Anger

[Gamisch]

Thank you for expressing your thoughts so clearly.

Essentially, you’re saying that finding a pattern is easy, following it is equally straightforward, and adapting our behaviors based on these chosen patterns is possible. However, there comes a time when our actions are influenced more by external observations than by our conscious choices.

Therefore, it is important to articulate our “ideals” or the kind of person we aspire to be in life. When something threatens or challenges these ideals, we must assertively push it away.

In this context, are you suggesting that this might indicate a closed mind? For instance, if I want to support Real Madrid and someone tells me that Barcelona is better, I might respond aggressively by saying, “Go to hell with you and Barcelona.”

Could you clarify this point further? It doesn’t take long for me to list the qualities I desire for myself, but how can I avoid becoming closed-minded? Moreover, speaking candidly, it seems that this closed mindset can lead some people to appear "confident" or "go-getter," when in reality they are simply following their own path without considering other perspectives.

Some people manage to separate "bs from necessaries " so to speak and thus move through life way more flexible and especially satisfied with where theyre going. What's important to YOU? My homie in my example feels like it's important how his family views him( makes sense), so he will sacrifice his own peace, finances and even morals to satisfy them. If that makes him wake up happy, all Love to him.

Many men regarding women or one woman in particular will eventually come to a point where she will openly state her dissatisfaction with him. His looks, style , life in general. Next thing the man will try to change that, untill he realises that BEFORE she started spitting complaints it was already over. You waited 900 days to walk away from something that was dead all along.

Now you have a MAJOR identity crisis. Who are you, what do you stand for? I know I went through this and it was a dark ,dark abyss of mental torture. My entire identity was tied to her ,but I cannot control her mind!!! All I can control is my OWN mind.

The moment I started to accept this was like being newly born again. Had to discover what I stand for, my morals ect.

Thats why the MGTOW took off as it did. Eventually a man MUST go his own way, a path that otherwise will be left undiscovered forever like you see with your father. Gotta have specific goals in life to follow that path even if it's dark and seemingly hazardous at times.

I can write a book about this no joke. Women specifically are a BYPRODUCT and nothing more. Gotta set up a life where you don't depend on women, or even friends and family because again: you can't control other people's feelings and minds.

 

[Divorced w 3]

 

[Gamisch]

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Not a bad list that might'ved saved me lots of problems!!

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I rarely ever get angry in general. Even when people cut me off on my motorcycle, I literally don't never get angry. Some clueless zoomer literally merged into my lane on the highway a few months ago, without looking, and had I not anticipated it and swerved to the shoulder I could have died, but even from that I had minimal reaction, my heartrate maybe increased by 10-20bpm for 3 minutes and I didn't care. I didn't even flip him off or feel the need to 'vent' about it after.

The only thing in life that can ever make me angry is dealing with government workers like the DMV, and generally other abysmal customer service, or automated phone menus...any of that shvt can literally gives me an aneurysm.

I otherwise only get angry at people who physically attack me or continually provoke me and step over the line, but that's only happened a few times in my whole life, being the former in all cases.

I've never yelled or gotten angry with women. I did once employ a psuedo "tactical" anger with a toxic, manipulative woman I dated a couple years ago, but it was more of an attempt to control frame, and don't think it did much because it immediately turned into tone policing/victimhood.

Understand that to women, the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. If they do something you do not like, no matter how insidious, it will hurt them far more if you have a minimal reaction and simply walk away from them rather than if you fight, argue, and take the bait. Women literally lose their minds when a man doesn't care. If you get emotional, angry, start yelling at her, it does not make you "alpha" or have a strong frame, it just means you're playing into her frame.

All that said, I do think there is a place for anger, or even physicality with women, but it's highly circumstantial and pretty much a last resort and really the only situation that might call for it is if she is habitually crossing the line, provoking you, insulting you, etc and you cannot physically get away from her.

Let me just drop this here.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

"Wait till people see this interview. You're gonna get some mail."
Connory smirking: "I might even get some female."

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

"Wait till people see this interview. You're gonna get some mail."
Connory smirking: "I might even get some female."

I bet her old cooch was wet at the end of that interview