“Every guy has cheated on me”

[EyeBRollin]

Just finished up the latest season of love is blind. These shows are a fascinating look into the state of modern “relationships.” For starters, all of the women on the show are over 27. Most are in their 30s. Some are pushing 40.

One of the female cast members (36 y/o) laments that every guy she’s ever dated has cheated on her. Naturally, her match on the show gets caught sexting another broad.

Several other female cast members had similar stories not overtly with cheating but with being routinely “heartbroken.”

Ladies, if every man you date does the same thing, the problem is not the men….

Western women have a serious expectation problem. They have no idea who men are.

 

[Doctor Doom]

Many women are programmed to love drama. Even if a dude didn’t cheat, she’d probably get bored because he’s “faithful aka boring” and go cheat on him.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Many women are programmed to love drama. Even if a dude didn’t cheat, she’d probably get bored because he’s “faithful aka boring” and go cheat on him.

You must be the life of the party, spreading good cheer wherever you go.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Just finished up the latest season of love is blind. These shows are a fascinating look into the state of modern “relationships.”

Yeah, "reality" TV offers us a remarkably accurate view of everything from dating to the realities of teen motherhood, same way John Woo movies provided us with a frank look at the inner workings of The Hong Kong PD and The Triads. Productions such as these don't go out of their way to accentuate and exaggerate, all for the sake of drama

 

[Vanderdonck]

Most people are stuck in their own prisons that they've built. They see their identity as fixed and thus repeat these "truths" rather than trying to break a pattern. So it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy and they attract the same types over and over.

 

[SW15]

Several other female cast members had similar stories not overtly with cheating but with being routinely “heartbroken.”

Western women have a serious expectation problem. They have no idea who men are.

Most women who are routinely heartbroken are women chasing top tier men while not being top tier women. The woman below is the perfect example of that. She's around a 6 and has spent the past decade chasing 8.5+ men, failing to get commitment while rejecting all the 6's that would have committed to her.

 

[Solomon]

Just finished up the latest season of love is blind. These shows are a fascinating look into the state of modern “relationships.” For starters, all of the women on the show are over 27. Most are in their 30s. Some are pushing 40.

One of the female cast members (36 y/o) laments that every guy she’s ever dated has cheated on her. Naturally, her match on the show gets caught sexting another broad.

Several other female cast members had similar stories not overtly with cheating but with being routinely “heartbroken.”

Ladies, if every man you date does the same thing, the problem is not the men….

Western women have a serious expectation problem. They have no idea who men are.

You're talking about Monica, the chick is pretty and for her age smokes a lot of women not just in her age group but also younger
She also has a very nice place (condo, great logistics) but.....

Her personality is insufferable, the whole "Flowers" obsession was just bizarre, and she reeks of boss babe bougie energy. Which makes sense as she's successful. I'm honestly shocked that Stephen lasted as long as he did, according to this site he never stood a chance (he doesn't have LMS) but it goes to show that LMS isn't everything. I think that Monica now 37 is desperate and looking for any guy sort of like Ashely who got with Tyler (a broke guy, with 3 kids and never married) Monica I think if she sets her standards to be more realistic. She can find a good guy but her attitude won't let her

Hannah has to be one of the worst women I've seen in the show's history even worse than Stacy (season 5) and Zanab (season 3) she is a full-blown narc, and she is not hot. But She is considered the beauty standard (Blonde, blue eyes) so she will never run out of suitors

Marissa is confused

Ashley I thought was the best choice overall but her doubling down on Tyler and his 3 kids at the reunion was WOW. Not shocking though as DC is a very competitive place to find quality men. If you're a top-tier guy in DC it's like taking candy from a baby. I had a buddy who lived out in DC and he wasn't even a top earner but was dating girls above his SMV (having a decent job, and game gets you far there) The ratio in DC favors men. Yes in DC women will date a guy below their SMV but he has to knock it out the frame if you catch my drfit.

