Thanksgiving Eve

[BPH]

I vaguely remember somebody commenting on a post about Halloween, I think it might've been @Bingo-Player when it came to "easiest times of the year to get laid" or something to that effect.

I'm debating what to do tomorrow:

A. Go to "THE spot" where everybody seems to be planning on visiting tomorrow night. My friends who have gone here before telling me it'll be really packed, long line (so I have to get there early), and everybody coming home for the holiday goes here. The problem is that this place is about a half hour away, would require Ubers up and back, I'd have to basically start my night at 8PM, and I normally hate this spot because it's constantly packed with guys where finding a cute girl ends up being a scavenger hunt. BUT...I've never been out there on Thanksgiving Eve so I can't say for sure that I'd hate it.

B. Go up the street to a place that has historically always been a good time for the holiday, just less so than what's being described in option A. I don't need to Uber, I can roll up later in the night, it'll be crowded but not so packed that there'll be a line, and whether there's anybody attractive there is a total 50/50 coin toss. It'd be much more convenient, but I know this, and I'm not sure if it's worth trying something new.

Anyway, want to see what you guys have planned or what's been your experience for this "holiday". Truthfully I didn't even know this was a thing until a few years ago.

 

[Solomon]

Living in a college town . Thanksgiving EVE is one of the busiest nights of the year. You have a lotta kids who if they are local linking up with high school friends they haven't seen in ears to go out or local friends and it gets packed. It gets so packed that it becomes tough to charge.

IMO Option B would be the best logistically. Option A sounds like a hassle, just because a place is super packed doesn't mean it's going to be easier hunting grounds. IMO if you're looking to pull the same night you need logicitics, and access then of course you need to bring them home.

If I was your shoes I would Do both options hit option A early if it's not to my linking then go to Option B but then again that would be during my younger years

 

[CornbreadFed]

Didn't you make this topic last year lol?

 

[BPH]

Didn't you make this topic last year lol?

Probably. It's always something I'm on the fence about.

 

[Velasco]

Living in a college town . Thanksgiving EVE is one of the busiest nights of the year.

Don't think this is true. I'm in a college town and I know most kids at the university here have gone home for the week to visit their parents

 

[HaleyBaron]

Don't know about college town, but I know a lot of spots are going to be packed starting this evening and tomorrow. Thanksgiving weekend is pretty wild since everyone is off, so you can actually get some girls if you put the work into it. Just treat it casually and let women fall into your lap by themselves. Don't try too hard and be ready to go home with nothing.

 

[Solomon]

Don't think this is true. I'm in a college town and I know most kids at the university here have gone home for the week to visit their parents

Maybe not true for your city but in mine it certainly is, we have a lotta of local kids here and they tend to meet up with high school friends or other friends THanksgiving Eve because most people are in town. It's a top 5 busiest night in my city New years, and Halloween are the only busier.

 

[darksprezzatura]

I like to do things I like. Would I do something, if I had 10 women clawing to be with me right now? If my answer is no, I won’t do it to get laid.
If the activity itself is amusing or fun or makes you feel happy, even if you didn’t get laid, then go for it.

Just my two cents on logistics and planning and approaches.

I have never gone clubbing, I don’t do house parties. I work out, I rock climb, I play music, I go to startup meet ups, I like to go out to buy books. I usually meet women somewhere or the other. At that time, I can continue to be excellent because I’m good at these things, I’m desireless because I know sex is an eventuality, and I’m gone because I have work and a life.

It gets me everything, and I get to do what I like.

 

[BPH]

I went with option A. Now I know never to do it again.

Even getting there as early as 8PM there was a line halfway down the street. After waiting a whole hour my buddy's friend who works as a bouncer let us skip in through a side door, otherwise, it would've been at least another half hour.

Inside was shoulder-to-shoulder with a ratio of something like 8 guys per girl, and while plenty of girls were decent, I couldn't find any that were hot enough for me to want to approach them. My buddy agreed, and while we had a good enough time, it certainly wasn't worth the hassle.

Oh well.

 

[SW15]

In January 2021, I started a thread about the easiest day of the year to get laid.

Is the Night of January 1 The Easiest Day of the Year to Get Laid

In 2011, Roosh wrote an article about that the night of January 1 was the easiest night of the year to get laid at the bars. http://web.archive.org/web/20150413053715/http://www.rooshv.com/the-easiest-day-of-the-year-to-get-laid Has anyone here ever tried that? Anyone planning to go out...

www.sosuave.net

In 2011, former PUA Roosh put forth the idea that the night of January 1 (the first night of any new year) was the easiest night of the year to get laid at a nightlife venue. In Roosh's article, he didn't mention hearing from many men about the night before Thanksgiving as a good night for getting pussie.

In that thread I started in 2021, the idea of Thanksgiving Eve got proposed as one of the easiest nights of the year to get laid by doing approaches at bars.

I've never been out at bars doing approaches on the night before Thanksgiving. There will eventually come a year where I will do that.

It's too bad @BPH had a disappointing night trying to get laid the night before Thanksgiving this year.

 

[BPH]

In January 2021, I started a thread about the easiest day of the year to get laid.

