Seems like most women I meet now are fvcking crazy

[FlexpertHamilton]

Let me be clear: I'm not saying they're crazy as some sort of post-hoc gotcha moment, they tell me they're crazy from day 1 with all the shvt they say about themselves, all meds they take, and various diagnosed (or self diagnosed) mental/personality disorders.

I'm trying to take responsibility for it and there's basically three reasons:

a) I am not screening hard enough for mental illness/instability/ignoring red flags
b) I am dumpster diving for good pvssy at the expense of my sanity
c) Something about me is attracting crazy women specifically

Does anyone else experience this, and how do you deal with it? It's starting to become so frustrating and disappointing. For starters I think I am going to stop meeting women on OLD, because in my current location it's worse than ever. Going to focus on meeting women through pre-selection/social groups and good ol' cold approaches, but I am increasingly skeptical that women in the "real world" are any better.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Short-ish answer:

Yes... Statistically, women seek out psychotherapy more than men, most shrinks are poorly trained in empirically validated approaches, and subsequently give these broads a wide variety of diagnoses and counsel that just exacerbates their agony. Similar to the manner in which entirely too many men have gorged themselves on Red Pill Theology off of social media, blindly bought into all the sh-t they heard, subsequently become basket cases in their own right

That's where we're at culturally right now. Spending more than 5 minutes per day fretting over such things is less gainful than trying to have a rational conversation with anyone about the veracity of Repressed Memory Theory, during the height of Satanic Panic: Neither True Believers in the former, nor their foes(Drug War-supporting, Top Gun-loving Reganites, who were convinced that schoolteachers and parents are incapable of perpetrating evil), could be convinced that their worldview isn't The Truth

Then as now, emotions are going to have to cool , before we can once again have something approaching an intellectual discussion about these topics

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Weird, for me it's the opposite. Apart from my PTSD clients, most women I speak with are pretty level-headed. I think that if you meet many crazy people, you're moving in the wrong circles.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Weird, for me it's the opposite. Apart from my PTSD clients, most women I speak with are pretty level-headed. I think that if you meet many crazy people, you're moving in the wrong circles.

I'm mostly meeting women off OLD lately due to laziness, hence the dumpster diving comment. I've used OLD for a long time, but never encounted so many dumpster fire women like this until I moved to my current city. I will maintain the prevalence of Universities in this location is behind this, as stats show young, left leaning women have incredibly high rates of mental illness. I think i'm done with OLD for the time being.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Weird, for me it's the opposite. Apart from my PTSD clients, most women I speak with are pretty level-headed

Here in The US, we've had a real problem with what can only to be termed "Pseudo-Therapy" culture, from The 1970s-today. End result of which has been we're all a hell of a lot more neurotic

 

[Plinco]

Here in The US, we've had a real problem with what can only to be termed "Pseudo-Therapy" culture, from The 1970s-today. End result of which has been we're all a hell of a lot more neurotic

I thought you lived in Australia. Maybe you're not Pan87

 

[BaronOfHair]

I thought you lived in Australia

I was compelled to flee, after impersonating Mick Taylor in Wolf Creek one too many times*. Hint to all those who are thinking of doing likewise: Head On A Stick rarely pans out that smoothly in RL



*For all those who may have gotten triggered by what you just read: This is called being facetious, albeit darkly so... I've never severed parts of another human being's spine with a knife, and don't encourage anybody else to do so either

 

[Redwood]

Kinda second this. Meeting someone who doesn't have some hidden layer of chaos is like finding a needle in a haystack.

 

[Gamisch]

I have this issue as well, but I must also admit my tolerance got extremely low. A woman gets disqualified quite quickly tbh. One odd thing and poof ,she's disqualified. Can be an ex, something she likes like partying, a friend, a picture with a certain dress ect ect.

At some point you believe you've seen it all and heard it all . After getting REALLY close with women (and obviously tasting my fair share of drama) I started looking for redflags like a hawk. Meanwhile, there aint no such thjng as a "perfect human being ".

So OP, I wonder what makes you say these women are crazy? Do they actually have crazy traits that make you believe they are actually as crazy as you think?

 

[corrector]

What do you expect to happen when these women rack up insanely high body counts, that they are going to be more sane?