Brittany is pretty cute but IMO to old to be a trophy wife, unless it's for an older man (which I highly doubt she wants but at her age 33, and living in DC.) She is rapidly aging out as there are 22-25-year-old versions of her younger, just as pretty or even prettier and blond (yes even in DC) can she pull a Jessica from season 1 and find some rich guy? I'm sure but time will tell

Alex-is your average low-effort lazy girl you'll meet on a dating app who will only put in effort for her "Dream Guy" nope I'll pass, she is not that hot to be that delusional

Take this show with a grain of salt, women with these red flags are easy to spot in IRL, hence they have to go on reality dating shows. The men weren't that impressive either, and honestly, if that's "our competition" there is no reason to trip then. Cause the men on the show were cringefully pathetic lmfao

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yo. Great run down. Nailed it. Overall I think the chicks were mostly good looking but all crazy

You're talking about Monica, the chick is pretty and for her age smokes a lot of women not just in her age group but also younger
She also has a very nice place (condo, great logistics) but.....

Her personality is insufferable, the whole "Flowers" obsession was just bizarre, and she reeks of boss babe bougie energy. Which makes sense as she's successful. I'm honestly shocked that Stephen lasted as long as he did, according to this site he never stood a chance (he doesn't have LMS) but it goes to show that LMS isn't everything. I think that Monica now 37 is desperate and looking for any guy sort of like Ashely who got with Tyler (a broke guy, with 3 kids and never married) Monica I think if she sets her standards to be more realistic. She can find a good guy but her attitude won't let her

Monica is hot. Body is better than face. Great gal on paper. As you said, insufferable personality.

Hannah has to be one of the worst women I've seen in the show's history even worse than Stacy (season 5) and Zanab (season 3) she is a full-blown narc, and she is not hot. But She is considered the beauty standard (Blonde, blue eyes) so she will never run out of suitors

Hannah is just an ugly bxtch.

I liked Zanab season 3. Very good looking yet insecure about her ethnic background.

Marissa is confused

Cute girl with a nice personality. How did she not see that Ramses is gay? She seems naive as hell and her crazy mother probably chases all men away.

Ashley I thought was the best choice overall but her doubling down on Tyler and his 3 kids was WOW. Not shocking though as DC is a very competitive place to find a quality men. If you're a top-tier guy in DC it's like eating candy. I had a buddy who lived out in DC and he wasn't even a top earner but was dating girls above his SMV (having a decent job, and game gets you far there)

I heard that about DC too. Ashley is above Tyler in SMV. How is she so insecure?

Brittany is pretty cute but IMO to old to be a trophy wife, unless it's for an older man (which I highly doubt she wants but at her age 33, and living in DC.) She is rapidly aging out, can she pull a Jessica from season 1 and find some rich guy? I'm sure but time will tell

Ditzy with a lot of plastic surgery. Correct about being too old to be a trophy wife. Most guys will gladly smash though. She needs to find a tech bro. Alpha chads will never wife her.

Alex-is your average lazy girl you'll meet on a dating app, nope I'll pass

Pretty girl in the face. Disgusting mom body. Lazy. Rude. Entitled. Just an all around bvtch. Tim should have left in Cabo. He stuck around for TV.

 

[Solomon]

Yo. Great run down. Nailed it. Overall I think the chicks were mostly good looking but all crazy, old, snf



Monica is hot. Body is better than face. Great gal on paper. As you said, insufferable personality.



Hannah is just an ugly bxtch.



Cute girl with a nice personality. How did she not see that Ramses is gay? She seems naive as hell and her crazy mother probably chases all men away.



I heard that about DC too. Ashley is above Tyler in SMV. How is she so insecure?



Ditzy with a lot of plastic surgery. Correct about being too old to be a trophy wife. Most guys will gladly smash though. She needs to find a tech bro. Alpha chads will never wife her.



Pretty girl in the face. Disgusting mom body. Lazy. Rude. Entitled. Just an all around bvtch. Tim should have left in Cabo. He stuck around for TV.