Is the Night of January 1 The Easiest Day of the Year to Get Laid

In 2011, Roosh wrote an article about that the night of January 1 was the easiest night of the year to get laid at the bars. http://web.archive.org/web/20150413053715/http://www.rooshv.com/the-easiest-day-of-the-year-to-get-laid Has anyone here ever tried that? Anyone planning to go out...

www.sosuave.net

In 2011, former PUA Roosh put forth the idea that the night of January 1 (the first night of any new year) was the easiest night of the year to get laid at a nightlife venue. In Roosh's article, he didn't mention hearing from many men about the night before Thanksgiving as a good night for getting pussie.

In that thread I started in 2021, the idea of Thanksgiving Eve got proposed as one of the easiest nights of the year to get laid by doing approaches at bars.

I've never been out at bars doing approaches on the night before Thanksgiving. There will eventually come a year where I will do that.

It's too bad @BPH had a disappointing night trying to get laid the night before Thanksgiving this year.

To be fair, I thought it would suck - but now I KNOW it sucks.

Everybody I talked to was ranting and raving about how much fun it was going to be at this bar strip so I thought I owed it to myself to see if I was missing out.

I wasn't.

If I wanted to get sh**faced with the boys I would've enjoyed it. But what I didn't enjoy was having to be at the bar before 7PM, waiting in line for more than an hour, spending 30 minutes trying to fight my way through the crowd to order a drink, and seeing the same average girls I always see out here - just mixed into a sea of hundreds of dudes that I'm elbow-to-elbow with instead.

I am kinda surprised that New Year's is supposedly the "easiest" night to get laid. Every venue hosting an event is overpriced as hell, you have to be there early because "before midnight", and most times I've seen girls come out for this they're hanging out in some table/VIP section with their friends vibing out to whatever DJ or concert is playing.

Plus it's cold as hell.

 

[SW15]

I am kinda surprised that New Year's is supposedly the "easiest" night to get laid. Every venue hosting an event is overpriced as hell, you have to be there early because "before midnight", and most times I've seen girls come out for this they're hanging out in some table/VIP section with their friends vibing out to whatever DJ or concert is playing.

You are confusing the night of December 31 with the night of January 1.

Roosh was making the point that going out on the night of January 1 is good. That means going out at 8 PM or later on January 1. That's very different than going out between 8 PM and 11 PM on the night of December 31.

Everything you just said is true about going out on the night of December 31. The night of December 31 is very overrated for finding new sex. The night of December 31 is more of a couples night anyway.

Plus it's cold as hell.

In the United States, most places are going to be like this during the winter. That makes some of the winter months more difficult for seducing.

In the Northeast, a lot of venues have coat checks for going out and that helps a little bit.

Even in much of the Sun Belt, evenings/nights are cold (30s-40s).

South Florida and Hawaii are the biggest exceptions to this, as their nights typically stay above 50 degrees. Los Angeles and San Diego can fall below 50, but are often warmer than the big Texas cities or Phoenix/Tucson in Arizona at night.

Roosh noted that he thought getting sex was easier when the night time temperature was above 65 degrees.

 

[BPH]

You are confusing the night of December 31 with the night of January 1.

Roosh was making the point that going out on the night of January 1 is good. That means going out at 8 PM or later on January 1. That's very different than going out between 8 PM and 11 PM on the night of December 31.

Everything you just said is true about going out on the night of December 31. The night of December 31 is very overrated for finding new sex. The night of December 31 is more of a couples night anyway.

Oh, he's talking about literally New Year's DAY - not EVE.

Well, that falls on a Wednesday this upcoming year, so I don't see that living up to his hype.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Roosh noted that he thought getting sex was easier when the night time temperature was above 65 degrees.

I agree with this. Been my experience. No one wants to seduce each other in freezing temperatures.

 

[Clockwerk50]

I always thought Thanksgiving was a time to spend with family and watch football. It would have been ludicrous to leave my family that Thursday night to go party with my friends. The same goes for Christmas.

I can understand being successful during the winter months, like Halloween, New Year's, or Valentine's Day, even though the first two are logistical nightmares.

 

[SW15]

Oh, he's talking about literally New Year's DAY - not EVE.

Yes, you got it.

that falls on a Wednesday this upcoming year, so I don't see that living up to his hype.

There are years where the night of January 1 falls on a random weekday like a Tuesday or Wednesday. In bigger cities like New York, Dallas, Miami, etc., there's always a good venue on any night of the week. That's probably less true in smaller to mid-size cities and Wilmington fits that description.

There were 2 years in the 2010s where I tried going out on the night of January 1 and didn't find the experience living up to the hype Roosh set for that night. At least one of the those years was a year where January 1 fell on a random weeknight.

I agree with this. Been my experience. No one wants to seduce each other in freezing temperatures.

While it's not impossible to seduce new women in the winter months in nightlife venues, it does becomes more challenging to a point. That's part of why cuffing season is a thing. Cuffing season is a bit milder in Dallas but night time temperatures November - February in Dallas are well below 65. If you're out between 9 PM - 2 AM in November - February in Dallas, it's usually somewhere in the 30s-40s Fahrenheit outside. That's mild compared to the Northern states of the USA but not exactly pleasant.

January features a lot of motivated singles coming off of a crappy holiday season alone. That is more of a factor in online game and non-bar venue game than night game, but still helpful in night game.

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I want to try going out to bars some year on Thanksgiving Eve to see what it is like. I've either never been motivated to do so or I've been stuck with family on most Thanksgiving Eves over the years.