate from the topic, go check out the Kink Friendly thread