Alex did lose weight in her defense and looks much better now but her attitude is just the typical attitude you get from modern women, lazy, low effort. Her apartment was terrible the fact that you knew you were going to be on a TV show and they would record and didn't clean up let's you know she is dealing with some depression or major laziness. I don't judge I've been there but man if I knew TV cameras are coming best belive my place would be cleaned. IMO her not cleaning is a deeper issue than laziness but maybe depression or some other issue I hope she got it resolved cause I was embarrassed for her

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I think Ashley is insecure because she was 31(now 32)years old and I think she saw that window for her having a family and kids close. Women don't have a long window to have children yes I know they got IVF and other tech but let's be real after 30 the chances of having HEALTHY children decrease by a huge amount as we know. I think what Ashley said at the wedding that "Finding a man is like going through a clearance rack" This is how a lot of women feel trying to date after 30 especially upward-mobile women. This is why you have the LMS guys chime in yet the reality is the LMS trope doesn't make sense because Ashely settled for a guy with 3 kids, no job, 7 evictions etc. Tyler was average-looking(according to women on reddit lol) but LMS guys will tell he's an outlier when the reality is if you go out in the real world after 30+ women's dating options decrease and men's increase (if they continue the path)

Brittany wants a Leonardo DiCaprio or a Brad Pitt but she would be just a sidekick for those types and she knows it. IMO Brittany is far hotter than Stacy from season5 and I like her bubbly personality but she is better off marrying a high Earning Beta which IMO she could get but she has had the taste of luxury and for women, once they have that taste it's hard to get back to regular unless they are forced too. The thing is there are younger and hotter versions of her, blondes like Brittany are a dime a dozen all over the world

 

[EyeBRollin]

Brittany wants a Leonardo DiCaprio or a Brad Pitt but she would be just a sidekick for those types and she knows it. IMO Brittany is far hotter than Stacy from season5 and I like her bubbly personality but she is better off marrying a high Earning Beta which IMO she could get but she has had the taste of luxury and for women, once they have that taste it's hard to get back to regular unless they are forced too. The thing is there are younger and hotter versions of her, blondes like Brittany are a dime a dozen all over the world

Oh, I remember Stacy now. Hot body with a ghoulish face and huge lifestyle demands. Brittany is hotter.

These chicks are all fvcked. Their expectations are all out of whack. They want loyal, rich, alphas. Lololol

 

[zekko]

Ladies, if every man you date does the same thing, the problem is not the men….

There have been many posters here over the years who have promoted the idea that real men should cheat. That it's okay for a man to cheat but not for a woman, because men are meant to be alpha. I don't subscribe to this idea, but a lot of PUA types push it.

 

[EyeBRollin]

There have been many posters here over the years who have promoted the idea that real men should cheat. That it's okay for a man to cheat but not for a woman, because men are meant to be alpha. I don't subscribe to this idea, but a lot of PUA types push it.

Yes, I just think in this case why are women this deluded? If she’s had say.. five relationships and they all cheated, why is her expectation still that men should not cheat? Her reality is the direct opposite. 37 years old of data. But she can keep wishing upon a star…

Logical analysis of what she should do- Lower her expectations:

1) find a lower SMV male than she is used to that will be loyal

2) Continue to go for the guys she wants but accept the cheating

Pick one.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I actually have a different take on this: I believe women who claim they've been cheated on multiple times are straight up lying. I do not believe anything they say about relationships anymore because I hear so much outlandish shvt like "when I break up with a guy he gets homocidal/suicidal" oh yeah? Every guy? Sureeeee. They're ALWAYS the victim, it's never her fault.

If a woman dates a man who cheats on her, it doesn't ruin her SMV, if anything the victimhood status helps them.

Even if it is true that he's cheating, it means she either has a horrible vetting/selection process, or is a massive cvnt.

 

[Mike32ct]

She friendzoned the loyal guys. So what’s left? Disloyal guys.

 

[zekko]

1) find a lower SMV male than she is used to that will be loyal
2) Continue to go for the guys she wants but accept the cheating

If she values loyalty, I think she has her priorities crossed about what characteristics she looks for in a man.
If she plays the passive role in dating like most women (meaning she chooses from the guys who approach her), that might be working against her as well. She may be going for guys who are always asking women for dates, their numbers, etc.