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jhonny9546

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As a teenager, I had a teasing, direct, and playful behaviour; I would make sounds and invent words that I then saw others replicate. It was as if I had an influence on them, and they had "absorbed" some of my behaviors.

As I grew older, my behavior changed to become more reserved, quiet, serious, and profound. Many times, I am considered attractive for the "mystery" aura I manage to create, but when it comes to being playful, I can no longer do it like I used to. Infact I've noted people to replicate my "healthy" habits rather than my behaviour.

However, I notice that there are men my age who still exhibit the behavior I had in my adolescence and who manage to have much more influence than I do.

Now, I'm not an expert, but understanding which of the two behaviors is more suitable for a mature man would really help me understand how I should behave because I believe that in some situations I suppress my behavior.

Also, I do think that if other people emulate you, it's like their entering your frame.
 

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When you mature, your humour also matures. So a mature man is less 'playful' but the teasing becomes more naughty/mischievous. Possibly, the mischief might be the extremely horny type. Or intrigue. Intrigue is good too.
 

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When you mature, your humour also matures. So a mature man is less 'playful' but the teasing becomes more naughty/mischievous. Possibly, the mischief might be the extremely horny type. Or intrigue. Intrigue is good too.
This really makes things in perspective!
So, which are some good example of those "naughty/mischievous" teasing a mature men would do?
Maybe do a comparision with the less mature and childish guy
 

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As a teenager, I had a teasing, direct, and playful behaviour; I would make sounds and invent words that I then saw others replicate. It was as if I had an influence on them, and they had "absorbed" some of my behaviors.
You were extremely proficient at convincing healthy people to act like retards... Have you considered a career in politics? You clearly possess the necessary talents
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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jhonny9546

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You were extremely proficient at convincing healthy people to act like retards... Have you considered a career in politics? You clearly possess the necessary talents
Which are those talents you mention? I can see them in some people around me, because of the fact "You were extremely proficient at convincing healthy people to act like retards".
I think I've lost those qualities growing up
 
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