YouTuber does 100 ask outs to overcome fear of rejection

[GoodMan32]

https://medium.com/hello-love/youtuber-asks-out-100-girls-to-overcome-fear-of-rejection-9081dc2f6443

Here's an interesting article that ties in with the topic of this forum.

Yeah, you have to pay to read the full article (they only allow you to read an excerpt for free). I refuse to pay. But you can get pretty much all the information you need if you read the comment section (some of the comments reveal crucial information, such as how many successes he had)

Another thing that was pointed out in the comment section (which is definitely worth discussing) is the fact feminism has played a major role in creating the incel crisis (double ironic is the fact the very website which hosted this article hosts a lot of feminist articles)

Anyway, here's how feminism has created the incel crisis (according to some of the comments on the article): Many a feminist will say stuff like "You're a total creep if you do cold approaches" and "If a woman is genuinely into you, she'll throw herself at you. There's no need to approach her. Any subtle clues you think you're picking up on are meaningless, as an interested woman will make herself extremely obvious"

What do you think will end up happening when men read/hear that stuff from feminists? Obviously many a man will end up believing it (Therefore he'll abstain from approaching broads. And when broads never/extremely rarely approach him, which will be the case for most men, he'll end up thinking no woman is into him. Voila, he's become an incel...all because he listened to feminists)

Here's the YouTube vid:

 

[BackInTheGame78]

People who call women broads aren't getting women to begin with due to the way they think about women and relationships in general.

Get a clue.

Incels are incels because they don't want to work on themselves and want things to just fall into their lap without any effort and without bettering themselves in any way.

They take entitlement to a new level.

People choose what they want to be in life. Own your decision and stop blaming everyone and everything else.

 

[GoodMan32]

People who call women broads aren't getting women to begin with due to the way they think about women and relationships in general.

Get a clue.

Incels are incels because they don't want to work on themselves and want things to just fall into their lap without any effort and without bettering themselves in any way.

They take entitlement to a new level.

People choose what they want to be in life. Own your decision and stop blaming everyone and everything else.

Even though I learned the term broad in high school (circa 2007), I never commonly used the word until 2023 or so. My bad luck with the ladies goes back well before 2023.

I hate the way the word "women" sounds (which is nothing against the female gender; all I'm saying is I don't like the phonetic qualities of the word "women"). I like the way the word "broads" sounds. Simple as that. That's why I started saying "broads"

As for incels expecting everything to fall into their lap, don't you think feminists (who tell men "Never approach a woman. A woman who's genuinely into you will throw herself at you") are at least part of the reason some incels developed the "let it fall into my lap" mentality? (We aren't only talking about me, who isn't even technically an incel. We're talking about incels/borderline incels in general)

Think about it: Feminists galore write articles where they flat out tell men "let it fall into your lap" (yet then they have the nerve to call a man entitled if he expects it to fall into his lap)

Incels weren't as much of a thing 25 years ago.

You know what else wasn't as much of a thing 25 years ago (not a thing at all 25 years ago for that matter, to the best of my knowledge)? Feminists telling men it's harassment if we approach a woman.

Many blame technology for the incel crisis. And I certainly think technology has played a role. After reading the comment section of that article, however, I've come to see that feminism has played a role too.

Even if you don't blame feminism for the incel crisis, surely you (at the very least) must think it's stupid when feminists tell men to never approach a woman, right?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Even though I learned the term broad in high school (circa 2007), I never commonly used the word until 2023 or so. My bad luck with the ladies goes back well before 2023.

I hate the way the word "women" sounds (which is nothing against the female gender; all I'm saying is I don't like the phonetic qualities of the word "women"). I like the way the word "broads" sounds. Simple as that. That's why I started saying "broads"

As for incels expecting everything to fall into their lap, don't you think feminists (who tell men "Never approach a woman. A woman who's genuinely into you will throw herself at you") are at least part of the reason some incels developed the "let it fall into my lap" mentality? (We aren't only talking about me, who isn't even technically an incel. We're talking about incels/borderline incels in general)

Think about it: Feminists galore write articles where they flat out tell men "let it fall into your lap" (yet then they have the nerve to call a man entitled if he expects it to fall into his lap)

Incels weren't as much of a thing 25 years ago.

You know what else wasn't as much of a thing 25 years ago (not a thing at all 25 years ago for that matter, to the best of my knowledge)? Feminists telling men it's harassment if we approach a woman.

Many blame technology for the incel crisis. And I certainly think technology has played a role. After reading the comment section of that article, however, I've come to see that feminism has played a role too.

Even if you don't blame feminism for the incel crisis, surely you (at the very least) must think it's stupid when feminists tell men to never approach a woman, right?

Whatever you say dude. The first mistake is ever listening to what women say instead of what they do.

Maybe you should go post this on an incel forum.

This forum's purpose is to help men become better with women.

Not listen to people crying and whining about their lot in life that they have chosen and trying to blame everyone and everything else while taking no responsibility for themselves.

Clearly you are not here to learn or get better, only complain, whine and cry.

Please go do it elsewhere.

 

[SW15]

The first mistake is ever listening to what women say instead of what they do.

That is a mistake in general. Very little can be usefully applied based on what women say.

how many successes he had

I didn't watch the whole video but I saw he had 16's yes. 16 out of 100 is not bad at all. He's a reasonably good looking guy too.

The video lacks context too. What were his approaches like? If he just asked women out on dates with no extended conversation, then his rejection rate would be high. While he's reasonably good looking, he's not Chad tier and his personality is likely subpar.

We have no idea how many of those 16 yes responses actually made it out on a date with him either.

The guy got IHAB'ed (I Have a Boyfriend) way too much. I actually thought the IHAB was dead until I saw this video below of a guy doing daygame in Dallas in 2021. The guy in this 2024 video got IHAB'ed too. If a man has any social calibration, he can avoid getting IHAB'ed. It has been a long time since I got IHAB'ed. In conversations in approaches, women have mentioned a boyfriend but that's not a true IHAB because I had not asked her out.

 

[zekko]

What do you think will end up happening when men read/hear that stuff from feminists? Obviously many a man will end up believing it (Therefore he'll abstain from approaching broads. And when broads never/extremely rarely approach him, which will be the case for most men, he'll end up thinking no woman is into him. Voila, he's become an incel...all because he listened to feminists)

And that doesn't even include the feminists who have threatened to boycott sex because they weren't happy with the election results. Honestly, aside from being aware of what could get you fired or thrown in prison, feminists are better left ignored. I'd also say that behaviors that women might think are obvious (as far as throwing themselves at a guy), might still be too subtle for a male.

And as I also like to say, if you do a cold approach correctly, no one is even aware a cold approach has taken place (except for the more direct methods, of course).