What would you estimate your rejection rate is?

[GoodMan32]

Some guy on here was telling me 90% of men get rejected 90% of the time.

I'd say the topic warrants a thread of its own.

Although I admit I could be wrong, I have my doubts about his claim. As a man who's been rejected over 90% of the time (and has extremely low self-esteem because of it), I was under the impression a lot of men have rejection rates closer to 50/50.

So I'd like to hear everyone's input.

 

[Doctor Doom]

My experience, rejection rate is low because I let the women come to me. I only select the ones with the highest interest.

Keep in mind, rejection rate gets lower with patience. Being hasty increases the dude’s rejection rate because he’s swinging for anything.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Apples to oranges. One guy only asks out girls he is sure like him. The other guy spam mass approaches.

 

[zekko]

Apples to oranges. One guy only asks out girls he is sure like him. The other guy spam mass approaches.

Yeah, it depends on your approach. If you do totally random approaches, the 90% reject rate is probably correct. If you choose prospects from women you already know, it's probably a lot less.

 

[Isildur1]

From daygame there where different rejection rates -
Out of around 100 approaches roughly would gleen 4-6 dates and 4-6 dates would then gleen 1-2 lays of course there’s a lot of variance you’d need someone to do 500-100 approaches to get better numerical analysis - sometimes there would be lmr other dates would go bad for other reasons - poor mismatch etc.

Of course my rejection rates would vary from nation to nation- for example in London my rejection rates would be far higher than Shanghai - Ukraine my rejection rate would be higher than Brazil

so from city to city there are huge variances

 

[Isildur1]

Also depends what you define as rejection- if it leads to a date but the date flops I still see that as “interest” or a success to some degree . If you’re looking at direct to lays then yeah roughly 97-98 percent “rejection rate”

 

[plumber]

my rejection rate is about equal to the rate that I reject, not exactly but close.