What could I have done differently, if anything?

[davidsonj73]

Tonight I went to the bar and these 2 hot women both around age 30 started talking to me. I asked the one if she was single, and she said: No, actually I'm married. Then her friend, who told me that her name is Betsy [last name not posted here], and asked me my name. We talked about what sports teams we like, and I found out that we both like to paint with acrylics. We talked about some things we painted. Betsy played with my hat, we held hands, she hugged me, and she put her head on my shoulder. She seemed to really like touching me. I noticed an engagement ring on her hand, and I said: are you engaged? She said she is married. She offered to buy me a drink. I said: I'm OK. Could I have done anything differently? She's a 9/10, and her perfume smelled really good. She mentioned that she drinks to open up to people, and she asked me if I do the same. Her husband was at the bar too, he didn't seem to care. He seemed cool.

 

[The Duke]

She wanted to take you home and fuhk while her husband watched.

Regardless, don't ask stupid questions like that. It doesn't make panties wet.

 

[corrector]

Just ask for Tonic Water.

 

[davidsonj73]

She wanted to take you home and fuhk while her husband watched.

Regardless, don't ask stupid questions like that. It doesn't make panties wet.

@The Duke You think so? If I see her at the bar again, what should I say to her? I'd definitely be interested so long as there's no chance she could say that she was taken advantage of while drunk? Should I ask her if she's in an open relationship?

 

[BaronOfHair]

I noticed an engagement ring on her hand, and I said: are you engaged? She said she is married. She offered to buy me a drink. I said: I'm OK. Could I have done anything differently?

Yeah... Drop her(and any other married woman)right then and there

 

[BaronOfHair]

She wanted to take you home and fuhk while her husband watched

OP ran into Bubba The Love Sponge's current squeeze, yet Peter Thiel isn't likely to fund any lawsuit he might file, once Sponge leaks the sex tape

 

[davidsonj73]

Yeah... Drop her(and any other married woman)right then and there

@BaronOfHair Why drop any married woman? I understand that if her husband is not OK with it there could be a fight, so in that case, I'd agree. But why not, if he's OK with it?

 

[BaronOfHair]

@BaronOfHair Why drop any married woman? I understand that if her husband is not OK with it there could be a fight, so in that case, I'd agree. But why not, if he's OK with it?

Spouses who experiment with open marriages are similar to young men who embark on careers as contract killers, be it for organized crime or the government... Both, for the most part anyway, are incapable of remaining nonchalant about such things long term

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Stop wasting your time with married women and find single women. They are just soaking up your attention for free while you get blue balls.

 

[davidsonj73]

Spouses who experiment with open marriages are similar to young men who embark on careers as contract killers, be it for organized crime or the government... Both, for the most part anyway, are incapable of remaining nonchalant about such things long term

@BaronOfHair Wow! Then I don't want to mess with that! Does the same go for swinger couples on cruises?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

You just gave a couple of married women free attention and validation. No brownie points for you.

 

[Bingo-Player]

a 30 year old married woman hanging out in a dive bar is not going to a 9/10 in any context

Likely you stumbled into the married girlies night out provided a free blast of male attention in exchange for some feminine flirting and that was that

Women enjoy flirting more than men do especially married women because they want to know men still desire them

They can and will cheat on their husbands for it , but obviously that's not what happed in this case

 

[BackInTheGame78]

a 30 year old married woman hanging out in a dive bar is not going to a 9/10 in any context

Likely you stumbled into the married girlies night out provided a free blast of male attention in exchange for some feminine flirting and that was that

Women enjoy flirting more than men do especially married women because they want to know men still desire them

They can and will cheat on their husbands for it , but obviously that's not what happed in this case

Assuredly not with some 60+ year old guy.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Don’t ask for relationship status. Every interaction, assume attraction.